摘要：Keyword: Key Word : mothers, anxiety, dealing, child, adolescentAbstrack:ABSTRACT :The research aims to find out about the anxiety women facing at the adolescent age of the eldest child and the causes. The research questions are how the illustration of anxiety experienced by others in facing the eldest child in adolescence and what factors are affecting it. The method used in this study is a qualitative study using triangulation theory and sources analyzed in some cases associated with the theories that have been there. Techniques used in this study are interviews with the general guidelines and observations carried out research on three subjects to compare the picture and the factors of parental anxiety in the face of the eldest child with their teens. These results indicate that the anxiety experienced by mothers can be seen from the four symptoms of anxiety is the manifestation of the subjects experienced cognitive anxiety, which causes difficulty concentrating, restlessness and difficulty sleeping. Anxiety is manifested into motor behavior that causes the subject to movements irregular and not directed without realizing it. Later in somatic manifestations of anxiety in the form of physical and biological reactions that cause the subject is in a situation that causes anxiety. Last is the anxiety of affection is the individual feelings of anxiety that cause concern, fear, The factors that cause maternal anxiety to the eldest child in adolescence than the symptoms of anxiety
