摘要：Key Word : self adjustment, daughter in law, home, different tribesABSTRACT :Adjust to something new is not easy. Faced with these changes the businessneeds of the individual concerned. This is related to the couple who lived in thehouse-in-law, when in-laws have the same background with the law, then thiscan reduce the difficulties experienced by the law. But if the in-laws have adifferent background with the law, then the law must be better atadjusting. Adjustment in-law's house is not easy. In this case-law of womenshould attempt to deal with the changes in the new environment. When in-lawshave the same background with the law, then this can reduce the difficulties ofadjusting to law. But if it is-in-law has a different background with the law, thenthe law must be better at adjusting again. Individuals who come from differentcultural backgrounds and eventually married, found himself in conflict becauseeach of them started this relationship with a different basic assumptions. Giventhe differences in cultural background is, the pairing becomes more difficult toadjust in marriage. This study aims to get the full picture of how the adjustmentdaughter-in-law who stay at home a different tribe, what factors are affectingand what problems may arise in the relationship between them. The approachused in this research is a qualitative approach in the form of case studies.Subjects in this study were women who had married and stayed home-in-law ofdifferent tribes. Data collection techniques used were conventional and informalinterviews and participant observation and structured. Based on research resultsobtained can be concluded that the subject has a good adjustment, such as:having an accurate perception of reality, subject to adjust in-law's house byfollowing the rules in-law's house. Able to cope or deal with stress and anxiety,the subject is not easy to stress in dealing with problems that arise during thestay at home-in-law. Having positive self-image, the subject is not easilyaffected by things that are negative, this is because the subject can control hislife and spent much time on things that are positive. Able to express theirfeelings by crying, laughing and showing his emotions in reality and incontrol. There are three factors that affect the adjustment affects the subject,namely: stress factors, external factors and internal factors. Stress factors such asthe problems that arise lead to stress and making the subject the subject to bereluctant to adjust in-law's house, external factors such as the husband and thesubject of women-in-law was instrumental in the adjustment process is donesubject to the present, marked by internal factors adjustment be subject to thepresent, this is due to the desire of his own self is very strong subject to beaccepted in-law's house. Of the three factors are internal factors that mostinfluence the adjustment process of doing the subject until now. The problemsthat arise when the subject-in-law stay at home a different tribe from theseexternal issues are marked with an attitude that the subject of women-in-lawagreed to the marriage is less because the subject did not come from Padang,this causes the subject of women-in-law to match the subject's husband withanother woman who simplex Padang It also can subject many women-in-law tointervene in the care of his son-in-law this is because women think the subject isnot able to take care of her son and could not accept the subject as law.
