Addressing religious differences in therapy: a case study from behind bars.
Aten, Jamie D.
The purpose of this case study is to provide an example of how
conflict can arise in therapy when therapists and clients hold opposing
worldviews. Moreover, conceptual guidelines will be outlined that
clinicians can implement to address problems that arise from religious
differences by sharing my own experience. These guidelines for working
through religious differences grew out of my clinical work as a
correctional therapist at a maximum-security male facility. The steps
that I will outline for successfully addressing religious differences
developed from my clinical work with Bill (pseudo name), a 22-year-old
offender who presented to therapy with dysthymic disorder. By no means
are the guidelines offered meant to be seen as an all inclusive list,
but rather are offered as a starting place for addressing religious
differences. I also realize that this case study may in some regards be
viewed as ungeneralizable to most clinicians because of the setting or
unique characteristics of the client. However, I hope that the
uniqueness of this example will make the principles that are to follow
salient. All though these guidelines were derived from within the walls
of a correctional facility, their application supercedes such settings.
The Setting
Several years ago I worked as a correctional therapist at a
maximum-security correctional facility for men. My primary duties
entailed providing individual and group counseling services to youthful
offenders who were incarcerated as adults. Most of the clients I worked
with were between the ages of 15 and 22. The majority were either tried
as adults because of extensive criminal histories or because their crime
was severe enough to warrant such a sentencing. The sentences that were
handed down to the clients I worked with ranged from as short as a few
months (this was extremely rare) to life (sometimes several life
sentences). My office was literally a converted prison cell along the
"block." The housing unit resembled a large empty gymnasium
made of concrete, with cells along three of the four walls, each cell
housing two inmates, for a total of 90 offenders.
The Client
Bill was a 22-year-old Caucasian male client who had struggled with
dysthymic disorder for approximately three years. The client had not
sought previous mental health services because, "My mom was
depressed, and I know I ain't got it that bad." Still, he
reported that he felt "numb all the time" and that he
"just can't seem to shake it." Problems sleeping, feeling
worn-out, poor self-esteem, and feelings of hopelessness further
characterized Bill's experience. He had grown up in a physically
and emotionally abusive household, though he thought of it as
"normal." Isolation and feelings of abandonment marked his
childhood. Bill reported being kicked out of his house by his mother at
age 16, "Because we were so much alike there just wasn't room
in the house for both of us." Shortly after this event he was
arrested and charged with a series of drug related offenses. During our
second session together we worked on developing a treatment plan
together. As we were working collaboratively on the treatment plan, Bill
struggled to articulate his strengths because his focus was set on his
weaknesses. Then after a short stint of silence, Bill offered up a
strength, "My religion is very important to me, in fact, it is
probably the most important aspect of my life."
The "Set Up"
Before working at the correctional facility, I had worked primarily
with faith communities or in faith-based settings. After coming to the
correctional facility, I had worked with very few clients who identified
themselves as religiously committed. So I'm sure I probably sat-up
a little straighter in my chair when Bill told me that his religion was
important to him. I began listening closely to Bill as to how I might be
able to integrate his faith into treatment. Thoughts such as "I
might be able to incorporate scripture into the cognitive restructuring
process," and "maybe I can get him connected with one of the
prison ministries for support" raced through my mind. He went on to
tell me that not only was his belief system important to him, but that
it informed his political views, and that it was "The lens through
which I see the world." Then Bill told me he was an
"Odenist:"
Therapist: "I'm sorry, could you please repeat
that?"
Client: "I'm an Odenist, that is my religion."
Therapist: "I'm not familiar with Odenism, tell me
more."
Client: "My religion is an ancient Northern Scandinavian
religion, it is a pagan religion ... It is a white Aryan religion. And
it is the guiding philosophy behind lots of white supremacy groups. I
consider myself a Nazi ..."
Therapist: Silence.
It was in that moment that I first experienced feelings of anger
for the first time in a session toward a client. "How can he claim
that God gives him the right to hate?" "How can you believe
that?" These were the types of thoughts that came to mind. I fell
silent for most of the rest of the session. My neck and shoulder muscles
got tighter. I grew more uncomfortable. I also felt guilty for feeling
so frustrated with a client. I just wanted the session to end. I felt
like I had been "set-up."
After the session I felt completely confused, "What had just
happened?" I thought to myself. I sat there in my cell converted to
an office, I decided I would just focus on the clinical symptoms and
ignore my client's religion. I soon found this experience
juxtaposed with my recollections of advocating for the use of client
religiosity and spirituality to my peers and colleagues; I found myself
in a paradox. How could I advocate for one client's belief system
to be used as a source of therapeutic gain while intentionally ignoring
another's? More troubling to me still was the question of how do I
work with a person whose religious beliefs differ so greatly from my
own?
Seek Supervision or Consultation
When religious differences create obstacles, mental health
professionals should seek appropriate supervision or consultation.
Survey findings suggest that few mental health professionals receive the
training necessary to competently work with religious or spiritual
issues in therapy (Russell & Yarhouse, 2006; Worthington et al.,
2009). The ethical guidelines and principles outlined by most mental
health organizations, such as the American Psychological Association
(2002), recommend that professionals who fall into this category obtain
supervision or consult with another professional for guidance. In my
case, discussing my client in supervision was the first step to
successfully resolving the conflict I was experiencing. My supervisor
acted as a "sounding board" and helped me to explore and
process the thoughts and emotions I was experiencing as a result of this
particular client. By discussing my case conceptualization of the
client, and by examining my own experience within the context of
supervision, the source of my discomfort became clear. My supervisor
also began to help me work through the strong emotional feelings I was
having.
Differentiate Beliefs
Therapists need to differentiate between their religious beliefs
and their clients' religious beliefs. Why was I having such a
strong emotional and affective reaction toward Bill? What had made me
become so uncomfortable and frustrated with him? Social psychology
studies (e.g., Jones & Harris, 1967) have shown that people tend to
project their personal experience, and even their beliefs onto other
people until disconfirming evidence surfaces. In this particular case I
had over identified with my client, and had done so prematurely. Bill
reported that he grew up in a small rural town, had played a musical
instrument, and was religious; are backgrounds first appeared quite
similar. When he told me during the intake that his religion was
important to him, I made the mistake of projecting my faith tradition
onto him. After he told me that his religion was very important to him,
I immediately started thinking about using spiritual interventions
congruent with my religious ideology. Thus, when Bill told me that his
religion taught hatred and racism, it was as though he was telling me
that what I believed taught hatred and racism. I had not differentiated
between my religious convictions and his religious convictions--I had
made the mistake of assuming.
Take a "Teach Me" Approach and Set Boundaries
Learning about clients' religious belief systems by taking a
"teach-me" approach can help psychotherapists further
differentiate their beliefs from their clients' beliefs.
Implementing this approach with clients can also yield valuable
therapeutic information. As a result of the religious differences that I
had experienced in my early sessions with Bill, I was reluctant to
explore his religious belief system. Furthermore, I knew nothing about
Odenism before meeting Bill, and did not know if I wanted to know more.
However, I decided to be honest with Bill about my lack of familiarity
with his religion and asked him to tell me more about his beliefs. As a
result of this conversation, I was able to garner a more clear
understanding of his religious beliefs, writings, and rituals. This
conversation also gave me the opportunity to use immediacy and set
boundaries with my client. I was able to let him know that I recognized
how important his religion was to him, and that I believe religion can
be a great source of therapeutic gain. At the same time I was honest
with him and told him that my own religious beliefs did not condone
racism, and that I felt very uncomfortable when he used racist language.
Taking a "teach me" approach demonstrated my interest in his
religion, and made our sessions a safe place for him to talk about his
faith. This approach also allowed me to communicate boundaries that
discouraged racism.
Perspective Shift
Counselors can reduce the impact of religious differences by
perspective shifting. The following questions can be asked of clients to
enhance counselors' understanding of their clients' religious
perspective. How did you come to believe what you believe? Are there
significant events in your life that have shaped your religious beliefs?
How does your faith impact your life? Viewing clients' religion
within a cultural context and situational context also enhances this
process. For example, by asking the above questions I found that
Bill's belief in Odenism was relatively new. When he came to prison
he felt vulnerable and isolated:
I had all the white guys telling me
not to talk to the black guys, and all
the black guys telling me to stay
away from the white guys. Here I
was, just a teenager, sitting in a
super-max facility. I didn't want anyone
to know, but I was scared. I
even slept in my boots for the first
week. What was I going to do? There
was no way I could do my "bit"
alone. I felt like I had to choose a
side, so I chose.
Bill believed that joining a white supremacy group would provide
him with the safety, security, and sense of community that he needed.
Likewise, my client stated that two African-American offenders had tried
to assault him early in his sentence, which reinforced the racist
stereotypes that the white supremacy group he joined was teaching him.
The deeper his affiliation with the white supremacy group grew, the
stronger his commitment to Odenism became. Though I held different
religious beliefs than Bill, and disagreed with many of his beliefs and
actions, perspective shifting allowed me to get a glimpse into how he
came to see the world through such a lens.
Listen for Compatible Beliefs
Mental health professionals can address religious differences by
listening and implementing clients' religious beliefs that are
compatible with their theoretical orientation. Even after I understood
the source of my struggles, had differentiated my religion from my
client's religion, set boundaries, and sought to understand how my
client came to believe as he does, I still wondered how I could possibly
use his religion for therapeutic gain. Once again, I took a one-down
learning approach to my client by inquiring specifically about his
religious rituals and practices:
Therapist: "I know we have touched on this just briefly in one
of our last sessions, but could you tell me more about your religious
rituals and practices?"
Client: "Actually, I was in the middle of one when you called
me down, I was practicing thought-watching."
Therapist: "I'm not familiar with thought-watching."
Client: "You see, it's kind of a form of meditation. If I
am going to be strong like my ancestors, then I need to not only be
physically strong, but I also need to be mentally tough."
Therapist: "How do you accomplish that, to become mentally
tough?"
Client: "First you try to block out all the distractions
around you, and then you examine your thought life, and try to bring
your negative thoughts under your will."
Bill did not realize it, but he had just described a religious
ritual that was congruent with a cognitive therapy technique I had
suggested he use about a week earlier. When I first introduced Cognitive
Behavioral Therapy (CBT) to Bill as a means of treating his dysthymic
disorder along with medication, he rejected CBT as
"psychobabble." However, I was able to implement several CBT
strategies and techniques by using his religious language to describe
them. By approaching Bill in this manner, I was able to utilize specific
religious rituals from his faith perspective that were also congruent
with my theoretical orientation.
Engage in On-Going Self-Reflection
To reduce any negative impact of religious differences therapists
should engage in on-going self-reflection. Informal methods of
self-reflection that can be implemented to counter this problem include
monitoring one's feelings and thoughts toward religious clients.
Socratic questioning can also be engaged in throughout the therapeutic
process with religious clients to heighten therapists'
self-awareness. What does my client believe? How might this impact their
treatment? How is my worldview similar to this client? How is my
worldview different from what this client believes? How might my
worldview impact this client's treatment? These are just a few
examples of the type of questions that I asked myself when I was working
with Bill, and that can be used to increase therapists' sensitivity
to religious issues. Obtaining a support system, such as meeting with
other professionals regularly, joining a professional organization that
interfaces religion and psychology (e.g., APA Division 36; Christian
Association for Psychological Studies), obtaining supervision, and/or
acquiring consultation can be used by mental health professionals to
overcome potential problems that may result from addressing religious
differences.
A more formal method for increasing counselors' awareness
about their own religious beliefs and heritage is the spiritual genogram
(Frame, 2000). By developing more awareness of their worldview, mental
health professionals can begin to identify how their own beliefs could
potentially lead to religious differences. Similarly, if therapists
suspect that they might be dealing with issues caused by religious
differences, the spiritual genogram can be used to identify the area or
areas of conflict.
Conclusion
The fact that Bill and I adhered to different and opposing
religious beliefs threatened to interfere with the therapeutic process.
Early on I made the mistake of over identifying with my client, and had
projected my worldview onto him when he disclosed that he considered
himself to be a religious person. Thus, I was surprised when he told me
that he held racist views that stemmed directly from his religion. In
that moment I became confused and frustrated with Bill. By (a) seeking
supervision, (b) differentiating between my beliefs and my clients
beliefs, (c) taking a one-down learning approach, (d) setting
boundaries, (e) perspective shifting, (f) listening for compatible
beliefs, and (g) engaging in ongoing self-reflection, I was able to work
through the frustration that stemmed from our religious differences.
I believe these steps and experience opened the door for positive
change for both my client and myself. For me, it helped me grow as a
therapist. The experience helped me continue to learn about myself as a
professional helper and to learn new clinical skills. For Bill, it
helped him grow as a person. Over our months of work together, Bill made
significant gains in reducing his dysthimic symptoms. Further, on my
last day at the facility, Bill stopped me on my way out to say thank
you. He also disclosed that he had been thinking a lot about all our
conversations, and as he was getting closer to his parole, he had begun
to differentiate between the beliefs that he felt were truly his and
those he felt forced into adopting--he informed me he was planning on
leaving the Aryan group once he was released. It is hoped that this case
study will raise clinicians' awareness of problems that result from
religious differences, as well as the positive possibilities and the
guidelines that evolved will aid clinicians in addressing such issues.
Jamie D. Aten, Ph.D.
Wheaton College
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