Grief, hope, and prophetic imagination: psychoanalysis and Christian tradition in dialogue.
Wright, Ronald W. ; Strawn, Brad D.
The Loss of Tradition and Ramifications for Psychoanalysis
Over the past 40 years there has been a profound shift in the
manner in which the philosophy of the natural and social sciences has
been understood (Bernstein, 1983). There has been a gradual moving away
from understandings of science as providing an "objective",
"neutral", and pristine picture of the natural and social
world towards understandings that view the scientific endeavor as always
being reliant on paradigms, interpretations, and metaphors (Kuhn, 1970).
Part of what this critique has revealed is the manner in which moral
assumptions inherent in the scientific method and its theoretical
outcomes are never examined but taken to be "natural". Thus,
the autonomous, neutral, rational, utilitarian, and self-interested
individual is taken to be the norm and morality and meaning-making are
assumed to be secondary to a scientific knowledge which provides
individual and technical control over one's world. Adding to this
critique of the hidden moral assumptions of scientific theories is the
critique from social constructivism, which suggests that all theory is
socially/culturally/historically embedded and makes sense only within
those particular dynamics. Thus, for the constructivist, modern
scientific method and theory need to be embedded and understood within
the historical and cultural milieu characterized by the period of the
Enlightenment in the West, but cannot be easily generalized across time,
history, and culture.
Psychoanalytic theories are not immune from these critiques, as
implicit in most of these theories are universal assumptions about human
nature as well as a vision of the good life or what type of life humans
should live. That is, psychoanalytic theories often fail to situate
themselves historically and culturally, as well as fail to state the
moral background of their assumptions. These failures reflect the manner
in which the discipline of psychoanalysis is a descendant of what
Alasdair Maclntyre (1984) calls the "Enlightenment Project" as
well as a descendant of the successor to the Enlightenment which he
broadly terms "emotivism."
The Enlightenment Project was largely an attempt to discover
universal truth disconnected from history, culture, and tradition. For
MacIntyre (1984), the problem with this approach was that moral and
ethical terms became disconnected and unmoored from the larger moral
scheme and context which had made sense of them in the first place.
Within the former Aristotelian traditions, according to Maclntyre, there
was a three-fold moral scheme 1) untutored-humannature-as-is, 2)
human-nature-as-it-could-be-if-it-realized-its-telos, and 3) the
virtues, ethical precepts, and moral injunctions by which one moved from
untutored human nature towards one's purpose or telos. When the
notion of telos was rejected during the Enlightenment, moral philosophy
attempted to hold together notions of human nature with moral
injunctions (often at odds with human nature) through appeal to
universal rationality. This project "failed" because the
teleological understanding of humanity and the social contexts within
which moral behaviors were intelligible were no longer present and no
appeal to rational justification could overcome the loss of these
aspects (Maclntyre, 1984).
With the failure of rational explanations for moral behavior, moral
authority shifted from external sources to internal sources, from
communal sources to individual sources. This shift is reflected in the
rise of emotivism, which asserts that all moral judgments are nothing
but expressions of preference. Nietzsche, understanding the logical
implications of emotivism, argued that if there is nothing to morality
but expressions of will, then morality can only be what the individual
will creates (Maclntyre, 1984). Thus, morality and the good life are
shifted to what the individual thinks/feels it should be for him or her.
MacIntyre's (1984) analysis suggests that the current
inability to rationally justify any moral stance in the public realm
(hence we experience in the culture unwinnable conflict and arguments
over abortion, poverty, war, etc.) is a reflection of the manner in
which emotivism has won the day. Emotivism has correctly demonstrated
that there are no rational, universal justifications for morality that
are disconnected from tradition. For Maclntyre (1984), though, the
rejection of tradition during the Enlightenment was premature and
unnecessary and it is the notion of tradition, along with its
concomitant package of telos, virtues, and practices, which presents a
viable alternative to Nietzschean emotivism.
In an attempt to exemplify what this means for psychoanalysis, we
will now turn to the specific psychoanalytic theory of Peter Shabad, as
a kind of "test case" for the above argument. First, a
clinical vignette is used to demonstrate the utility of this way of
working psychoanalytically. In an attempt to avoid emotivism, we will
then place Shabad's work in conversation with the rich Christian
tradition of the prophets via the writing of Walter Brueggeman. It is
our contention that both psychoanalysis and Christianity need one
another to develop a thick tradition from which to make ethical,
teleological, and practical claims.
The Grieving work of Psychoanalysis: Therapeutic Vignette
Mark was in his second year of twice-weekly psychoanalytic
psychotherapy and although not clinically depressed was feeling terribly
down. In a session that would prove pivotal to Mark's work, he
entered his hour and began to discuss his belief that he might need
medication. This was not a decision Mark came to flippantly, because at
some level he felt that taking medication might be admitting a kind of
weakness. He had done his homework and identified a psychiatrist through
his insurance. He would need a letter from his analyst indicating that
he was already in therapy.
After Mark laid out his plan there was silence. In the quiet Mark
felt nervous. His analyst then spoke, "I'd like for us to talk
about your wish for me to write a letter." Mark fell mute. Quite
suddenly he felt overwhelming waves of sadness and he began to weep. He
was speechless for some time.
When his analyst asked him to explore the tears, all Mark could say
was, "I don't understand why you won't write a letter for
me." To this the analyst gently replied, "I didn't say I
wouldn't write a letter, but I did suggest we talk about it."
Mark began to talk about how badly he had recently been feeling and how
he wanted nothing more than to feel better. He talked about how
desperately he needed his analyst's help and how her response felt
as if she was saying that she wouldn't or couldn't help him.
After much exploration Mark's analyst finally interpreted,
"I think that given the history of terrible disappointment that you
experienced with your mother, you have held on to a kind of wish that
someone out there might be able to change everything for you, fix you,
make you feel okay, put you back together again in the same way that a
part of you hopes that your actual mother might still see and
acknowledge you. And when I said 'let's talk about writing a
letter' what you heard was, 'I won't and I can't
help you'. And that awoke a very deep grief in you--a grief you
have been hiding even from yourself--that there is no person or event
out there that can make up for what you never received from your
mother."
Understanding this pivotal moment in therapy actually took many
sessions. This exchange became a kind of fulcrum point in therapy that
encapsulated the majority of the work. Mark had indeed been aware of the
disillusionment that he had suffered with his mother but he was unaware
of the unconscious wish he had created as a defense against this
grief--a wish that somewhere there would be a person or event that would
undo his pain and make him whole again. Mark entered every relationship
with this unconscious wish only to be consistently disappointed. His
wish was so strong and so unrealistic that he would inadvertently push
others away --making them feel that they were never quite good
enough--just as he had felt as a small boy.
Peter Shabad: Despair and the Return of Hope
Contemporary clinical psychology has rightfully critiqued
psychotherapy theory for being obsessed with pathology. As a
counter-reaction, the positive psychology movement has emphasized
resiliency, strengths, and resources found within clients. While we find
this a helpful corrective, we offer an alternative path found within
psychoanalysis and Christian theology that we believe offers a conduit
toward realistic hope. We believe it is the loss of the ability to
lament and express anger, so frequently found within Christian
communities, that leads to incomplete mourning and repetition and blocks
the path to true hope and healing. We will utilize psychoanalytic
theory, specifically the work of Dr. Peter Shabad (1993, 2001) on the
intergenerational transmission of traumatic themes, and place
Shabad's work into dialogue with the Christian prophetic tradition
as outlined by Walter Brueggemann (2001). We will argue that when
psychoanalysis and the Christian tradition are held within a dialogical
tension, there is a resonance and mutual enrichment that demonstrates
mourning as the necessary mechanism of the rebirth of hope. While
psychology has, perhaps, been too focused on pathology, it is our
contention that the central role of grief in psychotherapy has been
unduly overlooked.
Mourning the Loss of the Wish
As a psychoanalytic theorist, Peter Shabad (1993, 2001) is somewhat
difficult to neatly categorize. He may be conceptualized as a
contemporary relational psychoanalyst (small "r") with deep
indebtedness to Object Relations--including the British Middle
School--as well as Self Psychology. Furthermore, he seems to find
affinity with contemporary Relational psychoanalysis (capital
"R"). While not a classic Freudian in any sense, Dr. Shabad is
more of a theoretical integrator. His psychoanalytic anthropology
includes internal representations, true and false selves, and
intrapsychic conflict as well as interpersonal reality. He speaks of
"good enough" parents and psychic trauma--as well as
unconscious wishes and defenses. All of his contemporary psychodynamic
understanding is further embedded in a rich background of philosophical
existentialism. Shabad's conceptualization of human development and
relationships must be understood in light of this philosophical bent.
Central to his theorizing is the manner in which individuals deal with
death, the loan of life, authenticity, passion, self-actualization, and
meaning.
In his 2001 book, Dr. Shabad covers an impressive breadth of
territory. He is truly a prosaic psychoanalyst--citing philosophy and
literature--in addition to integrating a vast knowledge of
psychoanalysis. His book is also filled with impressively written case
vignettes that helpfully illuminate his central concepts. We will limit
ourselves to one primary theme, the compulsion to repeat, that he picks
up from his 1993 paper Repetition and Incomplete Mourning: The
Intergenerational Transmission of Traumatic Themes.
When a child experiences chronic disillusionments from caregivers,
over time these become what Shabad (1993) calls "traumatic
themes". The traumatic theme is a "chronic pattern of
frustrating childhood experiences suffered at the hands of significant
others, which, when repeated day after day over a number of years, may
cumulatively take on the emotional significance of a trauma" (1993,
p. 65). Shabad further writes, "... the helplessness engendered by
the traumatic theme derives from the child's continued incapacity
to change the parent into a wished-for figure" (p. 65). The
traumatic themes, and the subsequent wished-for relationship with the
parent, are repressed. This defensive repression is a kind of clinging
to the previous wished for generation, yet as Shabad points out, by
burying the wish it returns from the repressed "with an all
consuming vengeance" (p. 66). In fact, the child, now grown,
attempts unconsciously, to be reconciled to the wished-for parent by an
act of imitative repetition with the parent. In the case vignette above,
we can witness the intergenerational transmission of Mark and his
mother's traumatic theme. Mark joins his mother in her misery by
duplicating her behavior. She never felt that she was good enough and
she visited this on Mark causing him to never feel good enough. Mark now
in turn plays that out in all his relationships causing them to end
poorly, confirming for Mark that he indeed is not enough. Mark's
mother was miserable and Mark stays intrapsychically connected with her
by also being miserable.
Shabad (1993, 2001) points out that by internalizing these
sadomasochistic interactions with the caregiver, the child (now adult)
engages in a kind of "identification with the aggressor". But
this internalization with the parent, however painful it may be,
unconsciously serves as a means to stay connected with the wished-for
parent (a kind of loyalty if you will) and serves as a defense against
the acceptance of what really took place. We would describe it as a
defense against the loss of hope that things were in fact different
and/or that they can somehow magically be different in the future. But
Shabad points out that leaving these wishes and the compulsion to repeat
behind and to live into a life based more in reality and realistic hope
requires mourning.
What I mean by mourning here is
not so much a close emotional
encounter with what one has lost .
but a reintegrative experience--specifically,
a reintegration of unconscious
wishes that had been disowned
because of their painful links
with the chronic disillusionment specific
to one's traumatic theme(s). It is
through consciously reclaiming and
elaborating on previously unconscious
wishes to undo the traumatic
theme that one is also able to gain
access to a vision of one's ideal childhood
and, in so doing, open up with
renewed hope to the possibilities of a
less circumscribed life for oneself and
one's children." (p. 62)
This process of grief and reintegration can sneak up on a
client--often in the transference--as it did with Mark. What is grieved
and lamented in this process is the loss of hope of the wished-for
parent and/or wished for experience that will bring
completeness/healing, etc. For some patients, this is the loss of the
fantasized ideal parent, ideal self, or ideal childhood. And it may also
be the loss of the wish that the parent will someday still give supply
the patient with what they desperately want and need.
In therapy, this mourning process may be strongly resisted. The
patient may fight with the therapist in an attempt to protect the
long-held "wished-for" representation of their parent. To give
up on one's parents or to criticize them, even if they are only the
internalized and idealized parents of one's childhood, is akin to
terrible disloyalty and may bring tremendous guilt (Shabad, 2001). But
if the patient and therapist succeed in this process a period of acute
pain may develop. The patient may cry out, demand justice, threaten to
give up on both themselves and others; they may enter despair. Their
cries may have a haunting similarity to the numerous lament Psalms of
the Hebrew Scriptures. But it is precisely through this painful mourning
that one begins to restructure one's life. Hans Loewald (1978)
captures this process:
Mourning is a psychic activity that
comprises the relinquishment of intimate
object relations and the reestablishment,
in the internal area[,] of
elements of these object relations by
identificatory processes. In mourning,
an object relationship is gradually
given up, involving pain and suffering,
and is substituted by a restructuring
of the internal world which is in
consonance with the relinquished
relationship. (pp. 45-46)
We believe with Shabad that it is only by this process of mourning
that individuals can truly be liberated from the compulsion to repeat
and enter into life with realistic hope.
Some Affirmations and Cautionary Questions
There is much to applaud and embrace in Shabad's work. His
understanding of the connection between negative illusions, symptoms as
commemorations, and experiences of disillusionment, as well as the need
for someone to assist in authentically bearing witness to those
experiences, is profound. The commitment Shabad displays to the
importance of integrated self-awareness and his relational understanding
of how that integration occurs in therapy is helpful and inspiring. But
as psychotherapists that happen to be Christians--steeped within the
Judeo-Christian perspective--we must stop and ask what our faith
tradition has to do with our client Mark and his therapy. Should we
uncritically embrace this psychoanalytic theory and practice as outlined
by Dr. Shabad? Or is there a dialogue that we must enter into between
psychoanalysis and our own faith tradition? What is the role of
Mark's larger context? Is he best described as the product of not
"good enough parenting"? Is he nothing more than a false and
empty self that needs to be filled up through a relationship with an
authentic therapist? How is he impacted by the larger Western
consumerist culture in which he lives? And for that matter, how does
this culture impact the very development of Shabad's psychoanalytic
epistemology?
Psychoanalysis as Moral Discourse
Psychoanalysis is never apolitical or amoral nor is it, as noted
earlier, ahistorical or acultural. Yet psychoanalysis has, more often
than not, reflected and propagated notions of self-contained
individualism which focus on autonomy, expressiveness,
attention-seeking, entitlement, and self-centeredness as universal modes
of being. Underneath these notions are historically and culturally
conditioned moral claims about what is the proper way of being human.
Philip Cushman (1995) has argued that psychotherapy is actually moral
discourse and proposed that, "... we can conceptualize
psychotherapy as a set of interactions that embody a competing and
alternative moral frame that challenges the one to which patients have
been previously committed" (p. 295). Within this paradigm the
therapeutic relationship is never understood as being objective or
value-neutral, but as always entailing the confrontation of two
differing "moral landscapes" embodied in the therapist and the
patient. In this perspective, psychoanalysis cannot help but to be
entangled in moral questions about what it means to be human and what
the good life is for humanity.
Peter Shabad's work reflects the tendency within
psychoanalysis to assume a universal status for its conceptions of
humanity and a value-neutral morality. In his book Despair and the
Return of Hope: Echoes of Mourning in Psychotherapy, Shabad (2001)
focuses on dyadic interactions within an astute and nuanced integration
of Winnicottian, Self Psychology, and existential frameworks that
greatly expand on the insights of each of these paradigms. Throughout,
though, he assumes a Western self and caregiving approach that is
presented as natural or universal. Perhaps it could be argued that
Shabad is describing an understanding of humanity and parenting
practices which reflect a particular configuration of the Western self
in the late 20th century/early 21st century rather than a universal
process.
In keeping the attention on dyadic interactions and the role of
pathological accommodation leading to False Self development, however,
the role of social and economic forces which may contribute to this
dynamic are hidden. What are the economic pressures that may play a role
in parents feeling overwhelmed and unable to "mirror" or
accept their child as a "gift"? Noting these larger economic
forces, John Bowlby (1988) writes, "Man and woman power devoted to
the production of material goods counts a plus in all of our economic
indices. Man and woman power devoted to the production of happy,
healthy, and self-reliant children in their own homes does not count at
all. We have created a topsy-turvy world [emphasis added]" (p. 2).
Particularly given the preponderance of psychoanalytic literature in the
past forty years addressing False Self development, narcissistic
wounding, and patients' lack of vitality and authenticity, we might
begin to wonder if there are larger social and historical forces at work
that need to be illuminated.
As for a vision of the good life, Shabad's vision of the
healthy individual is one who has chosen to risk connection to others in
part because of the feelings of authenticity this allows in the
unfolding of the True Self. We are left with the assertion that a life
lived authentically, "to choose oneself" in Kierkegaard's
terms, is better than a life lived defensively but without any rational
justification for why this type of life is better than any other. While
we concur with his conclusion that "risking connection" is
crucial, we worry that the only resource within psychoanalysis to
support this claim is an appeal to a universal ethic of mutuality
grounded in the feelings of authenticity and vitality the individual
experiences, which then allows them to actualize their True Self. The
grounding of life on something as potentially fleeting and variable as
feelings and experience does not seem to do justice to the serious
commitments and obligations living life actually entails. At the
conclusion of Despair and the Return of Hope Shabad (2001) writes:
In the end, we must look back and
answer for how we have conducted
ourselves during life's journey. Have
we used our lives fully with the fires
of our passion? Have we been open
enough to use the opportunities
available to us? Have we kept faith
with our conscience that weaves
together our mutual destinies? We are
ultimately responsible for realizing
the personal truths that connect us to
others--nothing less. (p. 313)
In this quote the individualistic and emotivist assumptions of
Shabad became quite visible, as there are no explicit external or
transcendent guidelines (although one might argue there are many
implicit guidelines assumed by Shabad) for how one is to use their
passion, openness, conscience, or personal truths. But this begs the
question, how do we evaluate our lives? For what purpose or end is my
life directed? What should my passion, openness, and authenticity be
used for? For what ends should I connect myself to others? Here Shabad,
and psychoanalysis, cannot provide an answer other than the emotivist
position of individual preference.
Practicing Liberation: The Prophetic Imagination in Dialogue with
Relational Psychoanalysis
So far, we have noted two concerns: 1) Psychoanalysis, and in
particular the psychoanalytic framework of Peter Shabad, is ultimately
grounded in a morality of "emotivism" or individual preference
that provides weak or "thin" justifications for why one should
face grief in hopes of beginning to live with "passion". In
terms of addressing this latter concern we will attempt to put
Christianity, through the theology of Walter Brueggemann, into dialogue
with Shabad's psychoanalytic framework, and 2) Within the worship
practices of evangelical Christianity there seems to be little room for
the expression of negative emotions, such as grief, lamentation, and/or
anger and we have highlighted the work of Peter Shabad as providing a
practical, relational and incarnational psychoanalytic framework that
can dialogue with Christianity about the manner in which despair and
grief are linked with the rebirth of hope.
We view this dialogue as allowing an enrichment and
"thickening" of psychoanalysis (via Shabad) and Christianity
(via Brueggemann). Rather than a heroic, individual choice or feeling,
the Christian tradition can provide a telos or purpose for human life
and hope that is tied to a larger, transcendent vision of the moral and
social world, while psychoanalysis provides Christianity with a rich
description of the embodied and relational context for the movement from
lament and despair to hope. Reciprocity of this type allows for these
two differing sources to mutually illuminate or "problematize"
aspects of each and in so doing, this "dialectical interplay"
of a hermeneutic of suspicion with a hermeneutic of faith (Ricoeur,
1970), allows for something new to emerge that would not have been if
not for the dialectic. Sorenson (2004) writes, "This makes for a
dialogical hermeneutic of unmasking and demystification alongside
another hermeneutic that recollects or restores meaning (in the root
sense of religion: religare, to gather together)" (p. 167). In this
dialogue, psychoanalysis and Christianity need each other.
A starting point for this type of dialogue can be found in the work
that has been done suggesting that a Trinitarian understanding of God
(Jones, 2008; Wright, 2007) provides a conception of humanity in terms
of the imago Dei. This concept in turn resonates with relational
psychoanalytic assumptions of the inherently relational matrix of human
personhood. Furthermore, the imago Dei suggests a developmental
trajectory as well (Balswick, King, & Reimer, 2005), that is humans
are to become selves-in-community living in mutual interdependence with
God, others, and the created order that is animated by self-giving love.
This relational ontology suggests that the full range of human emotions
(or pathos) within relationships is to be expected. In addressing what
humans ought to be, space is created for evaluation of life. Part of
this evaluation for the Church includes addressing any forces (cultural,
social, interpersonal, intrapsychic) that play a role in keeping humans
from becoming what they are meant to be. It is these "practices of
liberation" (Jones, 2008), particularly the prophetic ministry as
explored by Walter Brueggemann (2001), that we will put into dialogue
with Shabad's work.
For Brueggemann (2001), God is a God of freedom who enters into a
covenantal relationship, characterized by presence and divine pathos,
with all of creation. God is with us and for us. This theological
understanding of God must, however, be tied to social practices (e.g.
economics, politics) for how life is lived in the world. The Church is
the community which lives out the corresponding politics and practices
of justice and compassion and bears witness to the God of freedom who is
at work in redeeming creation and humanity. Brueggemann (2001) writes:
Our sociology is predictably derived
from, legitimated by, and reflective of
our theology ... if a God is disclosed
who is free to come and go, free
from and even against the regime,
free to hear and even answer slave
cries, free from all proper goodness
as defined by the empire, then it will
bear decisively upon sociology
because the freedom of God will surface
in the brickyards and manifest
itself as justice and compassion. (p. 8)
As psychological liberation is intimately tied up with social
liberation (and liberation for the whole of creation); bearing witness
to the God of freedom through living out justice and compassion requires
practices of liberation that address multiple levels of life.
The practice of liberation begins with what Brueggemann (2001)
calls the "prophetic imagination" which criticizes and
dismantles current consciousness, or ways of viewing reality, and
energizes movement through the emergence of an alternative
consciousness. He writes, ". prophetic ministry consists of
offering an alternative perception of reality and in letting people see
their own history in the light of God's freedom and his will for
justice" (p. 116). What is now does not mean what will be for the
God of freedom and God's people. But what does this look like? To
understand this prophetic imagination more completely we will examine
Brueggemann's understanding of imperial reality or "royal
consciousness", and the manner in which the language of grief is
used to penetrate numbness.
Brueggemann (2001) views the prophetic imagination as beginning
with the confrontation between Moses and Pharaoh and the manner in which
Moses out imagines Pharaoh. Moses is confronted with "imperial
reality" and the "static gods" of Egypt, which have
resulted in the politics of oppression and exploitation. This imperial
reality is experienced as an "eternal now" or a
"forever" where there is little hope for change. The existence
of this "royal consciousness" is not just something under
Pharaoh's jurisdiction, but presents itself as an ongoing social
(and we might argue, personal) reality throughout time and history.
Wherever there are economics of affluence, oppressive social policies,
and a God only of immanence, we can find ourselves caught in this
hegemonic consciousness. Brueggemann (2001) writes:
It takes little imagination to see ourselves
in this same royal tradition.
Ourselves in an economics of affluence
in which we are so well off that
pain is not noticed and we can eat
our way around it. Ourselves in a politics
of oppression in which the cries
of the marginal are not heard or are
dismissed as the noises of kooks and
traitors. Ourselves in a religion of
immanence and accessibility, in which
God is so present to us that his abrasiveness,
his absence, his banishment
are not noticed, and the problem is
reduced to psychology. (p. 36)
This royal consciousness redefines our notions of humanness, as
people become objects to be manipulated for self-gain and
humanity's experience becomes alienated from their behavior. It
sets itself against memory as tradition and history are demeaned. Within
it there are only problems to be managed and solved, there are no
mysteries. Only a religion of optimism is allowed within the royal
consciousness because, of course, God is about the business of
justifying and sustaining our way of living. In particular, a royal
conscious has two effects. One, it leads people to numbness, especially
numbness about death. The powerful "forever" assumed by the
royal consciousness refuses to allow endings to come in sight. Two, it
leads people to despair about the potential for newness or change and
thus militates against hope. This is why a prophetic imagination devoted
to the pathos and passion of covenanting is needed.
According to Brueggemann the challenge to the royal consciousness,
and the numbness it engenders, begins with grieving.
And the people of Israel groaned under their bondage, and cried out
for help, and their cry under bondage came up to God. And God heard
their groaning, and God remembered his covenant . And God saw the people
of Israel, and God knew their condition. (Exodus 2: 23-25)
Grief is the "visceral" pronouncement that things are not
right and this allows the numbness to be penetrated. What Israel comes
to realize, after a prolonged period of grieving and crying out, is that
the royal consciousness of Pharaoh can do nothing for them and so they
expect nothing from it anymore. In language reminiscent of
psychoanalysis, this may be a kind of communal grieving of a
"wished-for-empire". Brueggemann (2001) says that this grief
"is the ultimate criticism which leads to dismantling" (p. 13)
perhaps in the same way that the patient's grief may lead to
reintegration (Shabad, 1993) or restructuring (Loewald, 1978). The
insight that the biblical witness provides is that anguish leads to
life, grieving leads to joy, and the embracing of endings leads to new
beginnings (Brueggemann, 2001).
So what are the ramifications of worship practices that implicitly
deny or repress grief and anger? Once again Brueggemann (1995) warns us
of this danger and reminds us of the important role of grief in
Christian worship and theology in his article, "The Costly Loss of
Lament'. Brueggemann draws on Object Relations psychology to
highlight two costs that one must pay if one loses ecclesial
lament/grief: the loss of genuine covenant interaction, and the stifling
of the question of theodicy. Without the opportunity for communal grief,
a false self is created that can only feel joy and that can only offer
God praise. This false self also incorporates a false god: one that can
only hear praise and that will hear nothing of complaint and distress.
Obviously this false self and false god leave no room for Christians to
bring their honest questions of theodicy. And Brueggemann warns that if
we believe that questions of justice are not allowed at the throne, then
they will not be allowed in the public realm and we may unwittingly
endorse unjust systems. Obviously, Israel's deep and wide testimony
to lament and rage will not admit of such a false self or false god.
Like Brueggemann, we have no desire to suggest, "that biblical
faith be reduced to psychological categories"--especially
categories that are not deeply engaged in social contexts. Even so, it
seems to us that the insights from psychoanalysis indicate a further
loss that has not been extensively developed, except by Shabbad (2001,
1993): the loss of the very mechanism by which one can move to hope and
praise precisely through and in the midst of suffering and lament
(Strawn & Strawn, 2001).
Conclusion
We hope it is obvious from this brief introduction that the
dialogical interaction of Shabad's and Brueggemann's work
contributes to a "thickening" of both. Each of them, in many
ways, is about the business of stretching or recreating the imagination
of individuals or communities. We conceptualize the Christian tradition
as providing resources for psychoanalysis that can allow psychoanalysis
to justify its goals. Viewing psychoanalysis as a prophetic ministry and
practice of liberation within the Christian tradition provides a moral
trajectory for psychoanalysis that frees it from its emotivist leanings
and allows it to speak forthrightly about its assumptions of the good
life. The Christian tradition provides a telos for human life that is
broadly compatible with relational psychoanalytic conceptions of human
personhood, which psychoanalysis cannot justify with its own resources.
This telos allows for an evaluation of a life and an evaluation of all
aspects of life (e.g. social, cultural, interpersonal, intrapsychic).
Brueggemann's theological perspective can provide a rich, thick
moral argument for psychoanalysis that reminds us that the social
practices of consumption in 21st Century America are not neutral and
that we will find our imaginations bound and our experiences numbed if
we can find no place for human pathos and the prophetic imagination. We
think this greatly enhances Shabad's work as the social, political,
and economic dimensions of life can be brought into analysis and
understood as contributors to a patient's "royal
consciousness" and brokenness.
The psychoanalytic concern for liberating patients to a life of
passion, vitality, flexibility, and authenticity is provided with
direction when placed within the Christian tradition. Christianity, too,
is concerned with liberating people from numbness and despair to lives
of passion, vitality, and flexibility. But this is done with the hope
that this liberation will allow people to move towards and into the
suffering of others, which bears witness to the God of freedom who has
been present with humanity. Authenticity, within the Christian
tradition, is found in acting in accord with one's purpose and it
is in self-giving, reciprocating love that humanity finds itself looking
like the Triune God in whose image they are made.
We find Shabad's (1993, 2001) emphasis on the relational,
embodied presence of an "other" who enters into another's
suffering experience to bear witness of their reality a focus that is
missing within Brueggemann's theological analysis. In Shabad, we
find the incarnational grounding for the covenanting between God and a
community. God's covenant and promise is seen through and in
embodied relationships. This provides the practical and experiential
understanding that allows us to "imagine" how our mourning may
someday become dancing (Psalm 30:11).
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Ronald W. Wright
Mount Vernon Nazarene University
Brad D. Strawn
Southern Nazarene University
Authors
Ronald W. Wright, (Ph.D., Graduate School of Psychology, Fuller
Theological Seminary, 1997) is a licensed psychologist and Professor of
Psychology at Mount Vernon Nazarene University, Mount Vernon, OH.
Specializations include integration of psychology and theology,
particularly relational psychoanalytic theory and Wesleyan theology, and
qualitative research in altruism and well-being. He is a member of the
Society for the Study of Psychology and Wesleyan Theology.
Brad D. Strawn (Ph.D., Clinical Psychology, M.S., Theology, Fuller
Theological Seminary) is professor, Vice President for Spiritual
Development, and Dean of the Chapel at Southern Nazarene University,
Bethany, OK. and Associate Director of the Society for Exploration of
Psychoanalytic Therapies and Theology. His specialties include
integration of psychology and theology, psychoanalytic psychotherapy,
Wesleyan theology and spiritual formation.
Correspondence concerning this article should be sent to Ronald W.
Wright, Mount Vernon Nazarene University, 800 Martinsburg Road, Mount
Vernon, OH 43050; ron.wright@mvnu.edu