Anya Taylor. Erotic Coleridge: Women, Love, and the Law Against Divorce.
Rzepka, Charles J.
Anya Taylor. Erotic Coleridge: Women, Love, and the Law Against
Divorce. New York, NY: Palgrave Macmillan, 2005. Pp. 219. $74-95.
In Erotic Coleridge: Women, Love, and the Law Against Divorce (now
in its second printing) Anya Taylor's aim is two-fold. First, she
wishes to evoke from Coleridge's love poetry, much of it appearing
for the first time in J. C. C. Mays's recent Poetical Works, a
heretofore "overlooked" master love-poet and Dionysian
"man of joy, whose energy radiates outward to all his activities,
the precocious and passionate lover, the devoted observer of women"
(i). Second, she wishes to defend Coleridge against long-standing
charges of cowardice and fecklessness for not seeking a divorce when it
was clear that his marriage to Sarah Fricker had become a loveless wreck
and he had fallen deeply in love with Sara Hutchinson, soon to become
Wordsworth's sister-in-law. Taylor achieves her second aim by
spelling out the legal impediments and practical impossibility of
obtaining a divorce in the England of Coleridge's day, and the
chapter in which she does so surpasses every other legal analysis of
this sad topic. She succeeds as well in her first aim, but her avowed partiality for her subject leaves us with a portrait in which the
darkness of Coleridge's lapses of character in sexual matters is
often lost in Taylor's incandescent enthusiasm for his erotic joie
de vivre. Nonetheless, she offers perceptive and original
interpretations of the poetry that anyone teaching or writing about it
will be obliged to take into account.
The central strength and importance of Taylor's book lies in
what she has to say about the divorce laws in this period and how they
apply, or do not, to Coleridge's case. Of all the Protestant
nations of Europe, only England made the dissolution of marriage practically impossible for ordinary citizens and excruciating even for
the rich and connected. Just at the time that Coleridge was falling in
love with Sara Hutchinson, the House of Lords began a debate extending
over several months, from March to May of 1800, concerning the divorce
and adultery laws then in force. Those inciting the debate sought,
first, to rescind the legal requirement that wronged husbands expose
themselves to repeated public humiliation by proving their wives
adulterous--and themselves cuckolds--before three separate tribunals,
ecclesiastical, civil, and legislative (this being the House of Lords
itself). Second, the reformers sought to increase the severity of
punishment for adulterous wives by forbidding them to marry their lovers
after a divorce was granted and by making adultery a criminal as well as
a civil offense.
Of crucial relevance to Coleridge's situation is the fact that
only husbands had legal standing to seek a divorce, and only proof of
the wife's infidelity (often provided by a seducer paid off by the
husband) gave adequate grounds for a positive judgment. Because women at
this time had no legal standing before the law except through their
husbands, the only way in which a woman could sue for divorce was under
the more relaxed laws of Scotland and only if her husband was caught in
flagrante delicto, as Hazlitt later contrived to be caught with a
prostitute, thus enabling his wife to release him to marry Sarah Walker.
Coleridge considered such a shabby ploy degrading, and would have been a
villain of the worst dye had he contrived a charge of adultery against
his innocent wife just to be rid of her. Even leaving aside such ethical
questions, pursuing a suit for divorce through the crooked byways and
arcane protocols of the law was prohibitively expensive for all but a
few wealthy gentlemen.
Not only did Coleridge's conscience restrain him from
initiating divorce proceedings, but it also, to his credit, prompted him
to sympathize with women victimized by the current laws. He advised
single women to remain unmarried if at all possible so as to retain
control over their wealth and property instead of ceding it to their
husbands, as the law then required. Taylor's detailed knowledge of
the legal pitfalls and exigencies of the divorce law, of the political
and ideological controversies surrounding marriage, and of the poet, his
works, and his critics, makes this chapter both a delight and a
necessity for anyone working in and around this thorny question.
However, she tends to overestimate its relevance to the controversy
regarding Coleridge's behavior towards his wife and his beloved
over the many years when the one became the incessant torment of his
life and the other its constant temptation.
The most contentious moral questions raised by Coleridge's
marital difficulties have only partly to do with his ability or
inability, willingness or unwillingness, to obtain a divorce once he
knew that his marriage wouldn't work. Why, for instance, knowing
from the start that he did not love Sarah Fricker and believing that
marital sex without love was tantamount to fornication, did he marry her
anyway? Why, knowing and believing these things, did he continue to have
sexual relations with the wife he did not love, even impregnating her
with their third child, after he had fallen head over heels for another
woman? Choosing sides in the long-standing and irresolvable feud between
the partisans of Sam and Sarah, Taylor refuses to acknowledge the
pertinence of such questions even as she cites evidence supporting the
most damning replies to them.
Coleridge's "error in judgment" in marrying Sarah
"will always remain a mystery," writes Taylor (21), before
going on to cite Coleridge's letter to Southey written in December
1794 from London, where the rash Pantisocrat was for all intents and
purposes hiding out: "to marry a woman whom I do not love--to
degrade her, whom I call my Wife, by making her the Instrument of low
desire.... These Refinements are the wildering Fires, that lead me into
Vice. Mark you, Southey!--I will do my Duty" (31). It is legitimate
to ask, "Duty" to whom or to what? Not to God, if that duty
would lead him into vice, nor to Sarah herself, if her own eternal
salvation counted for anything. Perhaps (saddest to contemplate) he
meant his duty to Southey and Pantisocracy, weak reeds both, as it
turned out. In any case, whatever "mystery" may yet attach to
the obligation Coleridge had in mind, the moral compromises it demanded
were, and remain, crystal clear. "Eyes wide open," Taylor
writes, "he enters a marriage that he foresees will be whoredom
mixed with indifference.... He foresees the corruption of his own soul,
and the degradation of hers" (30). If foreseeing, then also
culpable: fully aware that eros without philia will leave only "low
desire," the poet agrees, for whatever reason, to make his wife his
whore. This "erotic Coleridge" is probably not what Taylor
meant by her title. In any case, "eyes wide shut" would better
describe the facts of the matter.
Things only get worse after Coleridge meets Sara Hutchinson. Madly
in love with "Asra," he continued to cohabit with his wife in
London from December 1799 to March 1800, leaving her pregnant upon their
separation and her return to Bristol. "These facts," writes
Taylor, "suggest that as irritating as it was to live in close
quarters together in London, and as passionately as he loved another
woman, he and his wife still had sexual relations" (128). No
"mystery" here, either. It's exactly as the poet foresaw,
only now the moral culpability is much worse: he continues to make Sarah
the "instrument" of his "low desires," while
vigorously pursuing his elective affinities elsewhere. Would it be
unfair to ask in addition why, knowing that he could not get a divorce
(Taylor makes this undeniably clear), Coleridge apparently indicated to
Sara Hutchinson that he would (87)? Or why he encouraged her over the
course of many years to think that their relationship stood the
slightest chance of success without one?
This is not to say that Sarah Fricker could have been easy to live
with, although invoking Levinas to suggest that her "unpleasant
face" may have provoked Coleridge "to harm" her (26)
surely over-reaches in an attempt to render "she asked for it"
philosophically respectable. (For Levinas even unpleasant faces are
sacred.) For those of us who see plenty of blame to go around and no
point in measuring it out, Taylor's unwavering sympathy for her
lover-poet in his marital misadventures distracts more than it edifies.
That sympathy, however, is also the source of her critical strength.
Coleridge's "lingering charm to doddering female scholars like
myself," Taylor writes disarmingly, "lies in his attentiveness
to women's bodies and expressions, his hilarity, his recognition of
the difficulties inherent in women's lives, his own difficulties in
love ... and his humility toward being a person" (5). Her
attraction to and appreciation of these facets of Coleridge's
character enable her to read both old and new works with great and, in
some cases, unprecedented finesse. In all matters literary,
Taylor's critical mind trumps her enchanted heart. Her decipherment
of the marginalia that Coleridge wrote in a copy of Thomas Browne's
Works alluding to his and Sara's mutual passion, for example, is
superbly responsive to the imagined scene of shared reading that the
poet evokes in his lover's mind from a distance of several hundred
miles while living in Malta. The chapter on Christabel bristles with
insights into the psychology of adolescent gifts and the sources of
Coleridge's profound empathy for and understanding of their
situation. And scattered everywhere, in higher or lower concentrations,
are readings of the love poetry that resoundingly affirm the
"erotic Coleridge" of her title, a vigorous, energetic,
expansive, humorous, and deeply passionate figure that will put readers
in mind of Richard Holmes's tireless tramper of stormy Cumbrian
peaks and enthusiastic acolyte of perceptual and psychical mysteries.
One of the finest of Taylor's explications, in my opinion,
comprises several pages of "Sara Hutchinson: Love and
Reading," the chapter she devotes to the love poetry written during
the early years of the Hutchinson affair, beginning with
"Love," which Mays believes was inspired by Coleridge's
first encounter with Sara at Sockburn-on-Tees in late 1799. Taylor
observes that "Love" is constructed, like several better-known
Coleridge poems, as a framed narrative: a male wooer tells the story of
a spumed knight's rescue, at the cost of his own life, of the lady
who rejected him. Noting how, by "watching her reactions, and
pausing and speeding up his performance to stir her response to
him," the teller deploys the resources of that performance to
seduce his fair listener, Taylor expands her analysis by citing a signal
influence on Coleridge's framing structure, the canto from
Dante's Inferno describing Paulo's seduction of Francesca
through their shared reading of the story of Lancelot and Guinevere.
"The canto illustrates 'the contagion of
literature,'" she writes, with the shared text itself
functioning as a "pander, pimp, go-between ... joining the lovers
in the frame story as well as the lovers within the tale." This
scene of shared reading as seduction becomes the emblem of
Coleridge's and Sara's relationship, in life, letters, and
literature. "'Love' is the first of many poems to
'Asra,'" Taylor observes, "that recreate a shared
activity--reading, singing, story telling, writing, and revising--that
unite their minds and voices as well as their bodies as they lean
together" (84). Her reflections on the Browne marginalia comprise
but one example among many of the ubiquitous power of this mise en scene in the written record of their relationship. Her analysis of its
shifting lineaments in poem after poem is compelling.
Taylor's most persuasive case for Coleridge's uncanny
sympathy with women and concern for their welfare, however, depends not
on the erotic ebullience of his poems to "Asra," nor on his
youthful reactions to female beauty, tinctured as they are with sheer
voyeurism, but on the more moderate and settled--and erotically
disinterested--responses to women's constant presence, friendship,
and requests for advice that characterized his later years. In Chapter
10, "Communities of Women: Developing as Persons," Taylor
gives us the Sage of Highgate as advocate for and advisor to young
single women, a supporter of liberal education for girls as well as
boys, and of suffrage for women as well as men--a kind of avuncular advice columnist who eagerly anticipates the day when women will have
wider scope for the exercise of their free agency. The material Taylor
offers as evidence for this more sober manifestation of an "erotic
Coleridge" not only illuminates and makes more persuasive the
younger version she introduces in her early chapters, but also suggests
that Coleridge himself became an example for his young admirers to
follow in "developing as persons." In the final analysis,
Taylor's portrait rings true despite its subject's grave
lapses in matters of the heart. When we view these lapses as
corroborative and include them in full charioscuro, its authenticity is
only enhanced.
Charles J. Rzepka
Boston University