What male-female complementarity makes possible: marriage as a two-in-one-flesh union.
Lee, Patrick ; George, Robert P.
SCRIPTURE, THE POPES, BISHOPS, PASTORS, and authorized Catholic
teachers have for centuries proclaimed as a significant part of
Christian moral teaching that homosexual acts are intrinsically morally
wrong. In recent years, however, some have challenged this teaching. For
example, in a Quaestio disputata in this journal in 2006, Todd Salzman
and Michael Lawler (hereafter, S/L) say that this teaching is incorrect.
(1) They argue that what they refer to as merely "the
magisterium's teaching," is based on the mistaken tenet that
heterogenital complementarity is a sine qua non of a truly human sexual
act. (2) Instead, they claim, a broader view of complementarity enables
one to see that some homosexual acts can be objectively morally right
inasmuch as such acts possess an "orientation
complementarity," a complementarity that integrates a
"personal complementarity" in a sexual act. S/L contend that
homosexual partners can have a "personal complementarity," and
that this can be "embodied, manifested, nurtured, and
strengthened" in homosexual acts. (3) We propose to show that their
criticisms of the Church's historic teaching are unsound, that the
argument for their own position fails, and that the immorality of
nonmarital sexual acts, including homosexual acts, can be demonstrated
by natural reason.
Everyone agrees that the marital union involves a deeply personal
union. The disagreement between defenders of "gay" sex, on the
one hand, and the Catholic tradition, on the other hand, is whether this
personal union is a multileveled union essentially including the bodily
as well as the emotional and volitional levels of the human self (the
Catholic position), or an essentially emotional-volitional union that
then imposes a chosen meaning onto bodily actions, which, therefore, of
themselves lack personal significance and acquire it only through an
extrinsic imposition (the view defended by S/L). And so the disagreement
is, fundamentally, about more than sexual acts. It is about what a human
person is. If a human person is a body-soul composite--the Catholic
position--and not a soul or consciousness that inhabits and uses the
body as a kind of instrument, then the human body and bodily sexual acts
cannot be of themselves void of personal meaning; rather, the personal
union involving every aspect of the self (marriage) is specified by the
biological actions and relations. S/L's defense of homosexual acts
is, then, implicitly dualistic; it implicitly identifies the personal
with the spirit or consciousness, treating the bodily aspect of the self
as material for the imposition of extrinsic meaning.
DIFFERENT TYPES OF COMPLEMENTARITY AND THE MAIN CLAIMS OF SALZMAN
AND LAWLER
S/L distinguish among different types of sexual complementarity.
According to them, the Congregation for the Doctrine of Faith
(hereafter, CDF) distinguishes between biological complementarity and
personal complementarity. (4) And within biological complementarity S/L
distinguish between "heterogenital complementarity" and
"reproductive complementarity." The former refers to the fact
that the male and female genitals (penis and vagina) are oriented to
each other and are completed by each other. The latter refers to the
ability of a particular male and female to reproduce together. Thus,
according to S/L, many couples exhibit heterogenital complementary (they
are able to have penile-vaginal intercourse) but lack reproductive
complementarity (one and/or the other is infertile).
By "personal complementarity," S/L mean a sexual union
that includes psycho-affective and spiritual complementarity, but that
is brought about by what they call "orientation
complementarity." (5) By the latter they mean a match (with respect
to emotional attachment, sexual affection, and sexual desire) between
two homosexuals or two heterosexuals of opposite sexes, a match lacking
between, for example, a homosexual and a heterosexual. Finally, by
"holistic complementarity" they mean an overarching
complementarity synthesizing the biological and personal levels of
partners. Near the end of their article they state: "In holistic
complementarity, there is an integrated relationship between
orientation, personal, and biological complementarity that serves as the
foundation for sexual norms." (6) Hence, according to S/L, personal
complementarity is distinct from biological complementarity and is
mediated by "orientation complementarity."
S/L point out that, according to the magisterium, sexual acts are
"truly human," that is, morally right, only if they (1)
promote the assistance of the distinct sexes in a marriage and (2) are
open to life. (7) Using the distinctions among the different types of
complementarity, S/L claim that, according to the magisterium,
heterogenital complementarity is the sine qua non for the other
complementarities and for a morally right sexual act. As S/L read the
teaching of the magisterium, reproductive complementarity is not
necessary for the moral rectitude of a sexual act since sexual
intercourse between a husband and wife who know that one or both of them
is temporarily or permanently infertile can be morally right. S/L point
out that, while the heterosexual act must be "situated within the
appropriate marital, interpersonal, and relational context," still
the magisterium teaches that "there is no possibility of personal
complementarity in sexual acts that do not exhibit heterogenital
complementarity." (8)
S/L present four main claims against the magisterium's
teaching, and in doing so also present their own understanding of how
homosexual acts can promote an interpersonal union and therefore be
morally right. Those four main claims are: (1) that some homosexual acts
are morally akin to the sexual acts of infertile married couples; (2)
that the traditional teaching ignores the possibility of homosexual acts
instantiating personal complementarity without "heterogenital"
complementarity; (3) that personal testimony by homosexuals about the
positive value of their sexual acts has a strong evidential force
ignored by the magisterium; and (4) that the magisterium falsely claims
that parental complementarity is achieved only in opposite-sex unions.
MARITAL ACTS OF INFERTILE COUPLES
The first claim advanced by S/L is standard. They note that,
according to traditional Catholic teaching, homosexual acts, as well as
contraceptive acts and nonreproductive heterosexual acts (such as
oral-genital stimulation that is not part of an act of marital coitus),
are morally wrong because "they are essentially closed to
reproduction" (S/L's terminology). On the other hand, sexual
acts of infertile married couples (whether they are permanently or
temporarily infertile) occupy a different category. The marital acts of
a husband and wife whose sexual union cannot give them a child are
morally right, provide they are performed in a loving manner, and
provided they are intended to fulfill the behavioral conditions of
procreation. S/L note that the traditional Catholic teaching is often
defended by reference to Aquinas's distinction between acts that
are per se, or essentially, nonreproductive, on the one hand, and acts
that are only per accidens or incidentally nonreproductive, on the
other. The former acts are regarded as intrinsically immoral, while the
latter are sometimes morally right. S/L reject this explanation. Quoting
Gareth Moore, they note that through science we know that "anal
intercourse" (9) is not a reproductive act, but that vaginal
intercourse is. But then they further argue:
If science is relevant in distinguishing between vaginal
intercourse that is open to reproduction and anal intercourse that is
not open to reproduction, it would seem that this consideration would
apply equally to the distinction between potentially fertile and
permanently or temporarily sterile reproductive acts. As Moore correctly
notes, "vaginal intercourse which we know to be sterile is a
different type of act from vaginal intercourse which, as far as we know,
might result in conception." (10)
The trouble with this argument is that the inference presented by
Moore, far from being "correct," is unsound. No one denies
that there is a difference (which can in some circumstances be morally
significant) between vaginal intercourse known to be infertile and
vaginal intercourse believed to be possibly fertile: a married couple
may be morally required to abstain from the latter (if it would be
irresponsible for them to have a child at this time), or (conversely)
the possible fertility of the sexual act may be an additional reason to
choose to have intercourse at a given time (if they are hoping to
enlarge their family). But from the fact that this is a morally
significant difference among sexual acts, it simply does not follow that
there are no other morally significant differences between other types
of sexual acts. The argument just quoted constitutes an objection to the
magisterium's position only if it is supposed that there are no
other morally significant differences between vaginal intercourse known
to be infertile and anal "intercourse." Yet, there is an
equally fundamental moral difference between any act of heterosexual,
vaginal intercourse (whether known to be infertile or not) on the one
hand, and anal sex, oral sex, mutual masturbation, etc., on the other.
Both distinctions are morally important, and science and simple
knowledge of biological facts are at least relevant to the knowledge of
both distinctions, but the latter distinction is not reducible (as S/L
suppose) to the former. As we explain more fully below, an act that
fulfills the behavioral conditions of procreation, whether or not the
nonbehavioral conditions happen to obtain, and irrespective of whether
one or both partners believe that they obtain, differs from anal
"intercourse" (or oral, aural, intercrural intercourse, or
mutual masturbation) not only because the latter can never result in
reproduction, but on the more central ground that in the latter the
parties engaging in the act do not become organically one (and so cannot
consummate or actualize a procreative union, that is, a marriage).
S/L oversimplify the Church's teaching, as is clear from the
following passage: "'Second, the magisterium's claim that
homosexual acts are intrinsically disordered because they are
biologically closed to the transmission of life can be challenged.
Permanently infertile acts are as biologically closed to the
transmission of life as are homosexual acts.'" (11) S/L
suggest that, since infertile sexual acts of married couples can be
morally right, can consummate and actualize their personal communion
(their marriage), perhaps homosexual acts (or, one must assume, the anal
or other sex acts of male-female partners who prefer these acts to
vaginal intercourse or wish to engage in them as a change of pace, or
whatever) can consummate and actualize a personal communion and
constitute or bring about "personal complementarity." (12)
However, the Church's teaching is not (and has never been)
that sodomitical acts (of whatever description, and whether performed by
same-sex or opposite-sex partners) are morally wrong simply because they
cannot result in reproduction. Rather, the magisterium's
position--indeed the traditional Catholic teaching--is that sexual acts
can be morally right only within marriage, and only a man and a woman
can marry. The magisterium has constantly proposed this as part of
revelation. Of course, the magisterium is not committed to a particular
philosophical justification for its teaching. It may offer various
explanations and rationales, but what it proposes authoritatively is the
teaching itself, not any particular philosophical account or defense of
it. However, it is taught by Scripture and the tradition that in a
marital act a man and a woman "become one flesh" or "one
body." In defense of the traditional teaching one can argue that
sexual acts embody marriage insofar as the two become one flesh, that
is, become one organism, and neither homosexual acts nor nonvaginal sex
(manual, oral, anal, aural, with mechanical devices, or so on) to
completion by married couples, make the participants organically one.
Therefore such acts--acts that are not reproductive in type (i.e., acts
in which the partners fulfill the behavioral conditions of
procreation)--are intrinsically immoral.
To understand why an organic union is important and why homosexual
acts cannot establish it, let us consider the following points. First,
marriage is a distinctive type of community. It is the community whose
purpose is a sharing of lives by a man and a woman in a personal
communion that would be fulfilled by bearing and rearing children
together. It is a community whose purpose is twofold: the consortium
vitae of the man and the woman, and the procreation and education of
offspring; the latter is the fulfillment or unfolding of the former. The
sort of consortium vitae that defines marriage as a distinct community
is the sort that is fulfilled (or would be fulfilled, even if in fact it
is not) by bearing and rearing children. This is not to suggest that
marriage is a mere means in relation to children: it is rather to
acknowledge that the community of husband and wife is the sort that
would be naturally fulfilled by bearing and rearing children together.
Thus, a marriage, once established, remains a marriage and, as such, is
an intrinsic or basic human good; even if it does not actually result in
procreation: it still is the kind of personal communion naturally
oriented to bearing and rearing children together. (13)
In this type of community, sexual intercourse is not merely an
extrinsic symbol, nor is it just a pursuit of pleasure (or even a
sharing of pleasure). In sexual intercourse between a man and a woman
(whether married or not), a real organic union is established. This is a
literal, biological point--albeit one bearing enormous moral
significance in view of the fact that the human body is not a mere
instrument of the human person but is part of the personal reality of
the human being. Human beings are animal organisms, albeit of a
particular type. An organic action is one in which several bodily
parts--tissues, cells, molecules, atoms, and so on--participate. But the
subject of the action is the organism as a whole. For most actions, such
as sensation, digestion, walking, and so on, individual male or female
organisms are complete units. The male or female animal organism (as a
whole unit) uses as parts of itself its own organs to perform its
actions, but there is no internal orientation of its bodily parts to any
larger whole of which the organism is a part with respect to those
actions. However, with respect to the reproductive function, the male
and the female are not complete. In reproductive activity the bodily
parts of the male and of the female are internally oriented to
participating in a single action, coitus, which is biologically oriented
to reproduction (though not every act of coitus actually results in
reproduction), so that the subject of coitus is the male and the female
as a biological unit. (14) Coitus is a unitary action in which the male
and the female become one organism. (15) In marital intercourse, this
bodily unity is an aspect--indeed, it is the biological foundation and
matrix--of the couple's comprehensive (and thus marital) communion.
(16)
When a man and woman make a commitment to each other to share their
lives in the type of community distinguished by its openness and
orientation to procreation (or by the fact that this type of union would
be fulfilled by cooperative procreation and education of children), then
the biological unity effected in sexual intercourse is the beginning or
embodiment of that community. The sexual communion of spouses is the
bodily component proportionate to, indeed part of, the kind of
multileveled personal community they have consented to when consenting
to marriage. That is, they become biologically one precisely in that
respect in which their community is defined and naturally fulfilled.
They have consented to a union oriented to procreation--one that has the
contours it has in significant measure due to this specific orientation;
so their procreative acts that are procreative in kind embody their
community. Thus it is the case that loving marital intercourse commences
or embodies the marriage itself. (The law of marriage has traditionally
recognized this truth in its doctrine of marital consummation--a
doctrine that would be rendered simply unintelligible were anal sex, for
example, to be regarded as a marital act.) In marriage, the bodily,
emotional, and spiritual are the different levels of a unitary,
multileveled, personal, marital communion. In that way the loving sexual
intercourse of husband and wife instantiates a basic human good: marital
union. By contrast, sexual acts performed by unmarried people (whether
homosexual or heterosexual) are not proportionate to, and so do not
embody, any friendship they might have. A sexual act cannot embody a
sports community, a scholarly community, or a nonspecific friendship.
The only type of community it can embody is a procreative community,
precisely by being part of, consummating, or actualizing it. Thus, if a
man and a woman have not consented to form that type of community, then
sexual intercourse between them does not embody or actualize any
community.
S/L introduce a putative distinction between "heterogenital
complementarity" and "reproductive complementarity," and
this is the central pivot of their attack on the traditional
understanding of marriage as a union of sexually complementary spouses.
S/L define "heterogenital complementarity" as referring to
"the biological, genital distinction between male and female,"
where the genitals function properly, capable of engaging in sexual
intercourse. (17) And they distinguish this relation from
"reproductive complementarity," which they describe as the
ability of a couple actually to reproduce together. Then they cite the
following as a difficulty for the traditional position that sexual
intercourse between infertile spouses can be morally right, but that sex
acts between same-sex partners who are homosexually inclined or oriented
cannot be: "First, it raises a question about the morality of other
types of nonreproductive heterosexual acts, such as oral sex, which are
permanently nonreproductive though heterogenital complementarity is
present." (18) But the very language they must use to refer to
these acts--"heterogenital"--indicates that the
complementarity of sexual organs, indeed the fact that they are sexual
organs to begin with, is derived from their natural, biological
orientation to reproduction. Sexual organs are called genitalia precisely because they are oriented toward generation or
reproduction--and they are called sexual for the same reason. Oral sex
(to completion) is not as such heterogenital: though it may be performed
between a man and a woman (who may indeed be husband and wife); their
being a man and a woman (and even husband and wife) is irrelevant to
that act--it does not exercise or actualize their distinct sexual
natures precisely as sexual. Sexual acts that are not part of an act of
marital coitus are disordered because the two engaging in such acts do
not become organically one. The same is true of anal sex, aural sex,
mutual masturbation, etc., for these sexual acts, because they do not
realize bodily unity, do not instantiate any basic good. By contrast, in
sexual intercourse between a man and a woman, that is, in acts in which
the behavioral conditions of procreation are fulfilled, the two do
become organically one, even if this particular act cannot result in
reproduction (i.e., even if the nonbehavioral conditions of procreation
do not obtain) and it is known that it cannot or never could.
So, there is a clear difference between the truly marital acts of
infertile spouses and sexual acts of the sort that can be performed
between persons of the same sex, such as anal and oral sex acts. In the
former what the husband and wife do is the same kind of behavior that,
given other conditions extrinsic to this behavior, could result in
procreation. This is not the case with what same-sex sexual partners do;
what they do can never result in procreation because the partners are
not fulfilling the behavioral conditions of procreation. The same is
true of masturbatory acts, oral sex, or anal sex, between heterosexual
couples. These acts are distinct in kind from marital acts--loving acts
of spouses that fulfill the behavioral conditions of procreation and
thus instantiate or actualize their marital communion. Sex acts that do
not realize a bodily unity are a different category or species of act.
Their object--be it the giving, receiving, and sharing of pleasure
and/or the expression of affection--is entirely unlike the defining
object of a marital act, namely, bodily ("one-flesh") unity.
Infertile couples perform marital acts in the same way fertile
couples do, namely, by realizing a biological union in fulfilling the
behavioral conditions of procreation. The fact that the nonbehavioral
conditions of procreation happen to obtain or not obtain does not affect
or alter the nature of what couples do. The object of the marital
act--the union of spouses as bodily persons, where this union is the
foundation of a comprehensive, multileveled sharing of life that would
be fulfilled by the generating and rearing of children together--is
precisely the same in both fertile and infertile married couples. In
fulfilling procreation's behavioral conditions, married couples
realize organic unity (thus consummating or actualizing the intrinsic
good of their marriage) whether the nonbehavioral conditions obtain or
not.
This difference is indisputable. Is it significant? Yes. First, it
is significant biologically. A male and a female animal organism jointly
exercise their reproductive powers when they engage in coitus and become
organically one. Someone might attempt to resist the force of this truth
by claiming that males and females become organically one only if they
actually conceive a child. But it can easily be shown that this line of
objection cannot be sustained. Suppose a male and a female engage in
coitus early one evening, but something happens to the female later that
prevents a conception from occurring that otherwise would have occurred.
This event cannot retroactively change the nature of the action they
performed together. The act they performed really did fulfill the
behavioral conditions of procreation. As such, it united them
organically as a single subject of a biological action. By uniting
sexually, they performed the first step in the reproductive process,
even though conditions extrinsic to their behavior prevented its
completion. Remember that the conditions for a successful conception are
not all within the scope of their behavior. Whether a particular act of
coitus results in conception depends on conditions extrinsic to the act
itself. But whether their action unites them organically cannot depend
on something wholly extrinsic to that action. So, in every act of coitus
the man and the woman become organically one. If conception does occur,
that may be hours or even days later; and whether they now become one
cannot depend on events that occur only later. One cannot say that the
man and the woman unite organically only in those acts of coitus that
actually result in conception. In coitus itself--whatever may happen
after coitus--the male and the female become biologically united. Their
reproductive organs are actualized, as internally designed, to be a
(now) unitary subject of a single act. So, this biological difference
means that in coitus--as opposed to sodomy (whether between same-sex or
opposite sex partners), mutual masturbation, etc.--the man and the woman
genuinely become one body, one flesh, a biological unit. The biological
unity of spouses is true personal unity because our bodies are part of
our personal reality as human beings; we are not incorporeal beings
(minds, consciousness, spirits) that merely inhabit and use nonpersonal
bodies.
Second, the difference between procreative acts and other sexual
acts is morally significant, because marriage is the human community
oriented to, and proportionate to, bearing and rearing children, that to
which the biological difference between men and women is oriented. Hence
the biological union of a husband and a wife can embody or make present
their multileveled (bodily, emotional, intellectual, volitional) marital
communion. Since the biological union is present both in sexual
intercourse that results in procreation and in sexual intercourse that
does not, it follows that a married couple, whether fertile or
infertile, can choose their sexual act as embodying their marriage, and
thus as instantiating an irreducible aspect of their well-being and
fulfillment--a basic human good. By contrast, sexual acts that do not
establish a biological union cannot embody marriage and do not directly
realize any other basic good. Such acts can only be means to other ends.
In performing nonmarital sexual acts, people instrumentalize their
sexuality and, indeed, themselves as male or female embodied persons. A
personal communion can be enhanced only by the joint sharing in a basic
good, but two or more people merely stimulating each other to orgasm--no
matter what they subjectively intend, or how they perceive or feel their
act--is not an instance of organic unity and is not the shared
realization of any basic human good. (19) Therefore such acts do not, in
truth, realize or enhance personal communion.
In an article appearing in Heythrop Journal about the same time as
the article we are now criticizing, S/L charge New Natural Law theorists
(Germain Grisez, John Finnis, the present authors, and others) of
begging the question in our argument that a biological complementarity
is required for a morally right sexual act:
While it [the school of New Natural Law Theory] consistently
condemns homosexual acts on the grounds that they violate genital and
reproductive complementarity, the NNLT does not explain why they also
violate personal complementarity other than to assert that homosexual
acts between gays or lesbians, "... since their reproductive organs
cannot make them a biological (and therefore personal unit),"
cannot fulfill what those couples "hope and imagine" [a
reference to an article by Finnis]. This statement, however, begs the
question whether or not homosexual acts can ever be natural, reasonable,
and therefore moral on the level of personal complementarity. (20)
S/L have misconstrued the basic argument. The argument is not that
two people, including two people with homosexual orientations, may not
have a sort of personal complementarity. Presumably, in every friendship
there is some sort of personal complementarity (though only in marriage
does their complementarity make them uniquely suited to cooperate in
rearing their own child, the fruit of their bodily--and, as
such--personal union). Rather, the argument is this: (1) a bodily
act--any bodily act--can foster a friendship only by enabling the
friends jointly to realize a genuine basic good; (2) a sexual act does
not realize a basic good except by actualizing a biological union that
is part of (consummates or actualizes) a procreative union (marriage);
(3) sodomitical acts (including homosexual acts) cannot actualize a
biological union and do not necessarily involve a procreative union that
could be embodied. (21) It is worth noting also that S/L misreport the
argument presented by NNLT when they describe it as saying: "Since
there can be no act of a reproductive kind between a male-male or
female-female couple, homosexual acts are unnatural. Since they are
unnatural, they are also immoral because they cannot realize the other
intrinsic meaning of marital acts, namely, friendship." (22) In
fact, however, in NNLT's argument, the proposition that the act is
unnatural does not serve as a premise. Rather, the argument is that the
act is morally wrong because the basic good of marriage--the integration
of the body-as-sexual with a comprehensive personal and marital
commitment--is violated. Since a basic good is not realized in
homosexual activity (or in any deliberate, nonmarital conduct), the body
as sexual is used as an extrinsic instrument for producing what can be
nothing beyond a false experience--an illusion--of organic unity.
THE APPEAL TO PERSONAL TESTIMONY
A third claim advanced by S/L against Catholic teaching on sodomy
and other sexual acts that might be performed by same-sex partners on
each other is that it ignores the personal testimony given by many
homosexuals about the value of their sexual acts. S/L favorably quote
Margaret Farley to support the claim that there are "clear and
profound testimonies to the life-enhancing possibilities of same-sex
relations and the integrating possibilities of sexual activity within
these relations. We have the witness that homosexuality can be a way of
embodying responsible love and sustaining friendship." (23) S/L add
that "magisterial positions on gays and lesbians tend to be
theoretical hypotheses unsubstantiated by the practical experience of
those gays and lesbians." (24) But this "argument from
experience" is unsound. One can question the claim that the object
of one's experience or feeling is the embodiment or the enhancement
of a friendship, just as one can question the claims regarding
experiences or feelings in relation to other objects. For example, one
might claim that one simply experiences or feels that a particular act
is morally right, but moral rightness is not a quality that can be
apprehended by experience or feeling; rather, it is the conformity of
the choice or human act with the moral criterion or standard (we would
say, the integral directiveness of all the basic aspects of human
well-being and fulfillment). So, this "argument from
experience" only shows that some men and women feel that their
sexual acts have provided a contribution to their friendships. Yet,
there are other, more likely explanations for these feelings than that
those acts really do embody their friendships or contribute to them.
Sexual acts are almost always complex events involving much more than
just the exchange of pleasure. For example, the other person's
sexual desire for and/or surrender to oneself can be felt as positive
experiences and thus may make it seem to one's feelings that a real
unity was fostered, even though in fact no organic union was
established, no basic good was realized, and so the experience did not
actually contribute to the friendship. What S/L quote Farley as saying
could be--and in substance has been--said by and on behalf of
polyamorists and others who regard themselves as members of "sexual
minorities." They too claim, no doubt sincerely, that there are
"clear and profound testimonies" to the "life-enhancing
possibilities" of polyamorous relations and the "integrating
possibilities of sexual activity within these relations." They too
say, in substance, that we have the "witness" that polyamory can be a "way of embodying responsible love and sustaining
friendship." (25) The devastating point against S/L is precisely
that polyamorists, polygamists (including more than a few women in
formal or informal polygamous relationships), and even many adulterers
and unmarried teens report positive feelings about their sexual
acts--not just physical feelings but complex feelings about what their
acts seem to them to contribute to personal relationships. (26) However,
such personal testimony fails to show that such acts truly embody a
personal communion or are morally good. In the same way, the
"argument from experience" for the moral goodness of
homosexual acts fails.
PERSONAL AND BODILY COMPLEMENTARITY
A third argument--and the most central--advanced by S/L against
Catholic teaching on sexual morality is that the magisterium has ignored
the possibility that two people may in a sexual act exhibit a personal
complementarity without exhibiting a genital complementarity, or a
personal complementarity that causes them to possess genital
complementarity. S/L point out that heterogenital complementarity is not
sufficient to make a sexual act morally right, as is clear in cases of
heterosexual rape or incest. For a sexual act to be truly human, or
morally right, there must also be personal complementarity. S/L
evidently view this as a relational component extrinsic to the
biological or genital complementarity. They claim that in the teaching
of the magisterium "there is a misplaced prioritization of
heterogenital over personal complementarity." (27) S/L then point
out, quoting the Congregation for Catholic Education, that sexuality
"is a fundamental component of personality, one of its modes of
being, of manifestation, of communicating with others, of feeling, of
expressing and of living human love." (28) Hence, S/L conclude,
sexual orientation is a key ingredient in how one relates to oneself and
to others.
Following Robert Nugent, they define sexual orientation as a
"psychosexual attraction (erotic, emotional, and affective) toward
particular individual persons" of the opposite or of the same sex.
(29) S/L then claim that a sexual act between individuals who possess
"orientation complementarity" can unite them "bodily,
affectively, spiritually, and personally." (30) "Though they
cannot exhibit genital complementarity, homosexual individuals can
exhibit this holistic complementarity." (31)
They further claim that "orientation complementarity" can
determine or cause an act that otherwise would clearly lack genital
complementarity actually to possess it:
If orientation complementarity indicates that a person is of
heterosexual orientation, then personal complementarity would indicate
that authentic genital complementarity would be male-female. If
orientation complementarity indicates that a person is of homosexual
orientation, then personal complementarity would indicate that authentic
genital complementarity would be male-male or female-female. (32)
But this argument relies implicitly on the assumption that
one's intention or emotions can by themselves alter the bodily
structure and reality of a bodily act--can make what is otherwise not a
genital union into a genital union. This is obviously and spectacularly
false. As a simple and brute matter of biological fact, anal or oral
intercourse is not, and cannot be, a union of genitals. Indeed, these
acts cannot be biologically unitive in any sense. They involve physical
contact and may involve the depositing of semen in a bodily orifice, but
they do not unite the persons involved in a biological or bodily way.
Why do S/L suppose that some homosexual acts are effective in
expressing or embodying a personal communion? It is because they imagine
that in each such act at least one of the participants in some way uses
his or her genitals to do something to the other that is not only
pleasing to them but, beyond that, embodies their personal communion.
But how does such genital activity involve a real genital union? Their
answer: because it first of all expresses a personal union or
complementarity. In other words (according to their argument), the act
instantiates a personal union in part because the bodily act is a
genital union; but the bodily act is a genital union because it is
intended to instantiate a personal union. The argument is circular.
A psycho-affective union can be embodied or actualized only in a
bodily act in which two (or more) people cooperate in the realization of
a basic aspect of human well-being and fulfillment. Of course, sex is
not the only type of bodily act by which people can be unified. Sharing
a meal, playing racquetball, building a cabinet together, for example,
are bodily acts the sharing of which can initiate or build up friendship
or personal communion. In these types of acts the participants do not
unite organically as men and women do in sexual intercourse; still, in
such acts the participants are united in will and affection by pursuing
together some real, bodily good. But an act is not in reality unitive,
in will and affection, unless there is a genuine first-level, common
good the shared pursuit and realization of which unites them personally.
In a genuinely marital act, that common good is the organic union
itself, as part of the marital union (which is itself multileveled, not
just psychological or spiritual--a comprehensive sharing of life founded
on bodily "one-flesh" unity). Hence in the loving sexual
intercourse of husband and wife, their organic union--a reality, not
just a symbol--truly (indeed, literally) embodies their marriage--makes
them one flesh. In general, the fact that X is something that both A and
B desire makes the doing of X together genuinely fulfilling for A and B
only if X is already in itself something genuinely fulfilling or
perfective. In the loving sexual act of spouses, the two do become one
flesh, and this biological union is an embodiment of their total marital
communion. Since their personal communion is a procreative union, it is
the type of community fulfilled by the bearing and rearing of children
together, even if for some reason this union will not reach that
fulfillment; the acts by which they fulfill the behavioral conditions of
procreation are part of their specific personal communion, and thus they
embody and actualize it.
The concept of "orientation complementarity" introduced
by S/L simply does not make possible organic, bodily--truly
one-flesh--union. It cannot make acts of anal or oral penetration
genuinely unitive. "Orientation complementarity" may refer in
part to complex feelings and affections of one person for another,
including a desire for friendship--and these aspects of
"orientation complementarity" need not be wrong or improper.
But the distinctive and sexual aspect of such "orientation
complementarity" amounts only to the desires of two people that
each perform a certain type of act on the other. And such desires are
not sufficient to make such an act genuinely unitive. If A wants to do X
to B, and B wants A to do X to him or her, this does nothing to show
that X is something good or in any way unitive of A and B. Nothing is
changed if one adds that the desires of A and B are deep and abiding,
and that they view this as embodying their friendship. Their perception
or their feelings must be in line with a truly unitive good; X must be
in itself genuinely unitive for their perception or their feeling to be
indicative of the truth about their act. So, the argument that
"orientation complementarity" between sex partners is a
proportion or relation on a par with the bodily and personal
complementarity between a man and a woman joined as husband and wife
presupposes that the sex partners desire a genuinely unitive human good.
Yet that is precisely what the argument was supposed to prove.
PARENTAL COMPLEMENTARITY
Lastly, S/L note that the CDF argued that homosexual unions should
not be encouraged or legally recognized also because, "as
experience has shown, the absence of sexual complementarity in these
unions creates obstacles in the normal development of children who would
be placed in the care of such persons." (33) To counter this
assertion, S/L cite sociological studies that claim that homosexual
parents are just as effective at parenting as heterosexual parents, and
note that the American Psychology Association and the Child Welfare
League of America have endorsed those claims. S/L quote Charlotte
Patterson's summary of several studies: "There is no evidence
to suggest that lesbians and gay men are unfit to be parents or that
psychosocial [including sexual--S/Us editorial addition] development
among children of gay men or lesbians is compromised in any respect
relative to that among offspring of heterosexual parents." (34)
In effect, S/L argue that same-sex partners can form a personal
union and then desire to raise children together--perhaps by adoption or
by artificial reproduction (they do not specify how they will acquire
the responsibility for children). For such couples, the argument
continues, their sexual acts can then be oriented indirectly toward the
raising of children, inasmuch as such acts would strengthen the
couple's relationship and thus help provide a stable and loving
environment for raising children. (35)
However, the studies whose conclusions S/L so confidently embrace
are contentious; these studies have been severely criticized by other
sociologists and legal thinkers. In their article in Theological Studies
S/L do not mention this fact, though they do refer to it in a footnote
in the article that appeared about the same time in the Heythrop
Journal. (36) In the Theological Studies article these studies are
misleadingly represented as unquestioned scholarly consensus.
In fact, when one examines these studies it is clear that they are
indeed seriously methodologically flawed on several grounds. These flaws
include extremely small samples, (37) selection of data that are
susceptible to subjective slanting, (38) unrepresentative samples, (39)
and lack of longitudinal studies. After a thorough review of the
hundreds of studies on gay parenting, Steven Nock, a sociologist at
University of Virginia concluded: "Through this analysis I draw my
conclusions that 1) all of the articles I reviewed contained at least
one fatal flaw of design or execution; and 2) not a single one of those
studies was conducted according to generally accepted standards of
scientific research." (40) After reviews of the studies on
homosexual parenting, similar conclusions were drawn by sociologist
Dianna Baumrind in 1995, (41) and by Robert Lerner and Althea Nagai in
2001. (42)
Although there are no reliable studies directly comparing same-sex
sexual partners rearing children to married men and women rearing
children, there is abundant evidence from social science to show that
children generally benefit, and benefit substantially, from being reared
in the context of an intact marriage of the biological mother and
father. (43)
Moreover, mothers and fathers are not interchangeable: each brings
something distinctive to the great task of bearing and rearing children.
Since men and women tend significantly to differ emotionally and
psychologically as well as physically, the parenting contribution of a
father tends to be quite distinct from the parenting contribution of a
mother. Also, the child, whether a boy or girl, benefits from having
both the model of a responsible and caring female figure and the model
of a responsible and caring male figure. What is more, the testimony of
a great many adopted children points to a deep longing in children to be
known and loved by their biological mother and father and to be reared
in the context of a loving relationship between the two.
S/L deny that psychological differences between the sexes are
deep-seated and morally significant, claiming that "one finds
certain gender stereotypes in magisterial documents where femaleness is
defined primarily in terms of motherhood, receptivity, and nurturing,
and maleness is defined primarily in terms of fatherhood, initiation,
and activity." (44) They assert that "with the exception of
biological motherhood and fatherhood, the ontological claim of gendered
psychological traits does not seem to recognize the culturally
conditioned and defined nature of gender, and does not adequately
reflect the complexity of the human person and relationships."(45)
And: "The 'masculinity' and 'femininity' of the
nonbiological elements are largely conditioned and defined by
culture." (46) Such statements betray an implicit and untenable
body-self dualism, as if the human person were a neuter self inhabiting
a body that happens to be male or female. But this is untenable. Since a
human person is a body-soul composite (and to deny this is simply to put
oneself outside of any possible claim to be offering a Catholic view of
anything), the significant biological differences between the sexes
cannot but ground emotional and psycho logical differences as well.
There are, of course, no psychological traits that are exclusively
possessed by either sex--both sexes, for example, nurture; both can
interact with small children; both are aggressive to a certain degree.
But there should be no question that hormonal differences between the
sexes tend to produce significant emotional and personality differences;
and that it is the woman who gestates the baby within her womb, gives
birth, and then bonds with the newborn child in other distinctive ways
produces profound differences in emotions and personality. Such
differences between men and women are indeed important for family life
and for the healthy development of children. Mothers and fathers are not
interchangeable. (47)
Moreover, a child has a natural need for the love and care of her
own biological mother and her own biological father. Since we are bodily
beings, with bodily connections to a mother, a father, grandparents, and
perhaps uncles, aunts, brothers, and sisters, and since persons are not
mere isolated individuals, part of our personal identity consists in
these relationships. Conversely, in general, where the parents are
mature and responsible, the biological mother and father naturally tend
to develop a strong bond with the child, rooted in the biological
connection to their own child. So, contrary to the claim of S/L, the
ideal case is for the child to be born and raised by her own biological
mother and her own biological father, with mother and father united to
each other in the comprehensive sharing of life that marriage is. Since
marriage is the distinctive community dedicated to attaining that ideal,
there is nothing antiscientific in asserting, as the magisterium has
done repeatedly, that a homosexual relationship is not marriage and that
it cannot provide a context equivalent to marriage for the rearing of
children. Thus, a husband and wife are complementary in a unique sense:
they constitute a single subject (forming a bodily and personal unity)
uniquely suited to bear and rear their own biological children; they are
inherently suited to form a union that naturally (if all goes well)
enlarges into family.
It is worth noting also that even if it were true that same-sex
partners could somehow provide for children what a mother and father,
joined to each other as husband and wife, can provide, this would not
show that sex acts between the partners contribute in any way to the
alliance or friendship formed by two (or more?) persons of the same sex
for the purpose of raising a child. Suppose two, three, five, or more
individuals form a friendship for the sake of bringing up children, for
example two sisters, or several celibate religious men or women. These
are not marriages. Similarly, a same-sex pair may form an alliance for
the purpose of raising a child, but their sexual acts have no specific
relation to this alliance or cooperative arrangement. Thus, forming an
alliance for the sake of rearing children does not make a marriage, and
forming such an alliance does nothing of itself to make sexual acts
marital acts; if the people who form such an alliance remain unmarried
(do not consent to share their lives in the type of community
specifically and biologically oriented to bearing and raising children)
and/or their sexual acts are not acts in which they fulfill the
behavioral conditions of procreation and are thus united as one flesh,
then their sexual acts cannot be marital. Marriage is a distinct type of
community--the community that provides a stable and protective
environment for romantic love, sexual activity, and bearing and raising
children; sexual intercourse within that context specifically
consummates and actualizes marital communion.
In sum, S/L fail to make their case against the Catholic teaching
on human sexuality. Their objections to the arguments presented by the
magisterium misconstrue the magisterium's case at several points,
and their own arguments for the morality of homosexual acts are unsound.
(1) Todd A. Salzman and Michael G. Lawler, "Quaestio
Disputata: Catholic Sexual Ethics: Complementarity and the Truly
Human," Theological Studies 67 (2006) 625-52 (hereafter, CSE).
(2) In our view the teaching that is contested by S/L is not just a
teaching by the magisterium, but is taught by Scripture and was
universally proposed by the popes and virtually all the bishops and
pastors in the church over many centuries as a moral teaching to be held
definitively. What Germain Grisez and John C. Ford compellingly argued
is the case about the teaching of the magisterium on
contraception-namely, that it fulfills the requirements for an
infallible teaching of the ordinary universal magisterium--seems to us
to apply even more strongly to the teaching on homosexual acts. See John
C. Ford and Germain Grisez, "Contraception and the Infallibility of
the Ordinary Magisterium," Theological Studies 39 (1978) 258-312.
For debate on the Ford and Grisez thesis, see: Francis A. Sullivan,
Magisterium: Teaching Authority in the Catholic" Church (New York:
Paulist, 1983) 143-52; Germain Grisez, "Infallibility and Specific
Moral Norms: A Review Discussion," Thomist 49 (1985) 248-87:
Francis A. Sullivan, "The 'Secondary Object' of
Infallibility," Theological Studies 54 (1993) 536-50: Germain
Grisez, "The Ordinary Magisterium's Infallibility: A Reply to
Some New Arguments," Theological Studies 55 (1994) 720-32: Francis
A. Sullivan, "'Reply' to Germain Grisez,"
Theological Studies 55 (1994) 732-37; Garth L. Hallett,
"Contraception and Prescriptive Infallibility," Theological
Studies 43 (1982) 629-50: Germain Grisez, "Infallibility and
Contraception: A Reply to Garth Hallett," Theological Studies 47
(1986) 134-45: and Garth Hallett, "Infallibility and Contraception:
The Debate Continues," Theological Studies 49 (1988) 517-28. In our
article, however, we concentrate on the case that can be presented on
behalf of this teaching even apart from appeal to the authority of
Scripture and the Church's magisterium.
(3) S/L, CSE 646.
(4) Ibid. 629-30. Clearly, a couple's sexual act can possess
biological complementarity without possessing full personal
complementarity. It would be a mistake, however, to infer from this fact
that therefore a couple's sexual act can possess personal
complementarity without biological complementarity. S/L do not argue
that, but they suppose that a personal complementarity can somehow
change what would have been an act lacking biological complementarity
into one that has it. But this assumption is gratuitous and impossible
to credit. See CDF, Considerations regarding Proposals to Give Legal
Recognition to Unions between Homosexual Persons (hereafter, CRP),
http://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/ documents/rc
con_cfaith_doc_20030731_homosexual-unions-en.html (accessed April 20,
2008).
(5) S/L, CSE 643.
(6) Ibid. 649.
(7) Ibid. 629, in this passage S/L refer to CRP no. 7.
(8) Ibid. 642.
(9) Of course, this term refers to the insertion of a penis into an
anus, but to describe this act as "intercourse" is
inaccurate--no biological union and (as we will show) no common good is
realized, and so personal unity is not realized. Anal sex is no more a
case of intercourse than is aural sex--inserting a penis into an ear.
(10) Ibid. 631-32. The reference is to Gareth Moore, The Body in
Context: Sex and Catholicism (London: Continuum, 2001) 162, emphasis
added.
(11) Ibid. 632.
(12) Note that the issue is whether the sexual act of a same-sex
couple can possess complementarity or actualize a real union, not
whether the characters of two men or of two women can in various ways be
complementary. Nothing in the traditional Catholic teaching on sexuality
denies the latter.
(13) Germain Grisez compares the relationship between marital
communion and procreation (bearing and raising children) to that between
the crypt of a church and the upper church that is built upon it. The
crypt of a church is good in itself and can serve as a meeting place
even if the townspeople are never able to build the upper church upon
it; it is structured so as to have an upper church built on it, and is
completed by the upper church. In somewhat the same way:
"Parenthood is not the end to which conjugal communion is [merely]
instrumental; conjugal communion is intrinsically good. But conjugal
communion is designed to be, and normally is, an intrinsically good part
of a larger, intrinsically good whole: the family" (Germain Grisez,
The Way of the Lord Jesus, 3. vols.; vol. 2, Living a Christian Life
[Chicago: Franciscan, 1993] 569).
(14) The two organisms become biologically one but also remain
distinct, since they are not dependent on each other in all respects,
for example, for survival (as are most parts of a single organism).
Also, the teleology of sexual acts belongs to them primarily as groups.
The design of the bodies is that some sperm or other join with an ovum.
The same is true with individual instances of sexual intercourse. That
is, the functional orientation belongs to acts of sexual intercourse
primarily as a group and only indirectly to the individual acts. The
individual act of intercourse is oriented to reproduction as a member of
a set of acts of intercourse, some of which will result in reproduction.
However, if one chooses to deprive a particular act of intercourse of
its procreative potential, one thereby chooses contrary to the good of
procreation.
(15) Of course, not every instance of two entities sharing in an
action is an instance of two entities becoming one organism. In this
case, however, the potentiality for a specific type of action,
reproduction, can be actualized only in cooperation with an individual
of the opposite sex. The reproductive organs are internally oriented
toward actuation together with the reproductive organs of the opposite
sex. So, although the sexual organs of the male and the female are not
interdependent for the continued life of each organism (as the bodily
parts are to each other in a male or female organism) there is a real
biological unity. Note also that, strictly speaking, men and women
engaging in sexual acts do not choose to reproduce; what they can choose
is to fulfill the behavioral conditions of procreation, and they can
hope that the nonbehavioral conditions of procreation obtain so that a
child will be conceived as a result of their union.
(16) An anonymous reviewer suggested that we are assuming the
centrality of coitus and that feminists, especially, might question such
an assumption, insofar as many women do not attain climax during coitus
but only with other types of stimulation. In reply, we are not assuming
the centrality of coitus but arguing for its moral centrality, insofar
as in this act the two, man and woman, do as a matter of biological fact
become one flesh. The other bodily acts, including female orgasm, can
rightly be seen as part of this act of the two becoming organically one.
Note that for human beings biological unity is an aspect of personal
unity, since the body is not a mere subpersonal instrument, but is part
of the personal reality of the human being. The Catholic understanding,
fully supported by reason, rejects all forms of body-self dualism.
(17) S/L, CSE 631.
(18) Ibid. 632.
(19) Note that pleasure is not a basic human good; it is the
experiential aspect of some other condition or act. Pleasure is often a
good, but it is good only if it is the experiential aspect of a
condition or activity that is already a good, that is, already a
fulfilling condition or activity. So, the fact that a sex act is
pleasurable does not necessarily mean that it realizes a basic human
good, and so pleasure alone cannot be the common good the joint
realization of which unifies two (or more) persons.
(20) Todd A. Salzman and Michael G. Lawler, "New Natural Law
Theory and Foundational Sexual Ethical Principles: A Critique and a
Proposal," Heythrop Journal 67 (2006) 182-205, at 196. The
reference to John Finnis is to his "Law, Morality, and 'Sexual
Orientation,'" Notre Dame Law Review 69 (1994) 1066.
(21) Consider: a scholarly community or a sports community has
nothing directly to do with procreation, and so an act of a procreative
kind would not embody that communion. The same is true for other
friendships less defined than scholarly or sports communities: unless
the friendship is a procreative personal communion (that is, marriage)
then an act of a procreative kind does not consummate or actualize it.
(22) S/L, "New Natural Law Theory" 185.
(23) S/L, CSE 646, quoting from Margaret Farley, "An Ethics
for Same-Sex Relations," in A Challenge to Love: Gay and Lesbian
Catholics in the Church, ed. Robert Nugent (New York: Crossroad, 1983)
93-106, at 99-100.
(24) S/L, CSE 646.
(25) In the literature of sexual liberationism, a standard
complaint of polyamorists and others is that self-styled
"conservative" gay and lesbian activists are throwing other
sexual minorities overboard by promoting the acceptance of homosexual
relations by depicting such relations as governed by conventional norms
of monogamy and sexual exclusivity. They point out that monogamous
relations among active male homosexuals are exceedingly rare and that no
significant movement to promote "gay" monogamy exists. They
accuse the "conservatives" of creating the illusion that
monogamy is a goal of the gay movement in order to gain acceptance for
homosexuals who, while promiscuous, are not interested in, or oriented
toward, polyamorous relations. The standard response of the
"conservatives" is not to condemn polyamory or to argue that
polyamorous partnerships cannot be life-enhancing or be ways of
sustaining love and friendship: it is, rather, to suggest that in the
long term the social acceptance of homosexual conduct and relationships
will lead to a more open-minded attitude toward the practices of other
sexual minorities, including polyamorists.
(26) Sociological studies indicate overall significantly less
marital satisfaction, more interpersonal conflicts, and more
psychological distress among women in polygamous marriages than among
women in monogamous marriages. Still, some women in polygamous marriages
do claim a high degree of marital satisfaction. See: Alean Al-Krenawi
and John R. Graham, "A Comparison of Family Functioning, Life and
Marital Satisfaction, and Mental Health of Women in Polygamous and
Monogamous Marriages," International Journal of Social Psychiatry 52 (2006) 5-17; Salman Ebedour et al., "The Effect of Polygamous
Marital Structure on Behavioral, Emotional, and Academic Adjustment in
Children: A Comprehensive Review of the Literature," Clinical Child
and Family Psychology Review 5 (2002) 255-71.
(27) S/L, CSE 642.
(28) Ibid. 643; see the reference in n. 77.
(29) Ibid.
(30) Ibid. 645-46.
(31) Ibid.
(32) Ibid. 647.
(33) Ibid. 640, referring to CRP no. 7.
(34) Ibid. 640, quoting Charlotte J. Patterson in Lesbian and Gay
Parenting, APA Online (1995), http://www.apa.or/pi/parent.html; the
article by Patterson, "Lesbian and Gay Parents and Their Children:
Summary of Research Findings," is available at
http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/lgparenting.pdf (accessed April
20, 2008).
(35) See also Jonathan Rauch, Gay Marriage, Why It Is Good for
Gays, Good for Straights, and Good for America (New York: Henry Holt,
2004).
(36) S/L, "New Natural Law Theory" 182-205.
(37) The studies include at most dozens of subject couples, but
sometimes as few as 10 or 20 couples. (Compare these numbers with a
recent study of the effect of at-risk factors on the welfare of
children; the study surveyed 34,129 children from an initial sample of
250,000 surveys: Lynn Wardle, "The Impact of Homosexual Parenting
on Children," University of Illinois Law Review [1997] 833-920, at
840.)
(38) Instead of measuring clearly discernible data such as infant
mortality, depression, school dropouts, arrests, drug abuse, experience
of domestic violence (the type of data gathered in large studies
comparing children from intact families to children from divorced or
cohabiting parents), the studies relied on subjective reporting, often
based only on the parents' recall. See, for example, the widely
cited "Summary of Research Findings" by Charlotte Patterson in
Lesbian and Gay Parenting 5-23,
http://www.apa.org/pi/lgbc/publications/lgparenting.pdf (accessed May
20, 2008). The preface announces that this is a joint publication by the
American Psychological Association and the Committee on Lesbian, Gay,
and Bisexual Concerns.
(39) Most of the studies selected homosexual parents who were still
living together, and these were compared with groups of heterosexual
parents, many of whom were single mothers. On the methodological flaws
of these studies see Maggie Gallagher, "(How) Does Marriage Protect
Child Well-Being?" in Robert P. George and Jean Bethke Elshtain,
The Meaning of Marriage: Family, State, Market, and Morals (Dallas:
Spence, 2006) 200-205, and the reviews cited in the next few footnotes.
(40) Quoted by Maggie Gallagher, "(How) Does Marriage Protect
Child Well-Being?" 202. The quote is from Nock Affidavit #3,
Halpern v. Attorney General of Canada, No. 684/00 (Ont. Su. Ct. of
Justice) (copies available from the Institute of Marriage and Public
Policy, info@imapp.org).
(41) Diana Baumrind, "Commentary on Sexual Orientation:
Research and Social Policy Implications," Developmental Psychology
31 (1995) 130-36.
(42) Robert Lerner and Althea K. Nagai, No Basis: What the Studies
Don't Tell Us about Same-Sex Parenting (Washington: Marriage Law
Project, 2001).
(43) A recent report by Child Trends, a nonpartisan research
organization, stated: "Research clearly demonstrates that family
structure matters for children, and the family structure that helps
children the most is a family headed by two biological parents in a
low-conflict marriage." Kristin Anderson Moore, Susan M. Jekielek,
and Carol Emig, "Marriage from a Child's Perspective: How Does
Family Structure Affect Children and What Can We Do about It?"
Child Trends Research Brief (Washington: Child Trends, 2002),
http://www.childtrends.org/files/ marriagerb602.pdf (accessed April 20,
2008); W. Bradford Wilcox et al., Why Marriage Matters, Second Edition:
Twenty-Six Conclusions from the Social Sciences (New York: Institute for
American Values, 2005); Gallagher, "(How) Does Marriage Protect
Child Well-Being?" 204-12.
(44) S/L, CSE 639.
(45) Ibid.
(46) Ibid.
(47) See Eleanor Maccoby, The Two Sexes: Growing Up Apart, Coming
Together (Cambridge, Mass.: Harvard University, 1998); David C. Geary,
Male, Female: The Evolution of Human Sex Differences (Washington:
American Psychological Association, 1998) 104; David Popenoe, Life
without Father: Compelling New Evidence that Fatherhood and Marriage Are
Indispensable for the Good of Children and Society (New York: Martin
Kessler, 1996); Thomas G. Powers et al., "Compliance and
Self-Assertion: Young Children's Responses to Mothers versus
Fathers," Developmental Psychology 30 (1994) 980-89.
PATRICK LEE received his Ph.D. in philosophy from Marquette
University and is the John N. and Jamie D. Professor of Bioethics and
director of the Institute of Bioethics at the Franciscan University of
Steubenville, Ohio. With a focus on ethics and bioethics, his recent
publications include "The Papal Allocution Concerning Care for PVS Patients: A Reply to Fr. O'Rourke," in Artificial Nutrition
and Hydration: The New Catholic Debate (2008); and with Robert P.
George, Body-Self Dualism in Contemporary Ethics and Politics (2008). In
progress is an article on same-sex unions for the Monist and a book with
Robert P. George on marriage.
ROBERT P. GEORGE, with degrees from Harvard University (J.D.) and
Oxford University (D.Phil.), is McCormick Professor of Jurisprudence at
Princeton University. His areas of special competence are philosophy of
law, moral and political philosophy, and bioethics. In 2008 he published
two studies: Body-Self Dualism in Contemporary Ethics and Politics (with
Patrick Lee) and Embryo: A Defense of Human Life (with Christopher
Tollefsen).