Theology for better counseling: help from within the Wesleya-holiness theological tradition.
Holeman, Virginia T.
Theological themes are embedded in many presenting problems, and
religious clients may ask counselors to help them understand how their
spiritual and/or religious life relates to their problems. Such requests
involve the art of theological reflection. This article presents a model
for theologically reflective counseling using examples from
Wesleyan-holiness theology.
Spirituality and religion provide lenses through which clients
interpret troubling circumstances. Pargament, Magyar, Benore, and
Mahoney (2005) report that clients attribute sacredness to many aspects
of their lives. When events negatively impact these sacred areas,
clients may suffer either sacred loss, experienced as a benign passing
away of something considered sacred, or a desecration, experienced as a
more deliberate and even violent violation or sacrilege.
Pargament's research has associated increased anger and depression,
and decreased measures of well-being with sacred loss and desecration.
Other areas in which clients may experience sacred loss and desecration
can include:
* Clients who present with disappointment in
God/Christianity/church (Exline, Kaplan, & Grubbs, 2012).
* Clients dealing with the problem of evil and the justice of God
(Grubbs, Exline, & Campbell, 2013).
* Clients recovering from trauma or tragedy (Exline, 2013).
* Clients wrestling with the forgiveness of interpersonal betrayals
(Holeman, Dean, DeShea, & Duba, 2011).
When Christian clients bring concerns about sacred loss and
desecration to counseling, they may ask their counselors to consider
with them how God speaks to their painful situation. In other words,
Christi clients are asking therapists to engage in theological
reflection. Theological reflection is a way of looking at the world that
informs who we are, how we live, what we value, and how we make
decisions (Coe & Hall, 2010; Walls, 2008).
The integration of theological reflection happens on implicit and
explicit levels (Coe & Hall, 2010). Implicit theology and its
influence on counseling processes functions outside of one's
awareness. Circumstances that generate theological dissonance, such as a
crisis (Holeman, 2012; Janoff-Bulman, 1992) or perhaps clinical
supervision (Gilliam & Armstrong, 2012), may bring this tacit
knowledge into conscious awareness. In contrast, explicit theology is
readily accessible to counselors and clients in the form of creeds,
doctrinal beliefs, formal written prayers such as the Lord's Prayer
(Mt. 6:9-13), and personal convictions about the relationship between
God and humanity. Greater proficiency with implicit theology (now made
known) and explicit theology increases the resources for clinically
oriented theological reflection that counselors may offer clients who
give consent for such.
Counselors can use theological reflection in one of two ways. On
one hand, counselors can place theological reflection under the category
of spiritual and religious accommodative interventions. After hearing
clients' stories during intake, counselors collaborate with clients
around treatment goals and tasks, with theological reflection being one
option. Theological reflection may also be included as an aspect of
Christian accommodative evidenced-based practices (Worthington, Johnson,
Hook, & Aten, 2013). In this instance theological reflection is a
supplemental component in service of clinical goals. Counselors begin
with counseling theories and techniques and then look for complementary
theological processes (Strawn, 2004). Integrating theology in this
manner may be the method of choice for counselors with little or no
theological background or for clients who have low-commitment to
Christianity (Wade, Worthington, & Vogel, 2007).
On the other hand, counselors can see therapy as a type of
Christian formation process during which theological reflection becomes
particularly salient. "Theology-directed integration" (Strawn,
2004, p. 141) begins with questions and concerns that are central to
life as a follower of Christ. Theological reflection is present from
intake to termination. Counselors' theological reflection is active
as they listen to clients' presenting narrative so that they might
discern theologically oriented themes that are subsequently integrated
with, and in service of, traditional clinical goals. Theology-directed
integration also supports the creation of treatment goals that are
associated with the client's theology (e.g., client will identify
one way to express love for God overtly on a daily basis).
Theology-directed integration may be especially appropriate for clients
with higher levels of religious fundamentalism and deferred religious
coping (expecting God to intervene and help with life's problems).
Wamser, Vandenberg, and Hibberd (2011) found that research participants
with these characteristics preferred religious rather than psychological
treatments. Theological reflection may be the integration method of
choice for counselors with moderate to robust theological backgrounds or
for clients who have high-commitment to Christianity (Wade et al.,
2007).
While scholars have generated an impressive body of literature to
understand spiritual and religious accommodative techniques (see for
example, Aten, McMinn, 8z Worthington, 2011; Worthington et al., 2013),
less attention has been paid to theology-directed integration (Strawn,
2004) or theologically reflective counseling (Holeman, 2012). In this
article I present a model for theologically reflective counseling, and I
illustrate its use through the lens of one specific theological
tradition--Wesleyan-holiness theology. I will show how theological
reflection can work hand-in-hand with therapeutic thinking to help
highly committed religious clients achieve their counseling goals.
Three clarifications are warranted before turning to that
discussion. First, Wesleyan theology is not monolithic. Variations exist
across time on Wesleyan tenets and definitions of central Wesleyan terms
(Abraham, 2011; Mann, 2006). A more accurate portrayal is to speak of
theologies shaped by the Wesleyan-holiness tradition. Nevertheless, for
the sake of simplicity I will refer to Wesleyan theology without further
qualifications. Second, my location within the helping professions is
primarily as a counselor educator of master's degree students. I am
keenly interested in the practical application of theologically informed
clinical practice. Third, for the sake of efficiency the following
discussion is applied to highly committed Christian clients who give
permission for the use of spirituality and religion in therapy.
Theologically Reflective Counseling Model
Holeman (2012) offers a process model for theologically reflective
counseling. Holeman's model is intentionally independent of
theological tradition and therapeutic theory so that practitioners of
any theological and therapeutic persuasion can adopt this model. Drawing
upon concepts from a meta-model of change for couples therapy developed
by Sprenkle. Davis, and Lebow (2009), Holeman applies the basic
structure of this template to describe how one can integrate theological
reflection with clinical work.
Attending. Holeman (2012) outlines four major movements in the
model: attending, addressing, aligning, and attaining. In the first
movement, counselors attend to theological echoes that are embedded in
clients' stories. As counselors give focused attention to
clients' stories, they are listening for "theologically
related undertones" (p. 46) that are present. Theologically focused
attending helps counselors understand the spiritual, religious, or
theological frames that clients use to make sense of their problems.
Clients' theological framing may be well articulated (why is God
punishing me?) or it may appear in embryonic form ("This pain is
senseless") even if the client is highly committed to Christianity.
Spiritual or theological considerations may be central to the
clients' concerns or peripheral to clinical work. When such
frameworks are present, counselors can invite clients to explore these
matters more fully during a time of securing informed consent. Holeman
cautions therapists not to use their personal theology to judge
clients' spiritual or religious interpretations of events. Instead,
she invites counselors to increase their sensitivity to how their
personal theology colors their understanding of clients' clinical
concerns so that they may avoid imposing their belief system upon
clients.
Addressing. In the second movement, counselors address theological
themes with their clients. As goal setting unfolds, counselors and
clients collaborate to name salient theological themes that are of
sufficient interest to the client to warrant further exploration.
Theological themes are narrative threads woven throughout the
scriptures. Examples of theological themes include loving relationships
with God, others, and self; justice and mercy; forgiveness, repentance,
and reconciliation; hope and healing; etc. Counselors and clients agree
on the extent to which these themes are central or peripheral to
clinical work, andwhether clients wish to employ overtly Christian
interventions (e.g., Worthington et al., 2013).
Aligning. The third movement invites clients to align targeted
areas of their lives with clients' theological commitments.
Counselors may use interventions that change clients' cognitions
(e.g., align thinking with Scriptural truths), help clients regulate
their affect (e.g., contemplative prayer), or challenge clients to adopt
new patterns of behavior (e.g., forgiving, repenting, serving the poor).
Mirroring the insights about common factors as developed by Sprenkle et
al. (2009), theologically reflective counselors help clients (a) to slow
down so that they can see the faithfulness of God in the midst of their
pain, (b) to stand meta to their own situations and place their concerns
in God's hands, and (c) to take personal responsibility to love God
and to act rightly in their relationship with others so far as it
depends on them (Rom 12:18).
Attaining. The final movement of theologically reflective
counseling may find clients attaining a deepening Christian character.
Specifically, clients may experience greater capacities for faith, hope,
and love (1 Cor. 13) in the context of their clinical goals. Regarding
faith, clients may become better promise-keepers, and their
relationships now may be denoted by faithfulness to God, others, and
self. Regarding hope, clients may be reassured of God's presence in
the midst of their trials, tribulations, and traumas. Regarding love,
clients may be able to give and receive love in ways that they could not
prior to completing their therapeutic work.
Wesleyan-Holiness Theology and Theologically Reflective Counseling
I will use the four movements of Holeman's (2012) model to
explore how seven features of Wesleyan-holiness theology interact with
theologically reflective clinical practice. The presentation is
organized as follows:
* Attending to theological echoes finds support in Wesley's
conjunctive theology and his study of affectional moral psychology.
* Addressing salient theological themes is based upon Wesley's
understanding of "practical divinity."
* Aligning specific areas of a client's life to be more
theologically congruent is undergialed by love as Wesley's framing
metaphor, his description of God's grace as relational and
responsible, and his understanding of holiness as personal and social.
* Attaining a deepening Christian character through a consolidation
of client gains is founded upon Wesley's emphasis on
sanctification.
Attending to Theological Echoes in Presenting Problems
When clients initially disclose their concerns to a therapist, the
clinician has an opportunity to listen for, or to attend to, theological
echoes that may be heard in the background of clients' presenting
problems (Holeman, 2012). Support for this practice is found in
Wesley's conjunctive theology and his study of affectional moral
psychology.
Conjunctive theology. Whereas many theologians in Wesley's
time were influenced by the Western or Latin branch of Christianity,
John Wesley was inspired by theological thinking from the Eastern or
Greek branch (Collins, 2007; Maddox, 1994). As a result Wesley rejected
"either/or" theological reflection. Instead he favored a
"both/and" or a conjunctive approach because Wesley tended to
join two theological assertions that were otherwise in tension with one
another (Collins, 2007). For example, Wesley affirmed the juridical
effects of sin and of people's inability to atone for their own
sins (Western), and he affirmed a therapeutic concern for the extent to
which salvation can heal humanity's sin-diseased nature (Eastern;
Maddox, 1994). Other examples of Wesley's both/and theology include
his emphasis on faith alone and holy living, grace and works,
justification and sanctification, evangelism and social action,
God's sovereignty and human responsibility/freedom.
Wesley blurred the dichotomy between the sacred and the secular. He
was as much at home studying the Greek New Testament as he was studying
the natural sciences of his day (Maddox, 2009), demonstrating a
conjunction of faith (understood as faithful living) and science. Wesley
was not threatened by scientific discoveries (Malony, 1999); rather, he
was an astute student of the natural science of the 18th century,
particularly the theories of Sir Isaac Newton. Wesley used knowledge of
God's laws of the universe to reduce human suffering, for he was
convinced chat much suffering was caused by violating God's
physical laws" (Malony, 1999, P. 8). Drawing upon the medical
science of his day, Wesley equipped his itinerant preachers with a
medical self-help book, The Primitive Physick (Wesley, 1747/1992), so
that rich and poor alike, would have access to practical health care
information. Wesley did not choose between faithful living and
scientific discovery; instead, he affirmed all truth as God's
truth, including truths from psychology (Malony, 1999).
Moral psychology. Wesley critically reviewed the competing moral
psychologies in his 18th century England. His engagement with
affectional moral psychology is reflected in the theology that he
developed more fully after his conversion experience at Aldersgate in
1738 (Maddox, 2004, 2009). Based on his understanding of moral
psychology, Wesley approached the spiritual Christian life holistically,
including its cognitive, behavioral, emotional (affectional), and
relational components (Headley, 2013; Maddox, 2004). For example,
Wesley's 18th century understanding of the believer's
emotional and volitional life (in terms of "tempers and
affections") resembles contemporary neuroscience findings which
highlight the interconnection between neurological processes, relational
experiences, and affect (for examples see Cozolino, 2002, 2006; Damasio,
1999; Siegel, 1999)--all of which have implications for counseling
practices and spiritual development (Blevins, 2009; Brown & Strawn,
2012; Headley, 2013; Holeman, 2012; Mann, 2006). Wesley's emphasis
on community-based, small-group practices for spiritual growth and
accountability built on his uninformed, but intuitive understanding of
the social brain (Stratton, 2013). If Wesley were alive today, in
addition to A Primitive Physick, he probably would have developed an app
that his itinerant clergy could use on their smart phones to address
their parishioners' relational and emotional distress so that the
poorest of them would have access to some level of sound mental health
care.
Application. This 18th century Wesleyan conjunction of faithful
Christian living and moral psychology invites 21st century Christian
clinicians to use all that social science research has to offer to bring
wholeness to those with whom they work and to attend to how theological
melodies are playing in the background or foreground of clients'
presenting concerns. This process includes critical thinking about
competing models of counseling. Clinicians of faith can give serious
thought to which contemporary models of psychotherapy address or ignore
and help or hinder the spiritual or theological dimensions of
clients' lives. Attending to theological themes early in the
counseling process parallels the current clinical standard of taking a
thorough religious and spiritual history and assessment as part of
intake (Aten & Leach, 2008). Nevertheless, Christian professional
mental health workers do not have permission to turn professional
counseling sessions into spiritual direction (Riggs, 2006), but they can
support a careful integration of theologically oriented conversation
within contemporary counseling. The following scenario illustrates a
counselor employing theologically reflective attending.
Susanna sought counseling because she was depressed and angry. She
was recently "let go" from her job as a result of down-sizing.
While Susanna has no proof, Susanna believes that she was "thrown
under the bus" by her immediate supervisor, who was able to save
his position because Susanna lost hers. Susanna feels betrayed because
the supervisor had made promises of job security to her in her recent
performance review. Susanna asks, "How can this be happening to me?
I was doing exactly what God called me to do!" As Susanna's
counselor listened to her story, the counselor saw the theological
threads of suffering and forgiveness woven through this situation. A
counselor working within a Wesleyan framework would wonder how Susanna
might use this experience to help her grow in her love for God and
others in the face of this betrayal, and how she might struggle to see
God's hand at work in her situation.
Addressing Theological Themes Reflected in Counseling Goals
The second movement of theologically reflective counseling
(HoLeman, 2012) invites Christian clients to work with theological
themes that are consistent with their counseling goals. Wesley's
concern with practical divinity informs this process.
Wesley's practical divinity. Wesley was a man of God with an
overarching concern for lived Christianity. His dual emphasis on
knowledge and vital piety combined his unswerving commitment to the
import of scriptural truth in the believer's life (personal
holiness) with his unswerving commitment to the centrality of
communalpractices of a lived faith in the church's life and mission
(social holiness). Wesley considered applied theology a matter of
practical, experiential, or experimental divinity (Amistead, Strawn,
& Wright, 2010). Collins (2007) clarifies that, for Wesley,
"experimental or practical divinity is participatory and engaging.
It entails nothing less than the actualization and verification of
Scripture with respect to inward religion (by grace through faith)
within the context of the Christian community" (p. 2). This
emphasis is reflected in the question that guided Wesley's
theological journey: "How can I be the kind of person that God
created me to be, and that I long to be, a person holy in heart and
life?" (Maddox, 2004, p. 101). Some variation of this question is
often at the center of counseling goals for many Christian dients.
Wesley expected that God would really transform people--in their
thought life, their emotional life, and in their relational life--once
they were filled with God's love. This transformation was
facilitated by Christian practices that Wesley called "the means of
grace," which were individual and corporate activities that drew
people closer to God's heart, and as a result, would increase their
ability to love God and to love others. This grace-infused
transformation took on practical contours as attested to in
Wesley's sermons--for example, Sermon 41: Wandering Thoughts,
Sermon 47: Heaviness through Manifold Temptations, Sermon 48:
Self-denial, Sermon 49: The Cure of Evil Speaking, Sermon 50: The Use of
Money, and Sermon 52: The Reibrmation of Manners (Burwash, 1988).
Application. Wesley's emphasis on practical divinity
(one's deep experience of God's love that makes a difference
in how one lives) provides a rationale for viewing counseling as a means
of grace, a process through which God can pour God's transforming
love into human lives (Holeman, 2012). Counseling provides a context
where clients can experience God's love, first through forming a
secure attachment to an empathic therapist, and subsequently through
transferring that experience into a secure attachment with God
(Stratton, 2013). Wesleyan counselors earnestly anticipate that clients
will experience real change as therapy helps them to open their lives
more fully to God's agenda for this world. Authentic transformation
may happen when counseling helps clients remove the barriers that get in
their way of receiving and sharing God's love.
From Wesleyan perspectives, dividing client concerns into
"secular" and "spiritual" categories creates a false
dichotomy. One can easily imagine the titles of the aforementioned
sermons as therapeutic goals or clinical observations in a
counselor's case notes. Counselors are engaged in God's work
when they help clients see the fingerprints of God in the concrete
situations of their lives. Wesleyan-informed counseling expects that
God's presence is evident in the counselor's work because that
is the nature of God's love for all clients. Every step that a
client rakes toward wholeness can be a step closer to aligning the
client's life with God's kingdom agenda.
The addressing movement in theologically reflective counseling
connects seamlessly to traditional goal setting as demonstrated in the
case of Susanna. Susanna and her counselor develop goals for treatment.
Susanna agrees that she would like to explore what it would mean to
forgive her supervisor for this betrayal. She believes that she
"should" forgive because that is what a Christ follower does,
but she is so angry at the supervisor that she is not sure that she
"can" forgive right now. Susanna affirms that she prefers
exploring what this job setback means to her in the larger picture of
her Christian life. Then she may be ready to forgive. From a Wesleyan
perspective, the counselor is helping Susanna set goals that will help
her to answer Wesley's orienting question: How can Susanna be the
kind of person that God created her to be, a person holy in heart and
life?
Aligning Areas of Life to be more Theologically Congruent
The third movement of theologically reflective counseling (Holeman,
2012) is the "workhorse" stage where Christian clients move
toward their identified goals. As they reach these goals, they may also
discover a greater degree of congruence between their theological
beliefs and their life choices and behaviors. Three Wesleyan
distinctives are foundational for this phase: love as Wesley's
framing theological metaphor, grace that is relational and responsible,
and holiness that is personal and social.
Love as Wesley's theological framing metaphor. Wesley
tolerated no theological interpretation that diminished an emphasis on
the fullness of God's love for creation (Wynkoop, 1972). God's
love was the attribute by which all other attributes of God were
understood, including God's sovereignty. What the book of Romans
was for John Calvin, the book of 1 John was for John Wesley (Wall,
2011). Wesley's theology rested on 1 John's message of
God's love for humanity, and God's expectation that God's
love would overflow in believers' lives into love for the people
God loved. The result of this was that God's love reoriented the
saved person's internal motivating system (i.e., his/her moral
affections; Maddox, 1994). This reorientation of self and life goals
happened as a result of the work of the Holy Spirit, who empowered
believers to respond to God's divine bid for loving connection.
Examples of this perspective are found in numerous Wesley sermons
including Sermon I: Salvation by Faith and Sermon IV: Scriptural
Christianity (Burwash, 1988). Through the Holy Spirit, believers were
empowered to respond to God's heart and to conform their hearts to
God's heart of love--a process that Wesley labeled sanctification
or Christian perfection. Given that clients tend to represent those who
struggle to live a life that is reflective of God's love,
counseling becomes one way to help clients grow in this capacity.
This Wesleyan perspective is linked to Wesley's understanding
of sin. Over the course of Wesleyan history, theologians in the Wesleyan
family have adopted different definitions of sin and its remedy (Mann,
2006). The definition of sin that most closely maps onto Wesley's
original emphasis is sin defined as disordered moral affections that
entice a person to turn away from God. Sin is not a "thing" to
be removed (i.e., like a bad tooth). Instead, sin is a relational
concept (Mann, 2006; Wynkoop, 1972), the counterpoint to God's
relational love. By the grace of God imparted to believers through the
work of the Holy Spirit, and with the believer's cooperative
response to that grace, Wesley taught that believers could be healed
from the destructive influence of disordered moral affections, which is
the therapeutic function of grace (Maddox, 1994). Through engagement in
individual and communal practices (i.e., means of grace) that drew
believers closer to God, believers could align with God's loving
purposes .and have the ability to resist "choicefur sin (see Sermon
13: On Sin in Believers; Burwash, 1988). As a result, believers'
lives were no longer oriented around sin (i.e., ways of relating that
separated them from God and others). Instead). their lives manifested
God's love as empowered by the Holy Spirit through whom God's
love flowed for the saved person.
Grace that is relational and responsible. Grace that is relational
and responsible is the next Wesleyan distinctive that provides a basis
for helping clients align their lives so that they live in ways that are
more theologically congruent. Wesley preached the impartial provision of
God's grace to humanity prior to their justification, or prevenient
grace. Prevenient grace is God's grace chat is active before people
are conscious of their need for God. It is grace that precedes
one's choice to live for God. This grace is relational: God
relating to people and enabling them to relate to God and to experience
God's grace in increasing measures (Willimon, 2010).
God's grace is not only relational, it is also responsible.
Wesley proposed that humans are partners with God (Kilian & Parker,
2001; Maddox, 1994), expressed through their moral freedom. In other
words, through moral freedom, people can resist and even reject God.
Nevertheless, God's gracious love continually calls to all persons.
The Holy Spirit helps individuals to respond to that call. Christian
lives are transformed through God's loving grace to the point where
they are freed to love God and others as consistently as possible. This
embodiment of Christlikeness is manifested within the constraints of
human limitations or infirmities (Mann, 2006). God works within people.
Yet they are called to be responding and responsible partners with God
so that, by nurturing a holy character through the means of grace, they
can increase their capacities to love God and others.
Holiness that is personal and social. The last Wesleyan distinctive
that provides a basis for the third movement of theologically reflective
counseling is Wesley's understanding of personal and social
holiness. Wesley described holiness as the here-and-now embodiment and
enactment of God's love within the church and to the world (Maddox,
1994). Holiness not only made believers fit for heaven, it also made
them fit to live with each other on earth. Wesley often used the terms
holiness and love interchangeably, because he saw the link between holy
living and loving others so strongly (Coffins, 2007). For Wesley and his
theological successors, holiness was ultimately about relationship. When
believers respond to God's love, then the holy love of God fills
them to such an extent that it spills over into everyday relationships.
Wesley labeled the individual, inward transformation personal holiness.
Believers' capacity to align their heart with God's heart is
nurtured as they grow in God's grace imparted to them through the
Holy Spirit (Maddox, 2004; Wynkoop, 1972) and reinforced through
individual and corporate means of grace. Through personal holiness,
Christians are transformed in increasing measures into the image of
Christ.
Social holiness is the communal extension of personal holiness.
Wesley argued against individualized,
disconnected-from-the-body-of-Christ spirituality. He argued for
Christians in loving relationship with each other, and by logical
extension, for Christians in service to the world. Wesley is widely
recognized for his organizational strategy of placing converts into
different groupings called classes, select societies, and bands. These
groups progressed in spiritual intensity and served as support and
accountability for spiritual maturation (Collins, 2007; Gregg[degrees],
2008).
Wesley's concern centered on living out one's faith
within the community of believers. Yet, because of his extensive
ministry to the poor, we can logically extend social holiness into the
realm of social activism and social justice. For Wesley, service to the
poor was an integral part of holiness. It was a present-day enactment of
God's heart for the widows, the orphans, the sojourners, and the
aliens. Wesley pictured personal and social holiness as a mutually
reinforcing dynamic between the two great commandments: Love the Lord
your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength, and love your
neighbor as yourself (Snyder, 1996).
Application. How do these three features of Wesleyan theology
support clinical practice that helps clients to align areas of their
lives to be more theologically congruent? First, holy love provides a
theological metaphor for the therapeutic relationship. Clinical
attending creates the conditions for the client to become attuned to a
loving presence in the context of counseling. The client first
experiences attunement from the counselor. Then the client may
experience attunement from the presence of a Divine Other. Attending
creates an experience of the kind of secure base and safe haven that
eventually may reduce the fears that get in the client's way of
giving and receiving love (Stratton, 2013). According to Stratton,
learning to love in a Wesleyan ordered way is at the heart of almost all
counseling concerns. Therefore, when counselors help clients to love and
to act in ways that are more loving to self and to others, counselors
are engaged in God's restorative kingdom work.
Second, Wesley believed that God gave humanity the freedom to
resist the influence of His grace. The ethical directive for counselors
to respect the client's autonomy is congruent with this aspect of
Wesleyan theology. Many clinical problems exist because of clients'
sinful choices or because the client is trying to cope with the
aftermath of being sinned against. Clients can be held accountable for
their choices. With the clients' informed consent, Christian
spiritual disciplines and other practices can be used as adjuncts to
clinical practice. Clients are active participants in the therapy
process and God is invited into the therapy arena (Kilian & Parker,
2001).
Third, social holiness is a clear support for group work and for
counselors as advocates for social justice (Holeman, 2012). Social
holiness as spiritual-accountability-in-community speaks to the basis of
personal and societal transformation. Transformation requires
relationality, which is at the heart of the therapeutic relationship,
Wesley's small group processes, and contemporary support or
recovery groups (Brown & Strawn, 2012; Greggo, 2008).
Susanna's vignette demonstrates how one counselor put this
movement into action. The counselor first encouraged Susanna to rally as
much social support from the body of Christ as Susanna could muster to
assist her through crisis. At the counselor's urging, Susanna
consulted her pastor for Biblical or theological resources. Susanna also
shared her situation with a trusted prayer partner. Susanna gave consent
for the use of contemplative prayer/mindfulness interventions to help
her manage her anxiety about the future. In session, Susanna discussed
her personal inventory of the ways that she has experienced God's
faithfulness as an avenue for building hope about her future. She began
to update her resume and to activate her professional network to help
her find a new job. In the midst of these practical therapeutic
activities, Susanna indicated that she was ready to forgive her
supervisor. Her motivation was not to please her pastor or to avoid
God's wrath; she saw forgiveness of her supervisor as a way for her
to manifest her love for God and to live a life pleasing to God, a holy
life. Susanna began to see new possibilities for her future as she
engaged these spiritual and therapeutic practices. In Wesleyan terms,
the counselor was activating different components of personal and social
holiness to support Susanna through this crisis. The counselor was
helping Susanna to rake responsibility for her life - spiritually and
vocationally - so that she would have open eyes to see God at work in
her life's circumstances.
Attaining a Deepening Christian Character
The final movement of theologically reflective counseling (Holeman,
2012) involves assisting clients in consolidating therapeutic gains into
lasting character change. Therapists may or may not have the privilege
of seeing clients embody the character changes that their work in
counseling may bring about because many clients may terminate counseling
prior to this stage, yet continue to grow as a result of their
therapeutic gains. The Wesleyan understanding of sanctification supports
this process.
Sanctification. Sanctification or Christian perfection is the most
distinctive aspect of a Wesleyan view of grace (Oden, 1994).
Sanctification is not about perfection in a static sense; rather, the
emphasis is on a process of perfecting (Mann, 2006; Wynkoop, 1972). Put
more simply, Wesley operationalized sanctification/Christian perfection
as continually growing in one's love for God and others as
manifested in a changed life and in concrete action. Sanctification is
the capacity for aligning one's life as fully as possible with the
heart of God at any moment in time (Wynkoop, 1972).
Wesley taught that God imparts righteousness to believers, whereby
believers are enabled to relate rightly to God and to others (relational
and responsible holiness). Imparted righteousness includes freedom from
the power of sin so that believers may live without committing
conscious, voluntary sins and choose a God-centered life. For Wesley,
this freedom from the power of sin was commensurate with the restoration
of the image of God in a believer's life.
Sanctification/perfection, viewed as one's capacity for loving God
and loving others, can either grow and develop or be limited by
physical/emotional realities (e.g., limited cognitive ability,
addiction, mental illness, etc.; Mann, 2006). The goal of sanctification
is not flawlessness. Instead its aim is to express love for God and
others as fully as one's present human condition enables one so to
do.
Application. A convert enters into a special relationship with God
that Wesleyans believe results in genuine character transformation
(Kilian & Parker, 2001). This belief brings hope into our work with
even the most challenging client. Sanctification focuses on
relationships as a key to change in the counseling process (Kilian &
Parker, 2001; Maddox, 2004; Mann, 2006). We have now come full
circle--back to one of the starting points of this article--a Wesleyan
embrace of faithful living and scientific discoveries. Neuroscientists
have demonstrated that the brain is constantly changing and adapting at
a neuronal level, and relational experiences are key contributors to
these kinds of brain-based changes. At its heart, positive therapeutic
movement is a transition from a more fearful brain to a more loving
brain (Stratton, 2013). This therapeutic movement may describe the
process of sanctification quite nicely as seen in 1 John 4:18 (Common
English Bible), "There is no fear in love, but perfect love drives
out fear."
This final movement of theologically reflective counseling is a
time of celebration. As Susanna approached the end of her counseling,
she shared with her counselor that this challenging time in her life has
shown her how much God truly loves her. She found God to be faithful in
God's promise-keeping to never leave her or forsake her. Prior to
this, she imagined her Christian life to be blessed by God only if it
was pain-free. Now she believes that suffering can produce
Christlikeness because she has experienced it. She no longer fears the
future because she knows that God will be with her regardless of the
circumstances.
Conclusion
Theologically informed counseling (Holeman, 2012) proposes that
counselors can use theological reflection to help devout clients attain
counseling goals. Holeman's theologically reflective counseling
model can assist counselors in keeping theological reflection active
from intake to termination. Using this model, I have described several
features of Wesleyan theology that provide a foundation for integrating
theology from a specific theological perspective. Therapists of faith
are encouraged to explore the particulars of their own theological
heritage and to consider how their theology can contribute to their
current dinical practices.
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Author Note: Virginia T. Holeman, Department of Counseling and
Pastoral Care, Asbury Theological Seminary.
A version of this article was presented at the 2013 conference of
the Evangelical Theological Society, Baltimore, MD. Special thanks to
Stephen P. Greggo for his vision and leadership in that conference and
to Stephen P. Stratton for his astute comments on an earlier draft of
this manuscript.
Correspondence concerning this article should be addressed to
Virginia T. Holeman, Department of Counseling and Pastoral Care, Asbury
Theological Seminary, Wilmore, KY 40390. E-mail: toddy.
holeman@asburysemnary.edu