Religious considerations and self-forgiveness in treating complex trauma and moral injury in present and former soldiers.
Worthington, Everett L., Jr. ; Langberg, Diane
Being in the military, especially if deployed in combat or combat
potential settings, can create opportunities for
self-condemnation--occurring through moral injury or apart from and
within the context of complex trauma. Moral injury is internal conflict
due to doing or witnessing acts not in line with one's morals.
Complex trauma involves a prolonged history of subjection to
totalitarian control and involves danger, stress, and inability to
escape from the situation. Combat can be interpreted as fitting these
criteria. We first examine how military deployment might lead to
self-condemnation due to moral failures by wrongdoing or when soldiers
let down their peers and themselves. We examine soldiers who develop
complex trauma and explore its contributions to self-condemnation.
Religious issues are likely to be involved. Active wrongdoing, moral
failure, and failures of church- and culture-created religious
expectations contribute. Soldiers need the skill of self-forgiveness
through secular and religiously tailored programs delivered via
psychoeducational groups, workbook, or online.
The number of people who have served or will likely serve in the
military is large (Cornum, Matthews, & Seligman, 2011). In Iraq and
Afghanistan alone, over 1.64 million military personnel have served
(Hoge et al., 2004; Smith, et al., 2008). When one considers the number
of living veterans from other conflicts, this represents a substantial
proportion of the population in the United States. Deployment affects
spouses, children, and extended family members and friends (for a
review, see Sheppard, Malatras, & Israel, 2010). There is an
increased demand for clinical services from mental health professionals,
and the demand is likely to increase.
One important problem among military personnel that
psychotherapists will be required to deal with is self-condemnation.
Self-condemnation is defined as criticism and condemnation of oneself
(along with accompanying moral emotions from among guilt, shame,
remorse, regret, self-blame, etc.) due to perceived (a) moral wrongdoing
(including omission of doing one's duty or acting in accord with
one's conscience), (b) failure at living up to one's standards
(which is also considered a moral failure), or (c) failure to live up to
one's expectations (which might not be considered a moral failure
at all). Combat soldiers face many moral and ethical challenges
(Drescher et al., 2011; Litz et al., 2009). They may violate their own
deeply held moral beliefs, witness the unethical behaviors of others, or
question the justness of their own countries involvement in war. As a
result they suffer internal conflict between their morally questionable
actions and internal beliefs. In addition, soldiers often witness great
human suffering and cruelty that shatters their core beliefs about
humanity and sometimes about God, both of which might result in doubts,
questions, and conflicts about their faith. They may experience
challenges to their conception of God and question the goodness or power
of God. They may also lose the belief that humans are redeemable. They
may deal with these moral, ethical, religious, and spiritual challenges
during active duty, in periods of non-deployment or while deployed, or
later as veterans (Fontana & Rosenheck, 2004). These experiences
result in internal conflict, which is considered moral injury (Litz a
al., 2009). Dealing inadequately with the results of these stressors can
produce self-condemnation, which can impair physical health, mental
health, relationships, and spiritual functioning (Fontana &
Rosencheck, 2004; Witvliet, Phipps, Feldman, & Beckman, 2004).
Dealing adequately or successfully coming to terms with moral injury
results in moral repair (Drescher et al., 2011; Steenkamp et al., 2011).
The central argument in our article is this. Chronic and severe
self-condemnation, often (but not always) arising from moral injury, is
a substantial risk for military personnel. Such self-condemnation can
occur in response to mere moral injury or can be part of complex trauma.
Self-condemnation has serious possible sequelae (i.e., physical health,
mental health, relational, and spiritual effects). Self-condemnation
occurs because people have been victims of, have perpetrated, or have
witnessed moral wrongs and person-person violence (i.e., moral injury
that triggers in people severe internal conflict), which may have
resulted in a traumatic reaction, especially if the trauma was complex
trauma. Self-condemnation can be dealt with through various means that
can aid recovery. One of those ways is through responsible
self-forgiveness. However, responsible self-forgiveness must occur
within the context of (a) appealing to God (or, for people who do not
believe in God, appealing to some high power or what a person believes
to be sacred) for divine forgiveness and favor; (b) making amends for
wrongs that one perpetrated himself or herself or allowed to be
inflicted without trying to prevent them; (c) examining and dealing with
expectations that might have been too ambitious, perfectionistic, or
unrealistic; (d) adjusting one's self-perception (i.e., self-image,
self-concept, and self-esteem) to accept oneself as a valuable, though
fallen, human being; (e) practicing a life in which virtue is habitual;
yet (f) giving oneself room to fail (Worthington, 2006). These have
given rise to six steps to self-forgiveness (Worthington, in press, a).
That intervention program has undergone an initial clinical test in an
in-patient treatment program for alcohol and drug addiction (Scherer,
Worthington, Hook, & Campana, 2011), and we are continuing to test
it in other contexts.
Since 1998, self-forgiveness has been studied less than has other
types of forgiveness (see Fehr, Gelfand, & Nag, 2010), but the pace
is increasing. Self-forgiveness has been referred to within articles on
moral injury in combat veterans (Drescher et al., 2011; Litz et al.,
2009), but it has not yet been studied empirically within a population
of veterans, combat veterans, or active military personnel. Theories of
self-forgiveness (Hall & Fincham, 2005), tests of the theory (Hall
& Fincham, 2007), measures of dispositional self-forgiveness
(Thompson et al., 2005), state self-forgiveness (Wohl, Wahkinney, &
DeShea, 2008), and remorse and self-condemnation (Fisher & Exline,
2006, 2010) are available, but they have been developed largely for the
student population and wholly for civilians. Research is accumulating on
predictors of self-forgiveness and failure to forgive the self within
civilian populations (Fisher & Exline, 2006; Hall & Fincham,
2005, 2007). Studies of self-forgiveness interventions have been done,
but few have been published (see Campana, 2010; Exline, Root, Yadavalli,
Martin, & Fisher, 2011; Scherer, et al., 2011).
We consider the likely sources of self-condemnation that veterans
or active duty military personnel might encounter, especially those who
have seen combat. Although there are common experiences that deployed
soldiers will have to deal with, we suggest that these problems will be
especially acute when people develop complex traumas. We describe
self-forgiveness as a coping strategy for stresses arising from
self-condemnation, and discuss the particular considerations for
adapting a psycho-educational self-forgiveness intervention for military
personnel and veterans. The articles in this special issue seek to
promote research in coping with trauma, especially considering religious
factors in coping. Our research efforts in this regard are just
beginning, and we initiate that research with the present conceptual and
theoretical work. After we have surveyed the issues, we will conclude
the article by setting forth plans for a research agenda.
Self-Condemnation in Soldiers and Veterans
Self-Condemnation as a Stress Response to Perceived Wrongdoing
The perpetration of acts that one personally finds morally
repugnant, disagreements with orders that are nevertheless followed, and
observing others doing morally repugnant acts can result in
self-condemnation among soldiers (Litz et al., 2009). When traumas faced
in combat are compounded with self-doubt, regret, guilt, and shame,
soldiers might vigorously, unrelentingly, or intermittently condemn
themselves (Maugen & Litz, 2012). Intense intermittent, frequent,
and chronic self-condemnations are stressful (Worthing ton, 2006).
Judgment by family members, military peers or superiors, and civilians
can trigger or reinforce self-condemnation as well as provide the added
stress of dealing with the condemnation of the others (Hoge et al.,
2004). Witvliet et al. (2004) have shown that condemnation from others
is stressful. Both self-condemnation and condemnation by others activate
the stress response and produce attempts to cope (Worthington, 2006).
Coping might be effective at relieving negative stress responses. It
also might--despite short-term stress relief--have long-term negative
sequelae if the self-condemnation persists (Hoge et al., 2004; Pargament
& Sweeney, 2011). The results often are long-term problems,
stresses, and increased risks for problems in physical health (Hassija,
Jakupcak, Maguen, & Shipherd, 2012), mental health (Maguen et al.,
2009; Sher, 2009), relationships (Litz et al., 2009), and spiritual
functioning (Pargament & Sweeney, 2011). Such effects have been
documented in military populations as well as civilian populations
(Smith et al., 2008).
Litz et al. (2009) inquire whether there is a distinct syndrome of
psychological, biological, behavioral, and relational problems that
arises from serious or sustained morally injurious experiences. They ask
whether existing disorders, such as posttraumatic stress disorder
(PTSD), can sufficiently explain the sequelae of perpetrating moral
injuries. Among Vietnam veterans, PTSD has been related to participating
in atrocities (Beckham, Feldman, & Kirby, 1998). Witnessing
atrocities--even if one did not actively participate (Hiley-Young et
al., 1995)--puts a veteran at risk for PTSD. However, perpetration is
more personally injurious than is mere non-participatory witnessing.
Killing is an especially strong predictor of chronic PTSD
symptoms--better than virtually all other indices of combat (Fontana
& Rosenheck, 2004; MacNair, 2002; Maguen et al., 2009; Maguen et
al., 2010). Maguen et al. (2010) studied 2,797 soldiers in the Iraqi
Freedom campaign. Maguen et al. (2010) reported that about 40 percent of
the soldiers reported killing or being responsible for killing during
their deployment. Even after controlling for combat exposure, killing
was found to predict PTSD symptoms, alcohol abuse, anger, and
relationship problems. Maguen et al. (2010) observed that military
personnel returning from modern deployments are at high risk of mental
health conditions and related difficulties in psychosocial functioning
related to killing in war. Such conditions set the stage for the
internal conflicts of moral injury (Litz et al., 2009; Maguen &
Litz, 2012). MacNair (2002), for example, found that Vietnam veterans
who killed but were only in light combat had more PTSD symptoms than did
those who did not kill but were in heavy combat. Fontana and Rosenheck
(2004) found that, relative to being passive observers of killing,
actually killing or not acting to prevent killing better predicted
higher suicidality, more PTSD symptoms, and other mental health
disorders. In fact, suicidality as a potential escape from
self-condemnation is a particular difficulty in recent military service
and its aftermath (Sher, 2009). Litz et al. (2009) concluded that it is
necessary to conceptualize a model for explaining moral injury itself to
provide a framework in which treatment could be considered. Later, we
will describe their model and provide a critique.
Self-Condemnation from Failure to Meet Expectations for Oneself
It is not just war trauma, moral injury, or participation in combat
that suggest a need to consider self-forgiveness in order to cope with
self-condemnation. Part of the need arises from the military environment
itself, which is highly result-oriented. Results are prized. Military
personnel are supposed to get the job done (and not let feelings get in
the way of performance), and usually soldiers get positive results. The
orientation towards getting results inevitably means that performance
evaluations are frequent and taken seriously. Promotion and continuation
in the service depends on getting excellent fitness reports (i.e., the
military term for an evaluation of performance).
This performance orientation has several implications. First,
people are always being evaluated. Second, while teamwork and leadership
are valued, dependency is anathema. Being viewed as "weak" or
"dependent" can spell social ostracism, and (in a normal
distribution) some will inevitably be judged as weaker or more dependent
than their peers. Third, even military personnel who are not
career-oriented live with continual performance evaluation. Social
psychology shows that there
is enormous power inherent in situational pressures (Zimbardo, 2007).
Because situations are so important, and the culture of performance
evaluation permeates the military, we hypothesize that military
personnel will likely become more self-evaluative as they adjust to
being in the service.
In such a performance-oriented culture, some degree of failure is
virtually inevitable--even if small. If there is any tendency to blame
the self for such actual failures and perceived (but not veridical)
failures, the military performance-oriented culture will provide ample
opportunity for self-judgment and perhaps self-condemnation.
Aspects of the military situation that make self-condemnation more
probable than in many other situations are several (Litz et al., 2009).
First, opportunities for high-consequence failures are frequent. Risky
situations are part of military life. Failure can result in loss of
life, limb, or mates in one's troop or company. Second, war is
competitive, and a competitive motivation is enhanced throughout the
military. Thus, standards are high and advancement is absolutely
dependent on neither just being good, but on being the best, nor just on
having a good record, but on having a flawless record. Third, while
soldiers are expected to be obedient to orders, they are also expected
to show initiative. That requires self-analysis, not merely waiting for
a superior to tell one that changes are needed. Because the situations
one is likely to face as a warrior have high consequences (e.g., might
result in a friend being killed, might pressure one to do something one
feels is morally wrong, might be unable to follow through with orders),
the necessity of self-analysis and acting to remedy potential, as well
as manifest, flaws and weaknesses is paramount. Whether one lives up to
one's own standard of performance and morality is vital to
initiating self-improvement. This can lead also to
self-condemnation--especially if one either sets abnormally high
standards for oneself or if one does not see a realistic way of coping
with a bad situation.
In a culture of evaluation where the stakes are high for failure or
success, condemnation by others might be expected. Self-condemnation
arises from judgments of inadequacy, and such judgments are subjective.
As we know from 50 years of research on social influence (Baumeister
& Bushman, 2008), people are highly likely to be influenced in their
judgments of their own inadequacy if (a) others in the group voice
condemnation; (b) the group is highly valued and important; (c) an
authority rendering judgment is respected; (d) no respected person
disagrees aloud within the group (hence a soldier's positive
support from a loving family might be discounted by the soldier). Thus,
condemnation by others, either informally or through fitness reports, is
likely to trigger self-condemnation in soldiers who are at all disposed
by personality toward self-judgment.
Self-condemnation is hypothesized to be not just a product of
failing to meet standards imposed by a military performance-oriented
culture. It can also arise as a failure to meet Christian standards. We
believe that, for the Christian, sin should ideally lead to confession
(and divine forgiveness). We observe that when Christians sin or fail to
meet their Christian-informed expectations, they often feel guilt and
self-condemnation from God, and many Christians often seem not to get
past those feelings to the freedom of forgiveness from God. Thus, we
might observe that in military settings, though not unique to those
settings, a felt condemnation by God might accompany or precede
self-condemnation. Importantly, not all self-condemnation is wrong or
pathological. Often self-condemnation drives people to recognize their
wrongdoing and further drives them back to God seeking forgiveness,
healing, and restoration. When these are the outcomes of
self-condemnation, we must conclude that self-condemnation (however
unpleasant) is a painful aid to righteous and healthy living. However,
when it is crippling, entrenched, and stunts growth, then
self-condemnation needs treatment.
There are a variety of personality predictors for developing
self-condemnation. Few have been studied at present--at least relative
to the study of personality and forgiveness of others.
The "machismo" culture of the military creates obstacles
to seeking help. The military has a well-ingrained culture of
self-reliance and an intolerance of weakness. It has historically not
supported seeking emotional support and help for self-condemnation,
especially regarding events in the line of duty. For a person who
believes his or her performance to be in need of improvement or believes
he or she has failed in some moral imperative, it is difficult to seek
or obtain support or help.
Self-Condemnation and Complex Traumas
Definition of complex trauma. Complex traumas involve a history of
subjection to totalitarian control over a prolonged period involving
danger, stress, and an inability to escape from the situation (Herman,
1997). In fact, clinical research has linked diagnoses of Complex Trauma
and of Disorders of Extreme Stress (DES, Not Otherwise Specified) with
histories of interpersonal victimization, multiple traumatic events, and
traumatic exposure of extended duration (Luxenberg, Spinazzola, &
van der Kolk, 2001). Complex traumas also involve subjection to complete
domination in cases of sexual and physical abuse (e.g., childhood
physical or sexual abuse, domestic battering, or sexual exploitation).
Can complex trauma occur in military deployment? Situations giving
rise to complex trauma might occur for prisoners of war, in a hostage
situation, or during concentration camp imprisonment. But we argue that,
more commonly, complex trauma could also occur if a person were deployed
multiple times in settings in which life is continually, but
unpredictably threatened by improvised explosive devices (IEDs), ambush,
or a likelihood of lethal betrayal by civilians. Each of those creates a
situation that a soldier might interpret as a prolonged confinement in
which risky or damaging circumstances repeatedly occur. In addition,
combat involves many things that a soldier could interpret as a
damaging, confining, and potentially hazardous situation. Deployment to
a war zone certainly involves multiple traumatic events for many
soldiers and traumatic exposure of extended duration. Soldiers can feel
that they are in dangerous situations that require them to do acts that
they would not do as civilians (see Litz et al., 2009), and from which
they do not perceive any possibility of escape. In addition, soldiers
with a history of previous traumas, especially if untreated, are also
more likely to develop complex trauma. In fact, Ford (1999) has observed
that PTSD is often not sufficient to describe the interlocking co-morbid
symptoms arising from moral injury, combat, and other experiences in a
war zone.
Symptoms of complex trauma. Symptoms of complex trauma fall into
seven categories (Luxenberg et al., 2001): alterations in (1) affect
(e.g., affective dysregulation, explosive or inhibited anger, compulsive
or inhibited sexuality, self-destructive behavior, suicidal
preoccupation, and risk-taking); (2) consciousness (e.g., amnesia,
dissociation, depersonalization, and intrusive memories); (3)
self-perception (e.g., paralysis of initiative, helplessness, shame,
guilt and responsibility, a sense of damage or defilement, a belief that
no one can understand, and minimizing); (4) perception of the
perpetrator; (5) relations with others (e.g., inability to trust,
isolation and withdrawal, a repeated search for a rescuer,
re-victimization, and victimizing others); (6) physical functioning
(e.g., somatization); and (7) systems of meaning (despair and
hopelessness, and loss of sustaining faith).
Several are of immediate concern to our contention. First, bouts of
explosive anger and compulsive sexual acting out or other
self-destructive behaviors following a return home can feed or lead to
much self-condemnation. Second, alterations of self-perception involving
shame, guilt, responsibility, sense of damage, and defilement are at the
core of self-condemnation (see Fisher & Exline, 2006). Third,
alterations in relationships leading to a lack of trust (in self,
others, and God), and potentially victimizing others (with rage) affirm
self-condemnation judgments and leave the soldier alone to deal with it.
In addition, complex trauma is often accompanied by hopelessness and in
a loss of sustaining faith. The combination can be lethal (literally) as
a soldier sees him or herself as despicable and capable of unspeakable
atrocities, as continuing to hurt others with his or her anger, as
feeling isolated from others and God, and as utterly hopeless.
Prevalence of complex trauma within active-duty military and
veterans. First, we observe that no empirical study of complex trauma
(per se) within the military exists. We suggest that this needs to be
remedied. We anticipate that the incidence of such complex trauma can
occur particularly in (a) current and former prisoners of war, (b)
people particularly dissatisfied with their deployment who feel that it
is imprisoning, (c) a soldier's participation in immoral acts, or
required interactions with squad leaders or peers who are abusive, and
(d) soldiers dealing with particularly troubling relationships at home.
It is likely that this last reason is not trivial. Generally, critical
incidents that trigger suicides have been studied (Sher, 2009). Most
suicides occur after some failure in the home life. For example, a
person's spouse has an affair, their child gets in trouble at
school, with the Jaw, or has a drug or alcohol problem, or conflict with
a romantic partner is high. Such events, especially if the soldier feels
that he or she is trapped on deployment and can do nothing to deal with
the domestic issue, can result in suicide--as has been shown--but we
hypothesize that soldiers who do not commit suicide are at risk for
complex trauma. Analysts have observed that when soldiers, who are
desensitized to violence and possess a weapon, are placed in an
intractable situation, suicide risk is amplified.
Resilience and the Response to Potentially Traumatic Stress
Being at risk for complex trauma is not the same thing as
experiencing it. It is well, at this point, to mention the resilience of
a typical person. Soldiers are not typical. First, they are trained to
expect and deal with violence and unexpected violence, death, and
mutilation. Second, in today's services, they volunteer for such
potential exposure to horrific situations. Third, soldiers are not
typical because the situations that they encounter are often more
morally charged--attempts to kill or avoid being killed--than are many
of the potential traumas that people typically face.
When we hear of or read about horrific situations that sometimes
lead to complex traumas, we assume that virtually everyone will respond
to the situation with a trauma response and perhaps with PTSD or Complex
Trauma. This is not actually the case if we can generalize from studies
of potentially traumatic situations in non-military settings. Bonanno
(2005) has investigated potentially traumatic events for over 15 years
(Bonanno, Brewin, Kaniasty, & La Greca, 2010). Bonanno and his
colleagues have repeatedly shown that most people who were exposed to
what might be thought to be potentially traumatic circumstances--natural
disasters, witnessing violence, being physically abused, and the
like--did not develop trauma. Most recovered slowly or were resilient
and bounced back quickly. Only a few participants developed trauma
symptoms immediately or later.
Bonanno's research also shows that there are multiple and
sometimes unexpected factors that might promote resilience. These
include supportive relationships, the personal capacity to adapt
flexibly to challenges, as well as the ability to express or suppress
emotions when the situation demands (Bonanno, 2005), hardiness, and
finding meaning in the disruptive events (Tedeschi & McNally, 2011).
Seligman and others have studied positive emotions and a resiliency
program in military personnel (Reivich, Seligman, & McBride, 2011).
They considered assessment (Peterson, Park, & Castro, 2011),
personality, positive emotional experience, and the treatment of
military personnel to enhance positive responding and to create
resiliency to potential traumas (Cornum, Matthews, & Seligman,
2011). It is clear that a strong and mature faith in God along with a
sense of meaning even in the midst of terrible things supports
resiliency. Algoe and Fredrickson (2011) reviewed the research on
positive emotional experience and expression within the military. They
found that, while resilient people react appropriately to negative
events, they also worry less and can bypass non-materializing threats
better than non-resilient people. They also grow more after stress. They
argue that soldiers are capable of learning skills that help them
maintain a healthy balance of positive to negative emotions. Even though
many soldiers are resilient by personality and training, research shows
that many soldiers (a) do respond with symptoms indicating trauma, (b)
experience PTSD, and (c) contemplate or commit suicide (Sher, 2009).
Problems are worse the longer people are deployed in a war zone and the
more times they are sent back (Maguen & Litz, 2012). Soldiers are
more likely to react negatively the more violence they witness. Soldiers
are more likely to have mental health problems the more violence they
perpetrate. This implies that complex traumas will often result from
combat. This also suggests that soldiers' moral guilt, remorse, and
a failure to extricate themselves from morally challenging situations
can lead to self-condemnation. That self-condemnation can produce
consequences.
Understanding Self-Condemnation
Prevalence of Self-Condemnation in General within the Military
As we see, soldiers have many risk factors for developing
self-condemnation. It can arise in parallel with moral injury or with
complex trauma. Once self-condemnation is developed, soldiers typically
have few social supports for dealing with it effectively. Many seek to
deal with their self-condemnation by trying to suppress the rumination,
self-hatred, and negative emotions. They seek to inhibit motivations
toward harm of self or displacement of violence onto others. These are
not productive ways to handle self-condemnation. Although prevalence of
self-condemnation has not been determined by an adequate survey, we
might infer that it is prevalent from suicide rates (Sher, 2009). The
rates in current veterans are high and are increasing, especially in
those with additional deployments, with each deployment increasing the
likelihood of performing morally repugnant acts, of observing others
perform morally repugnant acts, and of experiencing failure and negative
judgments by peers and superiors resulting in adjustments to one's
evaluation of the soldier.
Costs of Self-Condemnation
The costs of self-condemnation to an individual are impossible to
evaluate precisely, but costs include those that are documented in the
literature on failures to forgive. For active duty personnel these costs
may be to an individual's mental (and physical, relational, and
spiritual) health (Beckham, Feldman, & Kirby, 1998). Without a good
sense of their prevalence, we cannot accurately estimate other costs,
but we can enumerate them. For active duty personnel, there are risks to
the functioning of operational units because soldiers dealing with
self-condemnation might be ruminating and, thus, less vigilant for IEDs
or other dangers. That translates into injuries and deaths, which impose
many financial costs as well as psychological costs on society. People
who are disturbed by dysthymia or depression might be less efficient at
performing essential duties, which imposes financial costs. For
veterans, there will be a continuing financial cost for mental health
services (costs, availability, etc.), especially for those with
lingering self-condemnation and its associated mental, physical,
relational, and spiritual problems. For veterans, there are likely to be
additional financial costs because family functioning is impaired,
likely resulting in financial burdens trickling down to spouses and
children (Sheppard, Malatras, & Israel, 2010). There will also be
financial costs that are incurred by employers for an impaired
veteran's performance on his or her civilian jobs (Hoge,
Auchterlonie, & Milliken, 2006). Overall, untreated
self-condemnation is costly to the individual, the armed services, the
taxpayers who provide veterans services, and the civilian families and
employers.
Different Problems for Different Ranks and Military
Responsibilities
There are differences in the problems related to self-condemnation
faced by senior officers, junior officers, non-commissioned officers,
and enlisted ratings (Worthington, Danish, & Antonides, 2012), but
problems span the entire hierarchy of military personnel. For senior
officers, command decisions can be guilt-producing, especially as they
accumulate and if the commander has few social supporters. Junior
officers experience the common plight and difficulties of mid-level
management. They have responsibility for their unit, its mission, and
the soldiers under them, but they often feel that they have no authority
to act independently. Non-commissioned officers are career soldiers,
often deployed repeatedly, who lead their troops in immediate leadership
roles. As immediate leaders, they typically feel a greater sense of
failure should the soldiers in their care be injured or fail to perform
their duties effectively, especially if other lives are lost or people
are injured. Due to repeated deployments over many years and due to
increasing military responsibilities, non-commissioned officers are the
most likely military personnel to see loss of life and injury, and are
the least likely to believe that they can escape the stressors of
combat. Thus, they are the most at risk for developing
self-condemnation. Enlisted ratings are often younger, less experienced
in life, and may not be cognitively mature. They are the most likely to
encounter an enemy combatant face-to-face and thus, to kill, injure, or
witness violence. A final group deserving special attention is medics.
They are forced to decide whom to treat and whom not to treat, to make
life and death decisions, and to hold dying buddies in their arms they
cannot save. With the felt power to make life and death decisions they
often bear the weight of self-condemnation for many years post-conflict.
Overall, there are challenges for experiencing both (a) events of
wrongdoing and (b) judgments by the self of failure to meet expectations
or standards. Rumination is likely if these events occur, resulting in
self-condemnation as well as the condemnation of others.
Self-Condemnation Conceptualized
Emotions. Fisher and Exline (2006) have found that
self-condemnation is accompanied by changes in emotion that recur
periodically or chronically and that persist over time. These involve
regret and remorse. The regret and remorse accompany feeling and
thinking that one wishes he or she had not done some morally
reprehensible behavior, or wishes that he or she had done some desirable
behavior. When wrongdoing is perceived, it is usually accompanied by
feelings of guilt. Tangney, Boone, and Dearing (2005) has shown that
guilt feelings are often associated with perceived wrongdoing, and that
almost all people experience such guilt feelings. Only when guilt
feelings are excessive and impair normal functioning are they
symptomatic. Tangney et al., (2005) argues that shame, however, is a
state in which people feel, not that they have done wrong, but that they
are wrong. That is, shame leads to a sense of lowered self-esteem.
People with a fragile senses of high self-esteem are often at most risk
for shame. People with a low but stable sense of self-esteem are at some
moderate risk for experiencing states of shame. People with a high but
stable self-esteem are at least risk of shame. Some people are more
predisposed to guilt and shame than are other people. High shame-prone
people often are at the most risk of self-esteem disturbances. Shame
(i.e., feeling that one is a bad person as a result of wrongdoing or of
having brought dishonor to one's unit, family, or country because
of one's acts) is a risk factor for numerous psychological and
emotional problems.
Motivations. Typically, emotions energize motivations (and vice
versa, motives imbue acts that fail to satisfy the motives with
emotional feelings and often emotional expression). Emotions due to
failure are often determined by people's learning history and
temperament. Some might respond with despondency, others with anxiety,
and still others with anger or rage. The usual motives engaged and
energized by self-condemnation are to cope with negative emotional
states (i.e., to minimize regret and remorse), to reduce guilt feelings,
and to minimize shame. Other motives might be cognitive--such as
defending against accusatory thoughts or justifying misbehavior. Still
other motives might be to attempt to make amends for wrongdoing or
failure. Shame is a particularly unpleasant emotion, and vigorous
efforts can be made to minimize shame. One might blame others for
wrongdoing or for more distal causes of one's behavior (i.e., the
person might blame command structure, trainers for inadequate
preparation, or even former teachers or parents), bolster one's
sense of self-esteem by self-aggrandizement, or bolster self-esteem by
putting down other people or acting in ways that abuse civilians, or
even prisoners.
Cognition. Self-condemnation involves the entire person--affect,
motivation, behavior, and cognition. Which of these is treated as causal
is a matter more of theory than of true causality. Litz et al. (2009)
conceptualized the emotional consequences of perpetrating a moral injury
on others as primarily a cognitive problem. We think of it as a primary
disturbance of affect with motivational, cognitive, and behavioral
aspects attached. This conceptualization brings self-condemnation, and
later self-forgiveness, in consonance with Worthington's (2006)
conceptualization of forgiveness as a coping mechanism. He suggested
that perceived injustices were stressors and if they led to threat
appraisals, they demanded that the person cope with the stressor,
appraisal, or stress reaction. Forgiveness is of two types--both a
decision to forgive and emotional neutralization of negative unforgiving
emotions subsequent to a perceived injustice. This also places
self-condemnation (and later, self-forgiveness) within the framework of
a stress-and-coping model, with cognitive and emotional stress responses
to perceived stressors (Pargament & Sweeney, 2011). In
Worthington's (2006) stress-and-coping model of forgiveness, the
disturbance is a perceived injustice that is evaluated as potentially
injurious and thus threatening. The stress reaction involves the whole
person (body, cognition, emotion, and behavior) and can be coped with
using a variety of mechanisms.
Ways to Cope with Self-Condemnation
If indeed self-condemnation can be understood with this
stress-and-coping model, then there are many potential coping mechanisms
to deal with self-condemnation. Some are more adaptive than are others.
Those that might not produce the best results include denying
self-condemnation, ignoring it, externalizing blame, passing the pain
along to others through unconscious displacement, and, in general,
refusing to accept responsibility for legitimate wrongdoing. More
positive coping mechanisms include, dealing with self-condemnation in a
personal but psychologically informed way, and talking the
self-condemnation out to gain perspective, thereby enhancing coping
mechanisms by conversing with a friend, family member, chaplain, or
counselor.
Many coping mechanisms use religious and spiritual means (Drescher
& Foy, 1995). Moral injury frequently involves religious or
spiritual conflict. Treatment can help people of faith, who are
questioning aspects of their faith due to moral injuries, to reconsider
and reconnect with God or what they previously held to be sacred
(Fontana & Rosenheck, 2004). Pargament and his colleagues have
identified numerous religious and spiritual coping methods, and have
found some to be especially deleterious toward people's mental and
physical health. If veterans or soldiers employ these methods, both
their faith and their mental health can be damaged. Spiritual struggle
that might occur as a consequence of moral injury is not always
deleterious, but in non-military populations spiritual struggle predicts
poor mental and physical health outcomes (Exline, Park, Smyth, &
Carey, 2011; Pargament & Sweeney, 2011; Wood et al., 2010). Shults
and Sandage (2006) have discussed the recurring cycles of spiritual
dwelling and spiritual seeking, treating anger with God as something
that is not uncommon. In studies of seminary students throughout their
education, they showed that those who were in times of spiritual seeking
had decreased mental health functioning relative to those who were in
times of spiritual dwelling, but many of those in spiritual seeking
recovered and strengthened their faith (Williamson & Sandage, 2009).
In particular, Exline, Park, Smyth, and Carey (2011) conducted five
studies to examine anger with God, often a particularly virulent type of
negative religious coping. In general, several variables predicted
whether people got angry with God. These included holding God
responsible for severe harm, attributing cruelty to God, having
difficulty finding meaning in an event or in life, and seeing oneself as
a victim. Anger toward God was frequently reported in response to
negative events particularly among those younger in age and with low
religiosity.
Some coping methods are externalizing--blaming God or the other.
But, some are internalizing. The person turns the psychological energy
back onto the self This is especially likely when a person feels guilty
or ashamed, or feels that he or she has dishonored a valued group--like
family, fellow Christians, soldiers, or countrymen. Self-condemnation is
an example of the internalizing guilt and shame. Coping methods seek to
deal with self-condemnation and do so ineffectively or effectively. One
of those coping mechanisms is self-forgiveness.
Defining Self-Forgiveness
What Self-forgiveness Is Not
In theorizing about self-forgiveness, Hall and Fincham (2005) have
described the difficulty of precisely defining self-forgiveness. As with
forgiveness (Fehr et al., 2010), it is easier to tell what
self-forgiveness is not than what it is. It is not letting oneself off
the hook irresponsibly, accepting oneself and moving on with life,
finding someone to blame such as one's parents, spouse, commanding
officer, the President, Osama bin Laden, God, or life.
What Self-forgiveness Is
We define self-forgiveness parallel to the way Worthington (2006)
defined forgiveness. That is, there are thought to be two types of
self-forgiveness--decisional self-forgiveness and emotional
self-forgiveness. Decisional self-forgiveness is making a decision to
act toward yourself without malice, self-blame, and self-condemnation
and to treat oneself as having at least equal worth as do others.
Emotional self-forgiveness is the emotional replacement of unforgiving
emotions toward the self with positive emotions toward the self like
self-empathy, self-sympathy, self-compassion, and self-love.
Worthington (in press, a, b) has articulated a Christian theology
of self-forgiveness. One of the great joys of being a Christian is that
we expect ourselves to fail repeatedly. But we know that we have the
awesome privilege of bringing our sins and failures to God. We know that
those are paid for at the cross and believe that we can receive
forgiveness and freedom from divine condemnation. Yet, release from
moral guilt does not necessarily heal social effects of wrongdoing and
failure. For example, Samuel proclaimed that God forgave David for
infidelity and murder (2 Sam 11:13b), but psychological consequences and
social consequences still ensued (see Ps 51). Amends making aims not at
winning God's approval, but at social repair. It might also
contribute to psychological repair. Psychological repair mostly happens
as one deals with rumination and brings about changes in expectations
and standards that are unrealistic or too harsh. Self-forgiveness is the
culmination of moral repair (initiated by God's conviction and
fulfilled by God's mercy and Jesus' sacrificial love), and the
derivative social repair and psychological repair. Self-forgiveness does
not let oneself off of the hook without consequences, but occurs as a
culmination of responsibly dealing with God, others, and finally
oneself.
Can One Forgive Oneself?
Hall and Fincham (2005) have proposed a model of self-forgiveness.
They suggested that forgiveness of the self is related to making amends
to the wronged person, seeking to make things right with God. Hall and
Fincham (2007) tested their model with N = 148 people using eight waves
of data longitudinally. They found support using growth curve models.
Worthington (2006) has suggested a therapeutic, psycho-educational
group, or self-guided psychoeducational process for moving toward
self-forgiveness that incorporates many of Fincham and Hall's
variables. It can be learned through reading (books, workbooks),
participating in psychoeducational groups, counseling, and engaging in
self-directed activities. Scherer et al., (2011) tested the efficacy of
brief self-forgiveness groups (N = 79) involving the genesis of
Worthington's (in press) six steps to self-forgiveness in an
in-patient treatment program for alcoholism. He used a waiting list
design, and he found that people who went through the psycho-educational
group for 10 hours in addition to treatment as usual improved more than
a waiting list group, who also improved during their treatment. The
immediate treatment group also maintained their gains. Campana (2010)
used a similar waiting-list design for (N = 74) college undergraduate
women who had been rejected by steady male partners. She also found that
the women who completed a two-week at-home workbook to receive immediate
treatment had superior outcomes to the delayed treatment group. Also,
the immediate treatment group maintained their gains.
The Scherer et al. (2011) and Campana (2010) projects used the same
basic treatment protocol, but the treatment regimens were tailored
specifically to the groups and the mode of delivery (psycho-educational
groups or workbooks) was different. The basic protocol in its early form
is described in Worthington (2006). It suggests that group
participants--in either psychotherapy or psycho-education or
self-administered psycho-education--can promote self-forgiveness through
following a number of steps.
Steps to Self-Forgiveness
In the following sections, we describe what needs to be done to
complete self-forgiveness. At the end of the section, we name six steps
to self-forgiveness to aid in memory. The order of the steps does not
need to be followed precisely.
Repair Sacred Bonds
The person who has committed wrongdoing or who berates himself or
herself for failure to live up to standards or expectations can begin by
making things right with God. People who do not believe in God might
repair sacred bonds that were disrupted by a perceived crime against
nature or humanity or due to a violation of something felt to be
transcendent. For Christians, this involves telling the truth about what
has been done (confession/repentance) and asking for God's
forgiveness based on the substitutionary death of Christ. For others, it
might involve compensatory spiritual acts or acts of spiritual penance.
Assessment and Treatment of Potential Causes
There are two likely causes for self-condemnation. Each should be
assessed, and if assessment warrants, treated.
Failure to live up to expectations or standards. The person must
evaluate the degree to which the self-condemnation is due to failure to
live up to expectations or standards. If failure to live up to
expectations or standards is the main problem, the person can identify
those human standard or God's standards that he or she is falling
short of He or she can also evaluate the realism of the standards.
Cognitive therapy has shown much success in helping people deal with
unreasonable or unrealistic standards (such as a medic believing no
soldier should die on his watch), so methods derived from cognitive
therapy are appropriate. These might include teaching cognitive or
cognitive-behavioral methods.
Wrongdoing and its direct and indirect effects. The person needs to
assess the degree to which wrongdoing is responsible for
self-condemnation. This might require seeking feedback about whether one
seems to be self-justifying or rationalizing one's actions. Then,
if harm was caused, the person should make amends with the person
harmed. This might involve apologizing, making restitution, expressing
sincere emotions like regret and remorse, and going beyond making up for
harm by some sort of punitive damages. If the person harmed is not
available, which is often the case with combat situations; amends can be
made on behalf of the person harmed. This can include charitable work,
such as contributing one's time, money or effort to a charity for
orphans in the event of having killed a parent in combat. This is done
in honor of the ones harmed. In addition, wrongdoing might have been
witnessed by others, and by that witnessing, they might have been
injured morally. Thus, the person should consider whether making amends
to others who are involved is necessary.
Dealing with Oneself
Reduce rumination. Rumination is highly involved in many mental
health disorders, including obsessive-compulsive disorders, depression,
anxiety, anger, stress-related disorders, psychosomatic disorders, and
many personality disorders (American Psychiatric Association, 2000).
Rumination is negative thinking that is uncontrollable. The content of
rumination determines the emotions experienced (Berry, Worthington,
O'Connor, Parrott, & Wade, 2005). Even though, strictly
speaking, rumination is a different cognitive problem than modifying
unrealistic expectations or coping with failure to meet one's
standards, each of these can also engender rumination. Thus we include
it within the cognitive modifications that are needed to deal with
self-condemnation through forgiving oneself.
Decisional self-forgiveness. The person can grant decisional
forgiveness to the self The person makes a decision to treat the self as
a valuable person based on the imago dei rather than on behavior.
Whereas granting decisional forgiveness is an instantaneous decision
that can lead to a changed outlook on life, it might still require days,
weeks, months, or even years to conclude that one wants to grant
decisional forgiveness to the self. Sometimes the person is inhibited
from granting decisional forgiveness because he or she believes it is
necessary to earn decisional forgiveness. Helpers can discuss the
relationship of justice to forgiveness (Worthington, 2009) to help
remove that roadblock. People might think that one can earn decisional
forgiveness by restoring justice (often including restitution,
reparations, or social justice). Though such complete restoration of
justice is often impossible. A killed person cannot be brought back to
life; a destroyed reputation cannot be restored; harm to civilians
cannot ever be repaired because the civilians might never be able to be
located again. If the self-condemning person holds out for strict
justice, the self-condemnation may never be eliminated. However, if one
adopts a belief in restorative justice, then reasonable attempts are
made at restitution, reparations, and social justice, but some attempts
at social justice must be relegated through faith to the future. That
is, the person might have a sincere commitment to restoring damage done
in the past, but might proceed to forgive the self even though the
social justice has not yet been accomplished, and the restoration
promised in restorative justice has not yet been realized.
Emotional self-forgiveness. Emotional self-forgiveness is replacing
negative unforgiving emotions with positive other-oriented emotions
toward the self. The replacement emotions are empathy toward the self,
sympathy for one's inevitable imperfections, compassion toward
oneself as a needy person who needs the help of others, and love toward
the self by treating oneself mercifully. These emotions mirror
Christ's feelings and attitudes towards us as he sympathizes with
our weaknesses and draws near with mercy and grace (Hebrews 4:15,16).
The person seeks to experience the positive emotions toward the self
through structured exercises, hoping to replace negative self-condemning
emotions with the self-forgiveness emotions. For forgiveness of others,
Worthington (2006) has developed a five-step program to REACH
forgiveness of the other. REACH is an acrostic (for a free download of
secular version or Christian-tailored version of both leader and
participant manuals, see www.people.vcu.edu/~eworth). R signifies recall
of the hurt without blame of the perpetrator or emphasizing the
victimization of the forgiver. E signifies emotional replacement. A
signifies an altruistic gift of forgiveness--not on the basis of
forgiveness being deserved but on the basis that the forgiver wants to
do something virtuous to bless the offender. C signifies committing
publicly to the forgiveness experienced. H signifies holding on to
forgiveness when doubts arise. The five steps to REACH forgiveness can
be adapted to self-forgiveness (see Campana, 2010, for a workbook
intervention; see Scherer, 2010, for a psychoeducational group
intervention).
Dealing with One's Past
Self-forgiveness (1) of one's failure to reach expectations or
live up to one's standards, (2) for serious wrongdoing to others,
or (3) for being an observer of heinous acts (and often making no effort
to stop the wrongdoing) is often not the most difficult part of dealing
with self-condemnation. The most time-consuming and difficult aspect is
often to accept oneself as flawed in a way one didn't want to
admit. Humans are frequently deceived about their capacities for injury
or evil to others. Combat can shatter that deception and reconciling
one's self to the objectionable truth takes time. Combat exposes
humans to themselves and their potentialities in ways they were
previously blind to or denied. Full treatment of self-condemnation can
require psychotherapy depending on the entrenchment of the
self-condemnation. There is also great comfort to be found in that facts
of God's love and forgiveness and in knowing God knew our
capabilities long before we did and is not surprised by our capacities.
Self-acceptance, however, is always a primary struggle in full
self-forgiveness.
Dealing with One's Future
Coming to a resolution on self-acceptance can take years. However,
even before that work is complete, one must orient toward the future.
Having failed to live up to expectations and standards or having
perpetrated a moral injury on others, one has, by this point in
treatment, sought to make amends and restore a right relationship to
God. The person must make a commitment to live as virtuously as possible
so that a repetition of the failure does not occur. In positive
psychology, the commitment to virtue for self and others is called
eudaimonia. A variety of interventions can be employed to this end (for
summaries, see Snyder, Lopez, & Pedrotti, 2010). These include
interventions and self-guided programs to build and express gratitude,
compassion, altruism, forgiveness, and social justice. Expression of
those virtues is also encouraged to build positive families, workplaces,
and communities. Participation in a faith community can function as a
support of maintaining a newness of life.
Failure in life is inevitable. While having an orientation toward
pursuing a virtuous future is important, it is also important to give
oneself space to fail. This prevents a quick failure to meet
perfectionistic standards and expectations by the self. It also prevents
a return to the deceptive state that led to a naivete about one's
capacities. The truth is, we are still flawed.
We summarize six steps to responsible self-forgiveness as an
easy-to-remember alliterative acrostic. The steps are as follows (with
explanatory comments in parentheses):
Step 1: Receive God's Forgiveness
Step 2: Repair Relationships (i.e., making amends or paying it
forward)
Step 3: Rethink Ruminations (i.e., controlling rumination, dealing
with unrealistic expectations, and coming to terms with failure to meet
one's standards)
Step 4: REACH Emotional Self-forgiveness (which includes decisional
forgiveness)
Step 5: Rebuild Self-Acceptance (as one flawed by sin yet loved by
God)
Step 6: Resolve to Live Virtuously (i.e., seeking to live a life
pleasing to God but giving oneself mercy when one fails so that
perfectionism is avoided).
Agenda for Future Research
With a growing number of suicides in military personnel and
veterans who have served in combat situations, it is time to take
seriously the prevalence of self-condemnation and its associated
negative emotions--depression, guilt, shame, regret, remorse, and
hopelessness. We examine self-condemnation and find that it is rooted
primarily in a failure to meet expectations and standards, and in
wrongdoing in which one inflicts a moral injury on people or kills.
Thus, religious and spiritual issues deserve thorough consideration if
we are to understand self-condemnation and self-forgiveness in veterans
and soldiers. Self-condemnation likely occurs in military personnel and
veterans due to different pressures and situations that are shaped by
rank and by type of service. We hypothesize what some of the pressures
are and assert that forgiveness can be extended to the self as one way
of dealing with self-condemnation. Furthermore, the opportunity to deal
with religious and spiritual issues presents itself at various points
during treatment for self-condemnation after experiencing a complex
trauma (Pargament & Sweeney, 2011). In the course of trauma
treatment, self-condemnation is likely to be an issue and will involve
consideration of how realistic the standards and expectations are. In
addition, the Christian message of justification--that Christ died for
people's sins--is important and for many people it will lead to
freedom from the weight of self-condemnation. For others, though,
failing to understand the forgiveness of God through the death of Christ
and his sympathy with our weaknesses can feed self-condemnation. This is
especially true if they feel that failure to experience complete relief
due to God's forgiveness is yet another failure for them.
We describe the outline for a treatment for self-condemnation for
soldiers and veterans. We tailor the treatment to soldiers and to
Christians (obviously, some of what we suggest would have to be altered
when working with those who are not of faith or are of a different
faith). In the present article, we have proposed several testable
hypotheses that advance a research agenda.
1. In military personnel and veterans who are at risk for suicide
and mental health disorders, self-condemnation plays a major role. This
suggests that psychometrically sound instruments need to be developed to
assess self-condemnation and this hypothesis should then be tested.
Furthermore, we hypothesize that military personnel and veterans who
have perpetrated or observed more combat-related violence will
experience more frequent and more disturbing states of
self-condemnation. This needs to be established through surveys of
military personnel and veterans.
2. Self-condemnation is hypothesized to be a state that is
associated with a stress response. If this can be demonstrated, the
experience of frequent intermittent states of self-condemnation or
chronic states of self-condemnation will produce physical health-related
disorders. The prevalence of physical health, mental health,
relationship, and spiritual problems need to be measured.
3. States of self-condemnation will arise due to two fundamental
reasons: failure to live up to standards or expectations and wrongdoing
or inflicting moral injury. We hypothesized further that senior
officers, mid-level and junior officers, non-commissioned officers, and
enlisted personnel will differ in the two sources of
self-condemnation--with higher level officers reporting more failure to
live up to standards and enlisted personnel reporting more direct and
indirection infliction of moral injury and non-commissioned officers and
junior officers experiencing both. These deserve investigation.
4. It is likely that some military personnel might object to
self-forgiveness. Just like other psychological concepts,
self-forgiveness might be suspect in a warrior culture. We would suggest
that several potential objections might be profitably dealt with. These
speak directly to how extant self-forgiveness interventions can be
successfully tailored to the military. These objections include the
following: (a) self-forgiveness does not fit the warrior ethic. We
suggest that this might be dealt with by characterizing
self-condemnation as a fitness issue and self-forgiveness as a way of
increasing military fitness; (b) soldiers or veterans might not want to
attend a psychoeducational self-forgiveness group. We suggest that other
modalities--like workbooks, online courses, and DVDs--might be tested
for acceptability to soldiers and effectiveness; (c) self-forgiveness
does not seem especially relevant to military situations. We suggest
that treatments must be tailored to rank and military responsibilities
and separate adaptations be presented for different constituents. These
deserve an empirical investigation.
5. There is a need to adapt both assessment and treatments to a
military population, using examples that are relevant to today's
armed services. For example, Fisher and Exline (2007) could be used for
assessing self-condemnation, but tailored assessments, rather than
Fisher and Exline's more general assessments, would likely give
better data. Such assessment instruments need to be created. Whereas the
six steps to self-forgiveness have been used and tested in clinical
trials, that treatment needs to be expanded and adapted for military
personnel.
In the present article, we have argued that military situations,
especially repeated combat and killing, can place soldiers at risk for
trauma and even complex trauma. Moral injury--internal conflict over
wrongdoing in opposition to one's standards--is frequent.
Self-condemnation is wrapped up in both complex trauma and moral injury.
We suggested that one way to deal with self-condemnation is through the
promotion of self-forgiveness. We considered a six-step method, which
has initial support in alcoholism treatment and in college women, but
none in military populations. Testing in a military setting would
require adapting existing treatment specifically for a military culture
and testing reactions of soldiers and former soldiers in the problem of
self-condemnation and its potential treatment, including the modality by
which the treatment could most effectively be delivered.
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Everett L. Worthington, Jr.
Virginia Commonwealth University
Diane Langberg
Private Practice, Jenkintown, PA
Author Information
WORTHINGTON, EVERETT L. PhD. Address: Department of Psychology, 806
West Franklin Street PO Box 842018 Virginia Commonwealth University
Richmond, Virginia 23284-2018. Email: eworth@vcu.edu. Title: Professor
of Counseling Psychology, VCU. Degrees: PhD, University of
Missouri-Columbia. Specializations: forgiveness, REACH forgiveness
intervention, religion and spirituality in counseling and marriage, the
Hope-Focused Couple Approach to marriage/couple enrichment.
LANGBERG, DIANE. PhD. Address: 512 West Avenue, Jenkintown, PA
19046. Email: info@DianeLangberg.com. Degrees: PhD (Counseling
Psychology) Temple University; MA (Psychology) Temple University; BA
(Psychology) Taylor University. Specializations: see
www.dianelangberg.com.