Psychoanalysis, attachment, and spirituality Part I: the emergence of two relational traditions.
Hall, Todd W.
Two broad relational traditions emerged in post-Freudian
psychoanalysis: a broad group of relational theories, represented by
Fairbairn's (1952) object relations theory, that remained within
the field of psychoanalysis, and John Bowlby's attachment theory,
that split off from psychoanalysis. Both of these traditions emerged
simultaneously, predominantly in the 1940s, and developed in parallel in
virtual isolation from each other. In this article, the first of a
two-part series in this special issue, I outline the emergence of these
two traditions, how each has been applied to the psychology of religion
and spirituality, and their implications for "minding" our
clients' spirituality (Sorenson, 2004). In the second article of
the two-part series, I discuss the common relational metapsychology underlying these converging traditions--a theory of implicit relational
meaning--and its implications for "minding" the spiritual
stories by which our clients live.
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In the history of psychoanalytic theory, we can trace two broad
relational traditions that split off from Freud's
"drive/structure model." One tradition can be traced through
the transitions of ego psychology to the many strands of the
"relational/structure model," such as object relations theory,
that proliferate today (Greenberg & Mitchell, 1983). Some theorists
in this line of theory, such as Margaret Mahler and Rene Spitz,
struggled to graft new relational concepts onto the drive/structure
model, while others, such as W.R.D. Fairbairn, developed an entirely new
relational metapsychology. Fairbairn's theory of object relations,
along with several other key theories, formed the foundation for the
development of relational psychoanalysis by contemporary theorists. This
new relational paradigm within psychoanalysis led to new ways of
thinking about spirituality, and new ways of "minding" our
clients' spirituality (Sorenson, 2004) in the consulting room.
At the very same time that Fairbairn was developing his theory in
Scotland in the 1940s, John Bowlby began developing another relational
tradition that split off from Freud's drive/structure model--what
is now the field of attachment theory. Attachment theory also led to new
perspectives on thinking about and approaching our clients'
spirituality. For a myriad of reasons--to which we will
return--attachment theory developed along an independent, although in
many ways parallel, theoretical trajectory as that of the
relational/structure model. For years, these relational cousins were
estranged from each other. They developed in separate sociopolitical groups of academicians, each with their own language, training programs,
journals, and conferences. In recent years, however, we have seen a
rapprochement between these two lines of theory, partly spurred on by
major developments in affective neuroscience and narrative psychologies
in the past several decades. These turns on the psychoanalytic and
attachment roads have had significant implications for our sensibilities
in understanding and working with our clients' spiritual stories. A
synthesis of these theoretical developments forms the foundation for a
common relational metapsychology--for a theory of implicit relational
meaning--that has far-reaching implications for our understanding of
spirituality (Hall, 2004).
In this article and the second in this two-part series (Hall, 2007,
this issue), I have both a specific and a broad aim. My specific aim in
the present article is to provide a brief historical context for how
these two theoretical traditions developed independently, and what each
has to offer us in understanding our clients' spirituality. (1) In
the spirit of this special issue's focus on case studies, I offer
brief case examples to illustrate several points. In the following
article, I will highlight how these two traditions have converged in
recent years, and some recent developments in neuroscience and narrative
approaches to human experience that suggest that we are hardwired for
two fundamentally distinct forms of knowing, one of which exists in
storied form. In short, our spirituality--and all our relational
knowing--is "storied," and this has significant implications
for how we "mind" our clients' spirituality (Sorenson,
2004), and how we learn to mind our clients' spirituality. Both of
these processes have their roots in implicit relational knowing (Stern
et al., 1998), or perhaps in this context, what we might think of as
"implicit spiritual knowing."
The nature of this way of knowing suggests the importance of
learning first-hand from our clinical experiences, and from the work of
our colleagues. Thus, my broader aim for these articles is to articulate
some of the theoretical underpinnings for the importance of learning
through case studies, to which we have devoted the majority of this
special issue. We have also intentionally focused this special issue on
case studies because we felt there is a dearth of such real-life
examples of minding our clients' spirituality in a way that is
informed by contemporary developments in psychoanalysis. My hope is that
these articles, and this special issue, will encourage us to share our
work with each other--the primary playing field where we learn how to
co-author our clients' unfolding spirituality in ways that bring
spiritual vitality. Hats off to our contributors who have courageously
opened their consulting rooms to us. We owe them a debt of gratitude.
Finally, we have dedicated this special issue to the memory of
Randy Sorenson, who taught at Rose-mead for 20 years until his untimely
death in January of 2005. Randy was a giant of a scholar as you will
quickly discern from reading his first, and tragically last, book
Minding Spirituality (Sorenson, 2004). However, as Randy indicated in
several of his writings, he was first and foremost a clinician at heart
(e.g., Sorenson, 2004). It is in the spirit of Randy's passion for
co-authoring and nurturing his clients' spiritual stories that we
offer this special issue.
W. R. D. FAIRBAIRN: FROM INSTINCTUAL DRIVES TO OBJECT RELATIONS
As post-Freudian psychoanalysis unfolded, controversy abounded
within the British Psychoanalytic Society as theorists attempted to
claim the right to the psychoanalytic patriarch's throne. This
theoretical and political battle occurred against the backdrop of the
death, dislocation, and genocide of World War II. Factions developed
within the British Psychoanalytic Society between three groups. Anna
Freud and her followers focused on the need to strengthen the ego, which
Holmes (1993) suggests was in part an effort to hold on to some
semblance of reason in the face of irrational destruction. Anna Freud
and her followers, of course, claimed the right to her father's
theoretical throne. Melanie Klein and her followers emphasized innate
phantasy, aggression stemming from the death instinct (which Klein
believed was an elaboration of the theoretical direction Freud was
heading), and paid little attention to environmental factors. They
emphasized the power of psychoanalysis to heal people, independent of
environmental factors, which can be viewed, at one level, as an attempt
to hold on to some semblance of control in the face of the helplessness
of the war (Holmes, 1993).
Historical Context for the Development of Object Relations Theory
The differences between these three groups were managed by a
"gentlemen's agreement" between Anna Freud and Melanie
Klein that established two lines of training: the "A" group
consisting of Anna Freud and her followers, and the "B" group,
comprised of the Kleinians and the "Independents." This group
of "Independents" were not aligned with either the Anna Freud
or Kleinian camps, and later split off as a third "middle
group," which consisted of theorists such as Fairbairn, Bowlby,
D.W. Winnicott, and Michael Balint who were pioneers in developing early
object relations theories.
The object relational ego psychology traditions that grew out of
Anna Freud's group (e.g., Margaret Mahler and Rene Spitz) and Klein
both paved the way for a full relational/structure theory, albeit in
radically different ways. The object relational ego psychologists
developed the profoundly new idea that the ego is dependent on early
(object) relationships for its development; however, they retained the
drive-ego model as the metapsychological house in which to store object
relations. Klein, on the other hand, radically redefined the Freudian
notion of drives as being fundamentally psychological in nature, and as
having "internal objects" built into to them. Thus, Klein
developed what many consider to be the first "object
relations" theory. And yet, ironically, the relations in
Klein's theory were predominantly with phantasies of
phylogenetically inherited images stemming from the death instinct.
For Klein, the vicissitudes of mental life, including internal and
external object relations, derived initially, and predominantly, not
from real relationships with others, but from endogenous sexual and
aggressive drives. Thus, Klein's theory does not represent a
complete move to a relational-structure model. However, she did
emphasize object relations, and the powerful emotional forces of love
and hate, greed and envy. Thus, while the particularities of real
parents clearly play a secondary role in the development of
psychopathology and mental health, it is not difficult to resonate with
the themes in the picture Klein painted of our internal relational
world--one of a life-long struggle to integrate the good and bad aspects
in ourselves and others, to protect those we love from our own
destructiveness, to repair the relationships we have damaged, and to
experience gratitude rather than envy for the good we have received from
others.
Building on the shell of Klein's theory of "internalized
objects," Fairbairn combined his clinical experience, in which he
saw his patients carrying with them the residues of early relationships,
with the notion that there are structures in the mind with which we
relate to develop his central theoretical principle--that we
internalize, not phantasied images, but experiences of real
relationships. He was one of the first theorists to develop a theory of
personality and development based on the notion that relational
connection is our primary motive and need. His theory is also one of the
first to develop a vision of the mind as being structured, not by drive
forces, but by the subjective experiences of relational meanings. It is
difficult to overestimate the impact of Fairbairn's theory in the
theoretical developments that have ensued since the 1940s. For we now
take for granted basic ideas about relationality that he first proposed,
and he, like those before him, opened doors to research and theory that
previously would not have appeared on the conceptual radar screen.
Object Relations and the Psychology of Religion and Spirituality
The shift from the drive/structure model to the
relational/structure model, represented clearly by Fairbairn's
object relations theory, opened up new psychoanalytic vistas for
thinking about religion and spirituality. Moreover, it spawned a body of
research addressing the nature of one's internalized representation
of God, and scholarship regarding how we work with clients around
spiritual issues (e.g., Jones, 1991; McDargh, 1983; Sorenson, 2004).
Religion, from this new relational psychoanalytic perspective, was not
understood as a universal obsessional neurosis, but rather as a
relationship with God that reflects and reenacts an individual's
deep structure of internalized relationships. Individuals'
relationships with God may be healthy or pathological, to varying
degrees, and parallel their object relations maturity, according to this
perspective (Jones, 1991).
A substantial literature now exists examining the association
between God representations and object relations development, much of
which supports the general object relational perspective on spirituality
articulated above--that individuals' experiences of God tend to
parallel their experiences of emotionally significant caregivers. In a
landmark qualitative study, Rizzuto (1979) proposed that an
individual's representation of God is an amalgamation of the
representations of his or her primary early relationships. Furthermore,
the God representation, according to Rizzuto, is continually transformed
and reshaped throughout development as new experiences are brought into
the internal representational matrix. In another in depth qualitative
study of object relations and God image, McDargh (1986) concluded:
Whether a given individual relates to a particular object representation
of God with conscious belief, or unbelief, whether that representation
is repressed, rejected, embraced, or celebrated has everything to do
with the dynamic origins of that representation, its subsequent life
history, and hence if and how it may be available to help the person
sustain some sense of being a self-in-relationship. (p. 256).
A number of quantitative studies have also investigated the
association between object relations development and God image. For
example, research has shown that higher levels of object relations
development in current relationships are associated with perceptions of
God, and/or one's relationship with God as a) more loving, stable,
and emotionally close (Brokaw & Edwards, 1994; Hall & Edwards,
2002); b) less distant, controlling, and wrathful (Brokaw & Edwards,
1994; Hall, Brokaw, Edwards, & Pike, 1998; Tisdale et al., 1997);
and c) less defensive (Wootton, 1991). There is evidence that
representations of God tend to be more similar to idealized parental
images than to non-idealized parental images, and more similar to a
composite image of both parents than to either parent considered
separately (Birky & Ball, 1988). In addition, research findings
tentatively support the notion that higher levels of object relations
development are positively associated with greater congruence between
pre-conscious and conscious God representations (Spear, 1994). The above
research clearly suggests that the God image forms part of an
individual's internal object world, and is positively related to
level of object relations development. Moreover, these findings suggest
that the emotional tone and patterns of interaction that characterize
important relationships form the structure of the internal filter
through which relationships with God are experienced (Noffke, 2006).
However, there is some research suggesting that individuals'
God representations are unrelated, or negatively related to their
parental images (Noffke, 2006). For example, greater insecure attachment
(a subscale in the Bell Object Relations Inventory, BORI; Bell, 1991)
was found to be positively associated with experiences of God as more
relevant to individuals' lives (Bauman, 1995). In another study,
Earnest (1982) found positive correlations between a measure of
perceived family authoritarianism and views of God as benevolent and
kind. However, further analysis revealed that the authoritarianism scale
measured the degree to which parents reinforced participants'
dependency, suggesting that authority figures were perceived as
protective and generous. Finally, several studies appear to suggest that
some individuals from maladaptive home environments or those
experiencing psychiatric symptoms form particularly positive God images,
even more positive than the God images held by those without symptoms or
those with positive attachments (see Noffke, 2006 for a review).
These results suggest the possibility that individuals' God
images may be independent of, and more positive than their maladaptive
relational matrices. However, in a thorough review of this literature,
Noffke (2006) suggests an alternate interpretation: that these
individuals' positive God images represent attempts to use God as
an emotion-regulation function that they could not provide for
themselves due to negative models of the self and/or others. Thus, it
may well be that when emotion regulation is a central characteristic of
an individual's relationship with God, it is an indicator of a more
conscious, defensive layer to the God image that is created for the
purpose of emotion regulation. This has been tested more thoroughly in
the context of attachment to God research, which will be reviewed below.
Minding Spirituality Through an Object Relations Theory Lens
This relational shift within psychoanalysis raises several
interesting issues for "minding" spirituality in the
consulting room. In broad strokes, the relational tradition within
psychoanalysis would suggest two considerations about our clients'
spirituality, and a Christian perspective would suggest a third. First,
clients' spirituality is a manifestation of their deep structure of
internalized relationships with emotionally significant others. In other
words, their subjective experiences of God provide a mirror of their gut
level experiences of early relationships. Furthermore, when clients
(particularly those with an ongoing relationship with God) talk about
their experiences of God, it gives us and them a window into not only
their past, but also their current gut level expectations of emotionally
significant relationships. Second, in my clinical experience, I have
found that the simple act of looking into this window with my clients
can be a profound experience of "being with" them that can
change their experience of themselves and God. As Mitchell (1988) notes,
our representations of ourselves, others, and the space between them are
not neatly separable. Our clients' experiences of God are but one
entry point into a complex, interconnected relational matrix that can
bring about change throughout the entire matrix.
Third, as Christians, we take seriously the "Otherness"
of God--that He can and does break into our clients' relational
matrices. That is, our clients' relationships with God are not the
sum total of their early human relationships, or the internalization of
those relationships. While seemingly obvious from a theoretical
perspective, extensive training in psychoanalytic psychotherapy, without
complementary experience in the spiritual disciplines and spiritual
direction, likely biases us toward reducing our client's
"God" to the internalized mother or father. Without
intentional training, experience, and dialogue with our colleagues, this
becomes the implicit lens through which we view the clinical, spiritual
world.
To consider God breaking into our clients lives can feel as if we
are supposed to ratify a particular experience of, or communication from
God. This can push us to the boundaries of what we perceive to be our
role, and feeling uncomfortable, we may rather steer far away from the
perceived boundary in one direction by not giving spiritual experiences
or implications their full psychoanalytic due. Or, depending on the
particular dynamics with a client, we may steer away in the other
direction, and ratify our clients' experiences of God, failing to
bring the psychoanalytic lens to bear on the relational meaning of our
clients' experiences.
In writing to a broad secular audience in his book Minding
Spirituality, Randy (Sorenson, 2004) invites clinical psychoanalysts to
"... take an interest in our patients' spirituality that is
respectful but not diffident, curious but not reductionistic, welcoming
but not indoctrinating" (p. 1). As Christians, we can be
unwittingly reductionistic of our clients' spirituality. The
underlying dynamic reasons for this may masquerade under the notion
(often times implicit) that we know the very same God our Christian
clients are in relationship with and are discussing with us. We may find
ourselves thinking, "God doesn't communicate that way with me,
so this must be a defensive fantasy based on my client's
internalized relationships." Or, "This experience doesn't
fit the God I know...." Perhaps there may be some truth to this
worth exploring; however, my point here is that because of this unique
situation in which we and our clients are both in relationship with a
third Other, I believe Randy's invitation applies as much, if not
even more, to Christians engaging in psychoanalytic psychotherapy. I
think Randy was encouraging us to find ways to be with our clients'
spirituality that take seriously and hold in tension the Otherness of
God, and the profound impact of their closest human relationships on
their experiences of God.
Around the same time Fairbairn was writing, another British
psychiatrist, John Bowlby, began his own reformulation of drive theory.
While Fairbairn's work has continued to be developed within the
psychoanalytic tradition by others, such as Stephen Mitchell (1988,
2000), Bowlby, in borrowing from neighboring disciplines, went outside
the psychoanalytic epistemology, and developed what came to be an
independent tradition of relational theory--that of attachment theory.
JOHN BOWLBY: FROM INSTINCTUAL DRIVES TO ATTACHMENT BONDS
In 1944, the president of the British Psychoanalytic Society,
Sylvia Payne, a member of the independent group, nominated John Bowlby
as Training Secretary. Despite the fact that he was not a training
analyst, and despite strong opposition from Melanie Klein, the
recognition of Bowlby's administrative skills led to his being
elected. Bowlby was supervised by Melanie Klein, and analyzed by Joan
Riviere, a close associate of Klein's. Despite Klein's strong
personality and her influence, Bowlby, a determined and independent
personality himself, refused to go along with what he viewed as the
fundamentally flawed metapsychology of psychoanalytic theories,
particularly the drive-ego model and Klein's drive-based object
relations theory. Moreover, he felt that object relations theory did not
provide an adequate alternative to Freud's instinct theory (Bowlby,
1982). This notwithstanding, Bowlby resonated most with object relations
theories and hoped to make a contribution to the object relations
tradition, by putting it on solid scientific footing. In the opening
volume of his trilogy, he states that his "frame of reference has
been that of psychoanalysis" (Bowlby, 1982, p. xxxi).
Historical Context for the Development of Attachment Theory
In Bowlby's effort to contribute to the developing object
relations branch of psychoanalysis, he was active in the administration
of the society, and he read several of his early theoretical papers at
society meetings between 1957 and 1959. The responses of his
psychoanalytic colleagues ranged from indifference to hostile rejection,
particularly by the Kleinians. This may have been due in part to the
introduction of what amounted to a new paradigm. His views did not fit
within the confines of his colleagues' metapsychology. His
theoretical assumptions and epistemological commitments were viewed as
incompatible with the psychoanalytic theory of his day. He was viewed as
ignoring defining psychoanalytic concepts such as unconscious processes,
drives, and complex internal dynamics involving internal conflict and
compromise solutions, among other things (Fonagy, 2001). Harry Guntrip,
for example, quipped, "... my impression is that he succeeds in
using it [ethology] to explain everything in human behavior except what
is of vital importance for psychoanalysis." (cited in Holmes,
1993). What Guntrip was alluding to is that Bowlby emphasized behavior,
observation, scientific research, and "the representation of the
real rather than the reality of the representation," in stark
contrast to the psychoanalytic ethos of his day (Fonagy, 2001, p. 4).
Some have argued that a factor in Bowlby being shunned by the
psychoanalytic community was that, in contrast to some of his colleagues
who were also suggesting radical revisions to Freudian drive theory
(e.g., Fairbairn, Loewald, Sullivan), Bowlby wrote in a clear and
uncompromising manner (Mitchell, 2000).
The theory Bowlby so clearly articulated was forged in the context
of his work on maternal deprivation. After completing his adult
psychiatric training. Bowlby took a position in 1936 at the London Child
Guidance Clinic. His experiences in the Child Guidance Clinic would
prove to be influential in the development of his theory. Based on his
experiences at the Child Guidance Clinic, Bowlby conducted an
investigation of the history of 44 juvenile thieves, and further
developed his view that separation or disruption of the mother-child
relationship was a key causal factor in psychopathology (Bowlby, 1944).
In 1950, the World Health Organization was looking for an expert to
report on the mental health status of homeless children, and
Bowlby's work and research background made him the clear choice. He
traveled throughout Europe and the United States meeting with the
leading experts in child development, and conducted an extensive
literature review on the topic. The result was the publication of the
monograph Maternal Care and Mental Health in 1951 (Bowlby, 1951). A
popular version was later published with the title Child Care and the
Growth of Love (Bowlby, 1965), which became an instant best seller.
Bowlby concluded from this work that children who had experienced severe
privation of maternal care tended to develop the same symptoms he
discovered in his affectionless thieves. He stated in the first part of
his report: "What is believed to be essential for mental health is
that the infant and young child should experience a warm, intimate and
continuous relationship with his mother (or permanent mother-substitute)
in which both find satisfaction and enjoyment" (cited in Bowlby,
1982).
Bowlby's observations of maternal deprivation and its
consequences would serve as a launching pad for future theorizing
because of the connections he saw between the responses and processes
stemming from maternal deprivation among children, and those of older
individuals still suffering from the effects of maternal separation in
early life. He observed two distinct patterns of relational
disturbances: one group of individuals who made excessive demands on
others and tended to be anxious and angry when the demands were not met,
as is often seen in dependent-type personalities; and a second group who
seemed incapable of developing deep relationships, which is present in
psychopathic and "affectionless" personalities, as Bowlby
called them (Bowlby, 1944). These two patterns, which covered a wide
spectrum of psychopathology, seemed to mirror the patterns he had
observed in children who had been separated from their mothers. Bowlby
saw continuity in the effects of maternal deprivation, an insight that
would lead to his concept of "internal working models" which
has been corroborated by contemporary research in multiple fields.
Moreover, the effects of maternal deprivation were so clear and
devastating in Bowlby's mind, that he was compelled to devote his
energies to better understanding these effects in the hopes of
preventing them on a wide-spread scale.
From this context, in the first volume of his classic trilogy on
attachment, Bowlby laid the groundwork for an alternative theory of
instinctive behavior based on the notion of a behavioral type of control
system, and then used this framework to develop the concept of an
attachment behavioral system in which behavioral control systems are
applied to the infant-mother relationship (Bowlby, 1982). In his second
volume, Separation, Bowlby (1973) developed an alternative theory of
signal anxiety, revised Freud's motivational theories, and
developed the idea of an epigenetic model of developmental pathways. In
his third volume, Loss, Bowlby (1980) drew on information-processing
theories to understand the stability of internal working models, and
posited an alternative theory of defense--defensive exclusion--modeled
after the notion of selective exclusion.
As I mentioned earlier, attachment theory was initially rejected by
psychoanalysis. As a result, Bowlby's theory did not lead to a new
school within psychoanalysis. Consequently, while there is an Attachment
Theory today, currently there is no widely accepted modality of
Attachment Therapy, although there is discussion of
"attachment-based psychoanalytic therapy." The fate of
Bowlby's theory within the psychoanalytic community is
well-captured by Holmes' observation that "Bowlby's
theory and its tremendous ramifications for clinical work were for
decades virtually airbrushed out of the psychoanalytic record--rather
like some dissident in Stalinist times" (cited in Goldberg, Muir,
& Kerr, 2000, p. 20). Although Bowlby retained his membership in the
society, he distanced himself from it, and developed his work
independently of psychoanalysis. Because of his bent toward systematic
observation and empirical research, attachment theory caught on in the
empirically oriented academic community, and has become a major
theoretical paradigm within the field of developmental psychology.
Attachment Theory and the Psychology of Religion and Spirituality
Attachment theory has become a leading theoretical lens within the
psychology of religion and spirituality. A substantive research
literature has developed that applies attachment theory to religion in
general, and to individual's experiences of God in particular. This
has in turn led to some nascent, yet growing clinical considerations for
approaching spirituality from an attachment perspective. The basic idea
behind applying attachment theory to religion and spiritual experience
is quite straightforward: God, at least from a Christian perspective,
qualifies as an attachment figure, par excellence (see Kirkpatrick,
2004). Thus, we may appropriately think about our clients'
relationships with God as "attachment relationships" and apply
all the insights we have garnered from attachment theory in general to
our clients' "attachment to God." Or can we?
Attachment and religion research in the past 15 years has put this
idea to the test. It has focused on the question of continuities and
discontinuities between attachment patterns in close human relationships
and patterns of attachment with respect to religious/spiritual beliefs
and experiences. The conceptual question at issue, proposed by
Kirkpatrick and Shaver (1990), is whether people's religious
beliefs and experiences correspond to their internal working models of
human attachment figures, or, in contrast, whether religious beliefs and
experiences compensate, or substitute for the lack of secure attachment
relationships with primary caregivers. This question raises a myriad of
fundamental issues about whether and how emotional information
processing in human relationships applies to experiences in relationship
with God. It also points out that the object relations tradition has
been wrestling with these very same issues--although using different
terminology--and, like the broader fields from which they stem, these
two subfields did their work in parallel process without interacting
with one another until recently.
On the surface, it appears that the empirical literature to date
presents a rather inconsistent picture. On the one hand, a number of
studies in the areas of attachment and religiosity suggest
correspondence. For example, two recent studies found evidence directly
supporting correspondence between anxious attachment in romantic
relationships and anxious attachment to God (Beck & McDonald, 2004;
Rowatt & Kirkpatrick, 2002). Furthermore, a longitudinal study found
that an insecure attachment history with mother was positively
associated with a decrease in religiosity over a year time period,
contradicting Kirkpatrick's (1998) earlier finding of an increase
in religiosity over time among insecure individuals (Granqvist, 2002).
On the other hand, several studies have provided partial support for
some form of compensation. For example, individuals with histories of
avoidant attachment were found to be more likely to have experienced a
sudden religious conversion during adolescence or adulthood (Granqvist,
1998; Granqvist & Hagekull, 1999; Kirkpartrick, 1997 Kirkpatrick
& Shaver, 1990). In addition, longitudinal studies have found that
insecurely attached individuals have a higher likelihood of finding
"a new relationship with God" (Kirkpatrick, 1997), and a
greater increase in self-reported religiosity over time, relative to
securely attachment individuals (Kirkpatrick, 1998), referred to as
"longitudinal compensation" by the authors.
However, results of research using other religiosity variables have
been less uniformly supportive of the compensation model. Kirkpatrick
and Shaver (1990) found that maternal religiosity moderated the
association between attachment history and (a) intrinsic religiousness;
(b) church attendance; (c) self-report of being a "born again"
Christian; (d) belief in a personal God; and (e) experience of having a
personal relationship with God. Among those who reported low maternal
religiosity, avoidant individuals reported higher levels of
religiousness than either secure or anxious/ambivalent individuals. In
contrast, there was no effect of attachment status at the high maternal
religiosity level. Granqvist (2002) replicated the essence of this
finding; however, he found that paternal religiosity moderated the
association between attachment history with father and religiosity.
While he also found evidence for compensation at low levels of paternal
religiosity, in contrast to Kirkpatrick and Shaver (1990), high paternal
religiosity demonstrated some evidence for correspondence, in that a
secure history with father was associated with higher levels of
religiosity.
Based on these findings, Granqvist (2002) revised the
correspondence and compensation hypotheses to what he called
"socialized correspondence" and "emotional
compensation." The socialized correspondence hypothesis suggests
that among individuals with secure attachment histories, level of
religiosity corresponds to parents' level of religiosity. Among
individuals with insecure attachment histories, however, religious
involvement is primarily used to regulate affect (interactive affect
regulation) and to maintain a sense of felt security (emotional
compensation).
In testing these hypotheses in a second study, Granqvist (2002)
found that avoidant attachment history was weakly, but positively,
associated with turning to and maintaining contact with God in order to
regulate one's affect--evidence for emotional compensation. The
correlations were slightly strengthened at low levels of parental
religiosity, and disappeared at high levels of parental religiosity.
Granqvist (2002) also found that participants who experienced a sudden
religious conversion scored significantly higher on ambivalent history
with mother than those who had experienced a gradual religious
conversion. Among those who reported religious change, two clusters were
identified. Cluster one was high on suddenness of change, age,
compensation themes, and avoidant and ambivalent history with mother,
and cluster two showed the opposite pattern.
Integrating these various findings, Granqvist (2002) proposed a
"two-level correspondence" model. The first level is
"socialized correspondence" in which one's religious
beliefs and values are similar to parents, but only for secure
individuals. The second level or component, referred to as a
"secondary effect," is internal working model (IWM)
correspondence, in which IWMs of self and others correspond to IWMs of
God. Granqvist also concluded that individuals with insecure attachment
histories engage in emotional compensation more than those with secure
histories.
To address the mixed findings and conceptual confusion in this
literature, my colleagues and I argued that implicit relational
knowledge on which human attachment patterns are based operates in and
influences the implicit (i.e., experiential) dimensions of spirituality,
but is relatively independent of explicit forms of religious/spiritual
behavior or knowledge (see Hall, Halcrow, Hill, & Delaney, 2005). In
other words, we suggested that a conceptual distinction needs to be made
between implicit spiritual functioning and explicit spiritual
functioning. This distinction draws on robust research findings from
multiple fields delineating two separate ways of knowing and processing
emotional information: explicit and implicit relational knowledge (e.g.,
Bucci, 1997; Stern et al., 1998). Implicit spiritual functioning focuses
more on automatic, presymbolic, emotional information processing,
whereas explicit spiritual functioning focuses more on symbolized
beliefs and behaviors.
Based on this distinction, we proposed and tested two mutually
exclusive and competing models: implicit IWM correspondence and explicit
religious compensation. We argued that "emotional
compensation" and "longitudinal compensation" are better
understood as reflections of the underlying dynamics of internal working
models, and thus represent correspondence at their core (the implicit
IWM correspondence model). In addition, we conceptualized a compensation
model, explicit religious compensation, in such a way as to be
orthogonal to IWM correspondence (i.e., concurrent positive association
between insecure attachment and positive God image). Our overall results
provided strong support for this theoretical model distinguishing
between implicit IWM correspondence and explicit religious compensation.
We found group differences on three of the four measures of implicit
religious-spiritual (RS) functioning, and as predicted, no differences
between attachment groups on explicit religious functioning.
Furthermore, the specific hypothesized group differences on the three
measures of implicit RS functioning were supported. In short, we found
predictable differences between attachment groups on indicators of RS
functioning that assess implicit relational and spiritual knowledge, but
no differences on explicit indicators of RS functioning.
Minding Spirituality Through an Attachment Theory Lens
From a clinical psychoanalytic lens, it certainly appears that
attachment theory has much to offer us in how we think about, and
intervene in, our clients' spirituality. It seems reasonable to
assume that a client's relationship with God represents some type
of an attachment relationship, most similar to the parent-child
relationship. This provides a framework for understanding, not only that
experience of God is influenced by the residues of early relationships,
but also that relationship with God--as an attachment relationship--has
a particular purpose and set of functions.
The attachment system is a system in our brains that influences and
organizes our memory, motivations, and emotions with respect to
important caregivers, in this case God (Siegel, 1999). God designed this
system to motivate infants to stay physically close to their caregivers,
and to establish communication with them. This system operates
throughout our lives, but the need for physical closeness in
infancy-transitions into the need for emotional closeness or "felt
security" as we become adults. In other words, our clients need
from God both a secure base from which to explore their worlds (internal
and external), and a haven of safety to comfort and soothe in times of
distress or trauma. Moreover, it could be argued that relationship with
God is not just any attachment relationship--it is the Attachment
Relationship, which is the source, in some ontological and experiential
sense, for all emotional security, even if indirectly. While we strive
to provide this sense of emotional security for our clients, there is
also something here that must come directly from God. We can foster it,
facilitate it, encourage it, and incarnate it to some extent, but
ultimately, this is where we tread on sacred ground. While there is no
clinical formula for how to intervene when it comes to these issues, we
must struggle to find ways to enter this sacred territory with a sense
of awe at the mystery of how God works, and strive to open ourselves to
being impacted by our clients in this process.
Having stated this, attachment theory also provides a frame of
reference for understanding the incarnational role of the
psychotherapist, in two different senses (Benner, 1983). First, as
therapists, we represent God by providing direct care that is ultimately
a reflection of God's love for our clients. Thus, while our clients
need a secure base and haven of safety from God, they also need this
directly from us as therapists. The only way we can provide this is
through the process of becoming attached--our clients becoming attached
to us, and we to our clients. There is mutual impact in such an
attachment relationship, although the impact is qualitatively different
for caregiver and care-receiver. It is only through this process of
opening ourselves to becoming attached as caregivers that we can be
genuinely impacted by our clients, fostering what Stern et al. (1998)
refer to as "moments of meeting." Such moments of genuine
human connection may represent the clearest expression of what causes
"everyday breakthroughs" in our clients' experiences of
themselves and God.
Second, becoming attached as a caregiver may be a prerequisite for
the incarnational role of taking on our clients' suffering and
detoxifying it. From a contemporary neuroscience perspective, attachment
creates a brain-to-brain bridge, a "neural WiFi" connection
(Goleman, 2006). The two brains of therapist and client become
functionally linked--or "coupled"--crossing the barrier of
skin-and-skull. Each brain is then online with respect to the other as
they actively communicate and mutually influence each other. In a very
real sense, the two brains become "wirelessly" connected,
forming a feedback loop in which the output of the therapist's
brain becomes the input of the client's brain, and vice versa. In
neural WiFi, the client's brain has access to the resources of the
therapist's--the information it processes, and the way it processes
information. Becoming attached to our clients means, in part, that their
emotional communications are received by our brains, and translated into
relational meanings through our own subsymbolic (gut level) processing
(Bucci, 1997). This is, neurobiologically speaking, how we take on our
clients' suffering. In other words, we enter into our clients'
emotional range and subjective experiences, yet without losing ourselves
and our own emotional range. Furthermore, as caregivers, our brains
ideally have more influence on our clients' brains in the sense
that, through our emotional communications to them, we bring our clients
into our emotional range. In short, attachment creates a brain linkup that in turn creates a "therapeutic brain circuit" across two
brains, which is the mechanism for suffering with our clients, and
thereby transforming their suffering.
What does it look like to be attached as a caregiver to a client,
and how do we foster this? Let me illustrate with a brief case example.
I had seen a client I will call Annika for about three years, dealing
predominantly with issues of loss and anxiety, when she encountered a
particularly difficult bump in the therapeutic road. She was
experiencing severe anxiety at work and in several of her closest
relationships. On occasion, when she was experiencing profound anxiety,
she would have me contacted to request an extra session. At one point in
a session during this time period, we got around to discussing how this
was for her to have me contacted and to request an extra session. I knew
these incidents impacted me and I felt a great deal of compassion and
concern for her when I would get a call. I was curious how she expected
me to feel and react to these calls. As we explored this, Annika
indicated that she feared I would be bothered and would not want to
respond.
As I pondered how to express to Annika how I was impacted by her
distress, I realized that when I would get a call, knowing the many
layers of meaning behind the call, I would become focused on getting in
contact with her as soon as possible. For the moment, everything else
would recede into the background. I realized that my caregiving system
had been activated and I experienced these crises much like when I would
become aware that one of my children had gotten hurt, but I did not yet
know exactly what had happened. A strong desire would pull me to get to
my child, comfort him, and make sure he was safe. This is the caregiving
side of the attachment relationship coin. I expressed this sentiment to
Annika, and it proved to be a significant shift in our therapeutic
relationship, as well as her experience of herself and God.
Over the years in my clinical work, I began to identify a
phenomenon that I first thought of as "becoming a significant
person" to my clients. The time frame varies as to when this
occurs; however, at some point, usually between 6 months and one year of
therapy, something noticeably shifts such that it feels like I become an
emotionally significant person in a client's life. I am no longer
"the doctor" to them, or their "Wednesday at 6:00."
What appears to be all of a sudden, they are now keenly interested in
what I think about them. They often express surprise at a newly emerging
sentiment of missing me when one of us has to miss a regular session.
They no longer want to talk with any number of people when they are
distressed, they now need and desire to talk specifically with me. They
have--in attachment parlance--become attached to me. This is the
care-receiving side of an attachment therapeutic coin, and it usually
co-occurs with the caregiving side. In fact, my experience suggests that
there is an intricate dance between caregiving and care-receiving as we
develop attachment relationships with our clients. Let me illustrate
again with a clinical example.
I had been seeing Lauren for about 6 months and we had discussed
quite a bit about her father not being emotionally available to her in a
number of ways. One day, she left a message saying she was quite upset,
and asked if I could see her that day. I was beginning to become an
attachment figure to Lauren. I worked my schedule out, called her back,
and we agreed to meet a few hours later in the late afternoon. When
Lauren came in, she was very upset about an incident that had occurred
with her father. She tearfully expressed a deep sense of pain over the
ways her father had wounded and failed her. I did not say much that
session--I listened and became tearful as I felt with her. She told me
in the next session with a big smile on her face that she told her
husband that she had "got to me"--in other words, that she had
impacted me as she had noticed my facial expressions and particularly my
tears. In the words of Daniel Siegel, she was "feeling felt"
by me. A deeply contingent, or "in synch" communication had
occurred between us (Siegel, 1999). I was beginning to become attached
as a caregiver. She saw this on my face, in my nonverbal, emotional
communication, and this in turn fostered her becoming more attached to
me. She had not expressed even close to this much emotion with me
previously, so this represented a turning point toward the development
of an attachment between us.
In spite of this turning point, in the weeks to come, Lauren became
more guarded in a very subtle way that I could not put my finger on. She
would report that everything was going well and she was not sure what to
talk about. For weeks I was mulling over this gut level feeling in the
back of my mind--this feeling that Lauren was there in the room with me
in a very real way, and yet somehow not there at the same time. We
talked about her anticipating having to terminate therapy in about five
months due to her husband changing jobs. I knew this was part of what I
was sensing, but there was more to it than that. I began to fear that I
would not be able to articulate and get to this issue before Lauren
moved. Then one session, Lauren expressed regret at having to end
therapy in several months; that she wished she could continue to see me
so she could tell me about the big events and accomplishments in her
life. She anticipated that I would be proud of her. She walked out of
the session, and a wave of sadness hit me like a ton of bricks. I
remember clearly that it took me by surprise, and I sat back down in my
chair to let myself feel and to sort through the meaning of it all. My
mulling became more focused now. I could not yet put it all into words,
but I knew I was sensing a deep sadness in Lauren about her father, and
that this had something to do with becoming attached to me and then
leaving. This sadness I experienced for Lauren deepened my sense of
attachment to her as a caregiver, and heightened my desire to help her
let go and attach to me, and to have a healing experience of saying
goodbye.
A few sessions later, Lauren mentioned something related to how she
was feeling about therapy. It seemed like an opportunity to address this
issue I had been sensing, yet I could not find the words to bring all of
my mulling, all of this meaning--a life's worth of hope,
disappointment, and sadness--into a few sentences. And the clock was
ticking. We meandered onto a few other topics, and my anxiety grew that
we would not get to the essence of things. Finally, toward the end of
the session, I managed to say something like "Lauren, I get the
sense that you have a lot of mixed feelings about ending therapy, and
wanting to still have contact with me afterwards." She resonated
with this and commented on it. Then I said something like "I
wonder, Lauren, if you feel you are just beginning to get some things
from me that you didn't get from your father, and you don't
want that to end." The response on her face told me immediately
that this hit home. She quickly began to cry as she elaborated on these
feelings. I became tearful as I sat with her, and I am sure she noticed
this and was "feeling felt," further fostering her attachment
to me. She paused, and I got the sense that she was surprised by the
power of her feelings, much as I had been several weeks before. The
attachment solidified in that session. Each of us deeply impacted the
other, albeit in different, nonsymmetrical ways, which mutually
facilitated an attachment bond. I am not sure exactly when it occurred,
but somewhere along the way, Lauren and I became attached. Becoming
attached looks different with each client, and there is no formula for
it, however, I believe it fundamentally has to do with intentionally
opening ourselves up to being impacted by our clients, and letting them
see this impact in appropriate and timely ways.
Attachment theory also provides a framework for understanding
typical patterns through which our clients may attach to God at various
times, and the underlying strategies these patterns represent. Each
client's attachment "filter" is unique to some degree
because each has a unique relational history. However, two separate
research literatures (self-report and interview traditions) have
identified four common attachment filters: secure, preoccupied,
dismissing and fearful. Clients with secure attachment filters expect,
at an implicit level, that emotionally significant others will be
available and responsive when they need them. Clients with a secure
filter have experienced this enough in the past that they expect it of
attachment figures without consciously thinking about it. They have
developed a particular set of ways to regulate their own emotions: they
consciously acknowledge emotional distress, they display their distress
to others in close relationships, they tend to solve problems actively
and effectively, and they actively seek support from others when they
need it (e.g., Mikulincer & Nachshon, 1991; Mikulincer & Orbach,
1995).
This is what clients with secure attachment filters bring to their
relationship with God. Their experiences of God are biased toward a
sense of felt security. This does not mean there will not be difficult
and painful times in their relationship with God. Rather, it means that
they tend to expect God to be available and responsive, to genuinely
care about them, and to welcome the expression of emotion, including
negative emotions. My colleagues and I found strong support for this in
the empirical study I mentioned previously. We found that secure
individuals showed a stronger sense of connection to a spiritual
community than any of the other three attachment groups (Hall et al.,
2005). In addition, we found that they experienced less anxiety in their
relationship with God than preoccupied and dismissing individuals. This
allows secure individuals to process difficult experiences in
relationship with God, and to stay connected to God even in the midst of
dark and difficult times. While these patterns will vary within an
individual client over time, they give us a framework for exploring our
clients' experiences of God, and broad relational goals to foster
as we "mind" our clients' spirituality.
Clients with a preoccupied attachment filter expect others to be
unreliable. Since they have learned implicitly that they cannot predict
when attachment figures will be there for them, they develop a strategy
of hyperactivating their attachment system, which is manifested by
attempting to minimize distance from attachment figures and to elicit
their support and comfort (Shaver & Mikulincer, 2002). The strategy
here is to try to pull attachment figures into providing comfort and
care through clinging and controlling responses. There is a tendency for
clients with this filter to become preoccupied with unresolved emotional
pain, and to demand that others take care of this pain (Shaver &
Mikulincer 2002). This also makes it difficult to notice and attend to
others' needs, which perpetuates a negative cycle of experiencing
rejection when they seek comfort.
These clients are prone to feel abandoned by God, and to experience
their relationship with God as unstable. For example, my colleagues and
I found that preoccupied individuals experienced less of a sense of
connection to their spiritual community, and more anxiety in their
relationship with God than secure individuals (Hall et al., 2005). In
addition, preoccupied clients view God as less loving than those with
positive views of themselves (Kirkpatrick, 1998). They tend to engage in
clingy, help-seeking forms of prayer, desperately seeking to hold on to
a bond that feels very fragile (Byrd & Boe, 2001). The pain they
experience in their relationship with God becomes part of the entire
package of global emotional pain in their lives. If they touch on a
painful nerve in one area of their life, it will often spill over into
some aspect of their relationship with God, and vice versa. Preoccupied
clients will tend to use God and their spiritual community to help them
regulate their emotions. This is normal and healthy within certain
limits, but it becomes rather extreme with preoccupied individuals. Help
in regulating their emotions becomes a central goal in therapy with such
clients.
In contrast to those with a secure attachment filter, people with a
"dismissing" attachment filter expect others to not be
available and responsive to them. They expect emotionally barren
relationships with significant others, and tend to be emotionally
distant in their relationships (Green & Campbell, 2000). As a result
their brains have developed a particular strategy for dealing with this:
to deactivate their attachment system, or shut down their need for God
and others (Shaver & Mikulincer 2002). This leads to difficulty
feeling connected to others, being aware of their own feelings, and
attending to others' needs.
Dismissing clients tend to play this same pattern out in their
relationship with God. They may consciously acknowledge needing God, but
they rarely actually rely on Him in difficult times. When they are
distressed, they generally continue their self-reliant coping
strategies, keeping God and their spiritual community on the periphery,
while focusing on explicit knowledge about God. For example, my
colleagues and I found that dismissing individuals experienced less of a
sense of belonging to a spiritual community than secure individuals
(Hall et al., 2005). They also have fewer spiritual
friendships--friendships that foster an intentional component of
spiritual encouragement--than secure clients. In addition, dismissing
clients are less likely to believe in and have a relationship with what
they view as a personal God (Kirkpatrick, 1998). In other words,
dismissing clients who believe that intimate attachments are undesirable
or dangerous do not think an intimate relationship with God is a
possibility. It is not something that even shows up on their radar
screen because they do not have the experiential hooks (attachment
filter) on which to hang the experience.
Another noteworthy finding is that dismissing clients sometimes
respond to a disruption in an important relationship by increasing
religious/spiritual behaviors or involvement (Granqvist, 2002). This
contradicts their typical attachment strategy. It seems likely that they
may initially react to such distress with their typical strategy of
deactivating their felt need for closeness. However, if the stress
becomes too severe, and too disorganizing, this may neutralize their
normal coping mechanisms of short-circuiting painful emotions, leading
to a flood of painful emotions. This in turn may drive them to God and
their spiritual community for support and comfort. We know that the
hyperactivation and deactivation strategies both serve the same function
of regulating emotions (Shaver & Mikulincer 2002), and it may be
that each strategy serves as a back-up for the other when it becomes
overwhelmed by high levels of stress that push a client out of their
normal pathways of coping.
We also get a fascinating window into dismissing clients'
relationships with God through studies that have examined prayer through
an attachment lens. This research suggests that dismissing clients tend
to engage in types of prayer that minimize a sense of closeness to God
(Byrd & Boe, 2001). In fact, when they become more distressed, and
need support more (even though they do not show it), dismissing clients
will likely spend even less time in types of prayer that foster
emotional connection with God. In short, while keeping God at arms
length emotionally, dismissing clients tend to relate to God through
their explicit knowledge about Him.
Fearful attachment can be viewed as a combination of the
preoccupied and dismissive attachment styles (Bartholomew, 1990). Like
the preoccupied attachment filter, clients with a fearful attachment
filter want to have close relationships, and need a lot of comfort and
reassurance from others. However, like clients with a dismissing
attachment filter, fearful clients tend to avoid close relationships,
even though they desire them. They develop a representation of
attachment figures as uncaring, or outright rejecting and hostile, and a
representation of themselves as unworthy and unlovable. This is a very
painful combination of conflicting needs. In short, their need for
reassurance pushes them toward attachment figures, but their gut level
expectation of rejection causes them to avoid seeking support from
attachment figures.
In their relationship with God, we would expect fearful clients to
show this same pattern of being highly prone to experience a lot of
pain, such as abandonment. And yet, fearful individuals are also likely
to avoid close emotional contact with God. They will not likely bring
their pain to God in prayer, for example. In addition, they will not
tend to reveal much in a spiritual community. The study my colleagues
and I conducted supports this picture. We found that fearful individuals
looked the same as dismissing participants on spiritual community, but
were no different than preoccupied individuals in their attachment to
God (Hall et al., 2005). This suggests that they show a similar pattern
of behavior as dismissing individuals in terms of how they engage in
spiritual community--they stay on the outskirts of the community. Yet,
they likely show the same level of anxiety in their relationship with
God as preoccupied individuals, and more than secure individuals. In
short, fearful people desire a close connection to God and a spiritual
community, however their implicit experience tells them that seeking
connection leads to rejection, so they stay on the periphery of the
community, and keep God at arms length.
CONCLUSION
Attachment theory developed along an independent, although in many
ways synergistic, theoretical trajectory to that of the object
relations/relational psychoanalysis trajectory. Along the way, a
significant literature has developed applying both attachment and object
relations theories to religion and spirituality, which can inform how we
"mind" our clients' spirituality. From an object
relations perspective, clients' spirituality is a manifestation of
their deep structure of internalized relationships with emotionally
significant others. Sorenson (2004) encouraged us to explore this lens
on our clients' deep relational structures in a way that holds in
tension the Otherness of God, and the profound influence of significant
human relationships on their experience of God. Likewise, from an
attachment perspective, the process of becoming attached to our clients,
and they to us, becomes a central relational prerequisite for
incarnating God's love to our clients by providing direct care, and
by taking on and detoxifying their suffering. While object relations and
attachment theories each remain a robust field in its own right, these
relational cousins have begun an interesting and fruitful dialogue in
recent years that will continue to advance a relational paradigm for
spirituality. This dialogue and its implications for spirituality are
explored in the second article of this two-part series (see Hall, 2007,
this issue).
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AUTHOR
HALL, TODD. Address: 13800 Biola Ave, La Mirada, California, 90639.
Title: Associate Professor of Psychology; Editor, Journal of Psychology
and Theology; Director, Institute for Research on Psychology and
Spirituality. Degrees: Ph.D., M.A., Rosemead School of Psychology, Biola
University; M.A., Doctoral specialization, University of California, Los
Angeles; B.A., Biola University. Specializations: Spiritual Development,
Attachment theory, Relational Psychoanalysis.
TODD W. HALL
Rosemead School of Psychology
Biola University
Correspondence concerning this issue may be sent to Todd W. Hall,
PhD, Rosemead School of Psychology, Biola University, 13800 Biola Ave,
La Mirada, California, 90639.
(1) It is beyond my scope here to provide a detailed account of
these theoretical developments. My intent, rather, is to paint a broad
portrait of the theoretical landscape. Thus, I assume some familiarity
with psychoanalysis and attachment theory, yet I have attempted to write
in such a way that those unfamiliar with this terrain will be able to
understand the major theoretical developments.