Psychoanalysis, attachment, and spirituality Part II: the spiritual stories we live by.
Hall, Todd W.
Psychoanalysis and attachment theory both developed independently
as relational traditions within the confines of their own disciplinary
walls (see Hall, 2007, this issue). While both traditions were
"doing their own thing," in relative ignorance of the other,
several other revolutions were occurring that turned out to pave a
bridge that was already being built between these two theoretical
highways. Recent developments in neuroscience, emotion research, and
narrative approaches to human experience have helped to construct this
bridge, suggesting that we are hard wired for two fundamentally distinct
forms of knowing, one of which exists in storied form. In this article,
the second of a two-part series in this special issue, I discuss the
rapprochement between these two relational traditions. Following this, I
highlight what may capture the common relational metapsychology underlying these converging traditions--a theory of implicit relational
meaning--and its implications for "minding" the spiritual
stories by which our clients live.
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Until relatively recently, attachment theory and psychoanalytic communities have tended to ignore each other, creating a somewhat
artificial divide between two theoretical frameworks that share a number
of foundational assumptions. In recent years, the rift between the
trajectories of attachment theory and psychoanalysis has begun to
converge toward relationality, notwithstanding continued differences.
This convergence is evident in developments within each theoretical
tradition, as well as in recent trends toward interdisciplinary theory
building. In all these areas, we see that both theoretical traditions
are moving toward a common relational metapsychology--the fundamental
idea that personality is structured around implicit relational meanings
that are represented in a storied form in our minds.
Convergence Within Psychoanalysis
Contemporary psychoanalysis has evolved toward an increased
emphasis on the centrality of relationships. As I briefly highlighted in
part I of this series (Hall, 2007, this issue), psychoanalysis took a
turn toward relationality in the 1940's and 50's with the work
of Fairbairn (1952), Balint (1965), and Winnicott (1958, 1965, 1971)
among others. This British "middle school" of object relations
spawned several lines of relational theory within psychoanalysis,
sometimes referred to loosely as "relational psychoanalysis."
This is a broad group of relational theories that includes, among
others, object relations theory, interpersonal psychology developed by
H.S. Sullivan (1953), self psychology developed by Heinz Kohut (1971,
1977) and theories of intersubjectivity (e.g., Stolorow & Atwood,
1992).
Greenberg and Mitchell (1983), in their landmark book Object
Relations in Psychoanalytic Theory, were instrumental in providing a
degree of synthesis and cohesion to the growing confusion in this
tradition. Many splinters of relational theories were developing, often
times couched in the language of drive theory making it difficult to
discern the underlying vision of human nature. Greenberg and Mitchell
argued that underlying the many theories, two metapsychologies existed:
the drive/structure model and the relational/structure model.
Ultimately, they argued, all theories fall on one side of the divide or
the other. While there were attempts to combine concepts from the two
models, the two metapsychologies represent fundamentally incompatible
visions of personality. Thus, Greenberg and Mitchell made a cogent case
that under the surface of the varied relational theories, a broad
relational model exists.
Notwithstanding this broad relational model, many different
relational theories continued to abound, often times claiming
comprehensive status, even though they typically emphasized a narrow
slice of personality (Mitchell, 1988). In a later work, Relational
Concepts in Psychoanalysis, Mitchell (1988) presented an integrative
relational theory, further articulating his version of this broad
relational model. In this work, Mitchell argues that the field has
suffered from theorists following in the shadow of Freud by attempting
to develop the next grand psychoanalytic theory, and in the process
ignoring or discounting compatible relational theories. Mitchell argued,
in contrast, that the varied relational theories are in fact
complimentary, and that the way forward involves synthesizing
complimentary aspects of a relational matrix that includes dimensions of
the self, the other, and the space between them. Some theories emphasize
the self, others emphasize internal representations of the other, and
yet other theories emphasize the space between. Despite their differing
emphases, they each comprise parts of an integrated relational matrix.
In his cogent attempt to synthesize relational theories, Mitchell
developed a relational-conflict model. He argues that in retiring
Freud's drive theory, we need not abandon core aspects of human
experience such as sexuality, narcissism, infantile desires, conflict,
and illusion. Moreover, we need not choose between the self,
internalizations of others, and interpersonal transactions. Rather, each
of these major facets of human experience is reinterpreted in a
radically different light--that of the relational matrix. Development is
not constituted by innate bestial drives as in Freud's theory.
Furthermore, development cannot be captured in only one dimension of the
self, the other, or interpersonal transactions--the intersubjective
space between ourselves and others. The warp and woof of our lives is
constituted in our lifelong struggle to maintain a sense of selfhood,
autonomy, and self-definition, on the one hand, and a sense of
connection to emotionally significant others (both internally and
externally) on the other.
Conflict is ubiquitous in our human experience, but the conflict is
relational. It is conflict between the fear of losing ourselves, and the
fear of losing others and God; between our desiring love and intimacy on
the one hand, and our uncanny skill in eliciting others to fulfill our
worst relational fears, our gut-level expectations for how relationships
work for us, and repeating these patterns over and over again. In the
end, Mitchell's contemporary relational psychoanalytic view paints
a picture of human experience as being constituted in our own,
ever-changing relational matrix--a matrix in which the self, the other,
and the space between them cannot be neatly separated. While Mitchell
presents one vision of how different relational theories can be
integrated, he solidifies a broad relational model within the
psychoanalytic tradition, and articulates how differing relational
theories can inform each other.
A second trend toward convergence within psychoanalysis is that a
number of psychoanalytic authors have begun to interact with attachment
theory, and to see the relevance of attachment research for clinical
work. For example, Goodman (2002) integrates attachment concepts within
the context of object relations theory in his book The Internal World
and Attachment. Fonagy (2001), likewise, explores similarities and
differences between attachment theory and different relational
psychoanalytic theories. Jill and David Savege Scharff (1998)
incorporate attachment research in their recent comprehensive text on
object relations therapy. Beebe and Lachmann (2002) explore the
implications of infant attachment research for adult psychoanalytic
therapy. In his last book before his untimely death, Mitchell (2000)
interacts with attachment research, and proposes attachment as one of
four modes of relating in an integrative synthesis of relational
concepts. These are but a few examples that illustrate the substantial
ways that psychoanalytic theorists are currently interacting with
attachment theory.
Convergence within Attachment Theory
Within the attachment tradition, this convergence was sparked by
Mary Ainsworth's work on secure and insecure attachment patterns.
In 1963, Ainsworth developed the well-known Strange Situation
experiment, which she used to study the attachment patterns of
twelve-month-old infants and their mothers (Ainsworth, Blehar, Waters,
& Wall, 1978). The strange situation was designed to assess
differences between twelve month-old infants in the organization of
their attachment behavior toward their mothers. The procedure consists
of a series of three-minute episodes lasting a total of twenty minutes.
The infant is observed in a playroom with toys, first with mother,
during which time most infants explore their environment while keeping
an eye on their mother, and there is limited variability in
infants' behavior. However, variability increases dramatically as
the procedure continues. Next, mother leaves the room, then returns,
then a stranger enters with mother in the room, and mother then leaves
the infant with the stranger alone. The entrance of a stranger with
mother still in the room reduces exploring behavior in almost all
infants. However, when the mother leaves her infant with the stranger,
the behavior of over half the children changes abruptly, and clear
differences in the organization of attachment emerge (Bowlby, 1982). The
strange situation procedure provides the opportunity to observe how an
infant uses her caregiver for comfort and as a base for exploration, and
the balance between attachment and exploration behaviors as the
situation unfolds.
A number of early studies used the criteria of strength of
attachment to describe patterns of attachment (Schaffer & Emerson,
1964). Strength of attachment refers to whether, and to what degree, an
infant protests when mother leaves for a brief period. This approach
emphasizes the amount of a behavior but does not seek to understand the
underlying meaning of the behavior. As Ainsworth gained more experience
observing infants with their mothers, she came to conclude that this
quantitative approach to evaluating attachment patterns was not only
insufficient, but could actually be misleading (Bowlby, 1982). For
example, anxious-resistant infants exhibit strong protest when their
mothers leave--more than secure infants--which could appear to be a sign
of a more healthy attachment from a quantitative perspective. However,
these infants are not able to derive comfort from their mothers, and are
severely disabled in their ability to explore their environment.
The combination of these behaviors reveals an underlying insecurity in the infant's attachment. Thus, within this broader context,
Ainsworth postulated that the security of an infant's attachment is
the most important dimension in evaluating it. Ainsworth's focus on
the evaluation of the meaning of various attachment behaviors was a
pivotal first step in moving attachment theory closer to a theory of
relational meaning, and hence closer to the relational psychoanalytic
trajectory that was developing independently during this same time
period. This was further developed by Sroufe and Waters (1977) in a key
article emphasizing attachment as an organizational construct. In this
article, Sroufe and his colleagues likewise emphasized the subjective
meaning of attachment behavior rather than simply the frequency of
certain behaviors.
The convergence within the attachment tradition came to a head in
the mid-1980s, when attachment theorists shifted from a focus on infant
behavior to a focus on the subjective experiences and dynamic internal
representations in the infant and parent, largely as a result of the
development of the Adult Attachment Interview (Main, Kaplan &
Cassidy, 1985). Mary Main, Nancy Kaplan, and Jude Cassidy (1985)
reported evidence that the way adults discussed their past relationships
with their own parents was reliably associated with the attachment
classifications of their own infants in the Strange Situation. For
example, adults who idealized their own parents but could not provide
clear memories in support of such appraisals (classified as dismissing
adults), generally had children who behaved in an avoidant manner in the
Strange Situation. Adults who strayed from the AAI questions, or who
exhibited intense anger toward their parents (i.e., preoccupied adults)
typically had children who were classified as anxious-resistant in the
Strange Situation. In contrast, secure adults who produced coherent and
believable narratives about their relationships with their parents
tended to have children who were secure in the Strange Situation.
What they came to see was that the underlying meaning of early
relational experiences are represented and become manifest in the way
adults tell their attachment-related stories. They eventually codified these narrative styles in the coding system for the Adult Attachment
Interview (see Hesse, 1999). Research in the Adult Attachment Interview
tradition has burgeoned in recent years, and has contributed to the
growing interest in narrative approaches to human experience, to which
we will return shortly. In addition, AAI research has paved the way for
exploring the implications of attachment theory for clinical work.
In this vein, several authors have noted a growing sense of
"paradigm boundedness" within attachment theory, and the need
for theoretical paradigms that enrich clinical work, and clinically
relevant research and theory (e.g., Fonagy, 2001; Mitchell, 2000). As a
result, a number of attachment researchers, and clinicians influenced by
attachment theory, are now integrating their findings with contemporary
psychoanalysis and articulating their clinical implications. One area of
attachment research that has led to rich clinical implications
convergent with relational psychoanalysis is the search to understand
how attachment organizations are transmitted intergenerationally.
Findings from the Adult Attachment Interview have generated hypotheses
about how the primary caregiver's attachment organization is
transmitted to the infant. Main (1991) proposed that avoidant and
resistant attachment patterns are maintained by a "steady
representational state" that is subjectively experienced as a kind
of secondary felt security. In other words, consistent with relational
psychoanalytic theories, an insecure (but organized) attachment pattern
is still the tie that binds one to the other, however insecure it is.
This is reminiscent of Fairbairn's (1952) bad objects. It is better
to maintain an attachment bond to a rejecting, inconsistent or avoidant
attachment figure than to have no bond at all. To sever this tie is to
enter a state of the terror of nonexistence. This form of felt security
is secondary in the sense that it is not a secure attachment
organization (primary felt security), yet it is the only familiar form
of attachment within one's relational matrix. It represents our
deep, gut-level expectations about how attachment relationships work for
us. It is the only relational experience we know, however implicit it
may be. We simply cannot imagine anything else within our relational
matrix.
A parent's secondary felt security creates in her infant the
need to develop certain strategies to maintain connection with the
parent. The infant's bids for proximity, emotional closeness, or
comfort may challenge the state of secondary felt security of the
dismissing (parallel to the avoidant infant) parent that is based on
deactivating the attachment system. Conversely, exploration and
separation-inducing behaviors may challenge the state of secondary felt
security of the preoccupied (parallel to the resistant infant) parent
that is based on hyperactivating the attachment system. In both cases,
the infant learns a conditional behavioral and emotional strategy to
maximize her own sense of self-organization and felt security with the
parent. For example, the infant of a dismissing parent will learn to
behaviorally avoid the parent when distressed and will develop a general
nonconscious strategy to shut down, or deactivate, any seeking of
connection and comfort. This strategy paradoxically maximizes the
infant's connection to a dismissing parent.
Mary Main also developed the concept of "metacognitive
monitoring" as a potential explanation for the transmission of
secure attachment (Main, 1991). Metacognitive monitoring is the ability
to distinguish between appearance and reality; between one's
immediate experience and one's mental state underlying it. She
argues that differences in attachment organizations can be linked to the
quality of metacognition in the parent. This notion is very similar to
much that has been written in psychoanalysis about the importance of the
primary caregiver's capacity to view their child as a separate
person with her own thoughts, feelings, and desires that are meaningful
within her own psychic economy, independent of the caregiver's
psychic economy (Fonagy et al., 1995).
In short, if we look at the broad strokes of developments within
psychoanalysis and attachment theory, we see many examples of converging
relational concepts. What may capture the common core of these two
traditions is a theory of implicit relational meaning--implicit meanings
in which our spiritual stories are embedded and enacted.
IMPLICIT RELATIONAL MEANING: THE SPIRITUAL STORIES WE LIVE BY
Christopher Bollas proposed the concept of "unthought
knowns"--a deep form of relational knowing that is not formed in
thoughts or words (Bollas, 1987). Contemporary neuroscience and emotion
research has provided substantial evidence for this notion. There is now
strong support for the idea that we are hard wired for two fundamentally
distinct ways of knowing and that we are hard wired for stories.
Unthought Knowns: We Know More than We Can Say
In an earlier article, I outlined five central organizing
principles of a relational spirituality paradigm based on a theory of
implicit relational representations (Hall, 2004), or what we might also
refer to as a theory of implicit relational meaning. A core principle of
this theory is that our brains have two distinct processing systems,
which support two very different ways of knowing. Explicit
knowledge--knowledge that is conscious, linear, and exists in images and
words--is supported by what neuroscientists refer to as the "high
road" brain circuits, based in the pre-frontal cortex (primarily on
the left side), that are responsible for analytical and abstract
reasoning. (LeDoux, 1996). Implicit knowledge, in contrast, is "gut
level" knowledge, or meaning, that is carried in our bodies,
emotions, and stories. This form of knowing is supported by what
neuroscientists refer to as the "low road" brain circuits
(primarily on the right side), involving the amygdala and other circuits
responsible for primary emotion (LeDoux, 1996).
In the context of knowledge, or meaning, about
ourselves-in-relation-to-others, this latter way of knowing is what
Stern et al. (1998) refer to as "implicit relational
knowledge;" that is, our gut level sense of "how to be
with" attachment figures. This sense of how to be with attachment
figures is similar to the general notion that patterns of relational
experiences with caregivers become internalized. This idea has been
captured by numerous theorists, such as by Stern's (1985)
"representations of interactions that are generalized" or
RIGS, emotion schemas (Bucci, 1997), mental models (Siegel, 1999),
object representations in object relations theory (e.g., Fairbairn,
1952), and internal working models in attachment theory (Bowlby, 1973).
Each of these concepts refers to representations of relational meanings
that are encoded in implicit memory; thus, we can think of a theory of
implicit relational meaning. Implicit memory operates in the limbic and
subcortical regions of the brain that are responsible for the
processing, expression, and regulation of emotional information and
nonverbal communication (Schore, 1997). Implicit memory operates without
conscious awareness. In other words, when implicit memory is retrieved,
we do not have the experience or sense that something is being
remembered (Siegel, 1999).
Because we are not aware when implicit memory is operating, it
functions as an "attachment filter" as discussed in the
previous article (Hall, 2007, this issue). We do not experience the
filter; we experience relationships through the filter of various ways
of being attached to caregivers. These attachment filters that influence
the way we experience significant relationships turn out to be gut-level
expectations of how relational stories will play out. As I mentioned
earlier, AAI researchers discovered that the implicit relational meaning
of individuals' attachment histories are carried in their
attachment-related stories--not in the content per se, but in the way
they "tell" their stories. In other words, implicit relational
meaning is carried in the emotional communication of our
"between-the-lines" stories. Neuroscientists have provided
further evidence that our brains are hard wired for stories.
Hard Wired for Stories
Stories, or narratives, are meaning structures that have a certain
"grammar" to them, or certain common characteristics that we
naturally identify as a "story" (McAdams, 1993). Stories are
emotionally meaningful sequences of actions that are causally linked in
a particular way. They contain a setting that provides the overall
context for the unfolding of a series of emotionally meaningful events.
In addition, stories contain characters, human or human-like figures
that live within this setting. An initiating event occurs to the central
characters, motivating them to strive after certain goals, which in turn
leads to a consequence. Multiple episodes of a story, each containing
this basic structural sequence, build on each other and provide shape to
the story as it unfolds. As the story unfolds, tension builds across the
episodes eliciting in us a desire for resolution. This tension typically
builds to a climax, or turning point, which is followed shortly by some
solution to the plot.
McAdams (1993) argues that human beings are, by their very nature,
storytellers. Stories are a natural package for organizing many kinds of
information. Furthermore, stories appear to be a fundamental way that we
express ourselves and communicate with others. When we want to explain
something to someone, we often tell a story to communicate our meaning.
Much of our everyday conversations involve some form of storytelling.
Psychoanalytic psychotherapy can be aptly viewed, at one level, as an
unfolding story between client and psychotherapist, one that involves
the client's and therapist's internal relational matrices and
interactions between the two. Indeed, a tradition has emerged
emphasizing narrative knowing as a framework for interpreting meaning in
psychoanalytic psychotherapy (e.g., Spence, 1982).
Stories are a powerful way of knowing because they help us
organize, maintain and evaluate our own and others' behavior
(Cozolino, 2002). Narratives help us regulate how we experience and
express emotion. They are one aspect of our gut level memories that
serve as attachment filters. In other words, our attachment filters are
stored in the form of stories, and it is through stories that we access
them, or bring them online. By the age of two-and-a-half, parents and
children create stories together at a rate of 2.2 per hour in everyday
conversation (Cozolino, 2002). These stories connect parents with their
children, but they also contain within them a grid for evaluating what
is discussed, deciding what information to include, how to process and
understand that information, and whether the story will have only one
subjective center or vantage point, or several subjective centers.
Having several subjective centers carries with it the capacity for
empathy, which is critical to love and compassion. The way stories are
structured contains a gut level, implicit model of how to relate to
emotionally significant others, and how many ways there are to do this.
To state it differently, internal working models are structured as
stories, and in the context of our spirituality, these become the
spiritual stories we live by.
Cozolino (2002) suggests that narratives are analogous to a music
score for an orchestra. Stories organize and synchronize the
participation of many "instruments." The range and complexity
of a score determines which instruments are used, how they are
coordinated, and the quality of the final performance. Parents and
children write this narrative score together in the context of their
family and culture. In short, we can see that stories play a crucial
role in a child's developing connection with parents, and in their
attachment filters.
Two Modes of Storying
Bruner (1990) proposed two different ways of understanding the
world--paradigmatic and narratives modes of thought--that parallel
explicit and implicit relational forms of knowing, respectively. The
narrative mode of knowing is concerned with human wants, needs, and
goals, and operates in the implicit relational knowing system. Narrative
knowing is not a chronicle of facts that is judged by explicit, logical
analysis. Rather, it has more to do with meaning, and is judged by
implicit, narrative criteria such as "believability" and
"coherence." Moreover, as meaning ultimately derives from
relationality (e.g., Mitchell, 2000; Siegel, 1999), narrative knowing,
or implicit relational knowing with respect to our fundamental sense of
self-in-relationship is appraised by our sense of connection to others,
as filtered through the attachment system. Storied knowledge of
ourselves and our spirituality exists fundamentally in implicit form,
although it can be translated into explicit language and knowledge.
Bruner argues that masters of the narrative mode of knowing try to
"say no more than they mean" and, through their storied
communication, "mean more than they can say." In other words,
the narrative mode of knowing about ourselves-in-relationship taps into
our unthought knowns (Bollas, 1987): we know, or mean, far more than we
can say. Implicit relational meaning, or narrative knowing, cannot be
fully captured in paradigmatic or explicit forms of knowing.
However, just as there are two ways of knowing in general, we can
think of two modes of storying. Our clients literally tell their stories
in the paradigmatic, or explicit sense, using the language of words.
This, at one level, is the "stuff" of psychotherapy. Our
clients use words to communicate the current episodes of their unfolding
life stories. In fact, I have had numerous clients in the early stages
of therapy report that they feel responsible to communicate the
"right" (verbal) information to me so I can help them. If they
miss "right" verbal information in their minds, they fear I am
blocked from helping them. In their minds, this is the only story being
told during the session. However, our clients also "tell" us a
completely different type of story--a story that exists
"between-the-lines" and uses the nonverbal "language" of emotion. The narrative mode of knowing, then,
cannot be reduced to the verbal content of a story. As Bruner (1990)
argues, it is more about meaning; however, the verbal articulation of
such meaning in a relational context turns out to be critical for
synergizing these two ways of knowing to bring about transformation.
Furthermore, "coherent" stories require both types of stories
to be working in synchronization with one another.
In order for our clients to tell coherent stories about their
relationships (with God and others), it requires a harmonious working
relationship between the lower-right (low road) and top-left (high road)
circuits of the brain. The "interpretive" top-left brain
circuits are predominantly responsible for recounting the logical
sequence of events, whereas the lower-right brain circuits are
predominantly responsible for the emotional meaning of the events
(Siegel, 1999). Bucci (1997) has developed a linguistic method for
coding the degree to which emotional meaning is integrated with verbal
communication. This coding for "referential activity" assesses
the concreteness, specificity, clarity, and imagery level of speech. She
has identified patterns in various measures that represent linguistic
indicators of different phases of the referential process that involves
linking "subsymbolic" emotional meaning to images and
ultimately to words. When both of these ways of knowing are working
together, the outcome is a logical and emotionally meaningful--or
coherent--communication. In other words, our clients'
between-the-lines stories will match the stories they tell us in words.
If both of these facets are not woven together, an
individual's story will not be coherent. Clients with secure
attachments in general are able to tell a coherent story about their
relationships. In contrast, clients with insecure attachments tend to be
incoherent in their stories, but in different ways. Preoccupied clients
are incoherent because they become overwhelmed by painful feelings
(Siegel, 1999). Unresolved painful memories have been shown to be
associated with a brain activation pattern that is dominated by the
right brain (Schiffer, Teicher, & Papanicolaou, 1995). Furthermore,
cooperation between the two hemispheres appears to be necessary in order
to consolidate memory (Siegel, 1999). Thus, the core problem with
unresolved painful memories may be the failure to consolidate memories
of such traumatic events. When the right brain is dominant in
preoccupied narratives, there is an absence of a verbal, storied version
of painful events. There is not a beginning, middle or end; there is no
plot that can be detected. It is experienced and communicated as an
undifferentiated mass of emotional pain. The interpretive left side of
the brain, then, is not able to do its part to place emotionally
significant events into a larger network of meaning, and permanent,
consolidated memory. Instead, these unresolved painful memories remain
in an unstable state of potential implicit activation, which often
intrude on the person as if from outside the person.
Dismissing clients, in contrast, tend to be incoherent because they
do not integrate the emotional meaning of the events into their verbal
stories. We can assume that their narratives tend to be dominated by
left-brain activity. If you listen to a dismissing client's story,
you will get a precise verbal account of the sequence of events;
however, you will not get a good sense of the emotional meaning of the
events they are recounting from their emotional communication. In this
case, the right brain does not do its part to integrate the emotional
meaning of events into the narrative sequence. Thus, you get a sequence
of events that has no life to it. However, the incoherence in both types
of filters causes the emotional meanings to be clouded. They are very
difficult to articulate. This clouding of emotional meaning hinders new
relational information from being integrated into their implicit
relational meaning structures. Stories turn out to play a critical role
in integrating explicit and implicit knowledge.
The Knowledge Spiral: Storying Unthought Knowns
Earlier I proposed the concept of unthought knowns as a picture of
our gut level way of knowing (Bollas, 1987). These are things we know,
yet they remain unthought, unformed. They are emotional meanings that do
not exist in words that can be thought and communicated to others. This
is part of why changing our clients' attachment filters is so
profoundly difficult. The very nature of our clients' attachment
filters is that they are unspeakable, and when they are painful, it
becomes even more difficult to be aware of them, and to communicate them
to others (Bucci, 1997). When our clients' attachment filters
remain unspeakable, they are difficult to transform because it hinders
them from coming into relational contact with the therapist, God or
others in a fully integrated way. However, while I focus below on the
integration of these two ways of knowing, it is important to note that
much reparative work in therapy is done at the implicit level. The
majority of unthought knowns are never translated. We simply catch out
clients' emotions implicitly and communicate empathy to them in a
myriad of nonverbal ways. Nonetheless, translating between these two
ways of knowing is a core function of what we do in therapy.
The transformation of our clients' implicit attachment filters
of God and others is not a function of either implicit or explicit
knowledge by itself, but requires a synchronization of both ways of
knowing. This process involves building new relational experiences along
different dimensions than those in our current implicit memory. Our
explicit system then identifies these and analyzes the meaning of them,
and the very act of doing this helps us to process and transform our
implicit experiences at new, and deeper levels. Our ability to
articulate new experiences opens up new connections in our implicit
processing, creating a spiral-like process. This process, referred to by
Bucci (1997) as "referential activity," happens through images
and stories. One of our central roles as therapists is to create a
relational environment in which our clients' unthought knowns can
become "speakable" through a translation process that links
their raw, implicit relational knowledge with words. This can be
pictured as a "bottom up" integration process, bringing
together our clients' "gut level" experiences with
explicit "head" knowledge. Following our discussion of bottom
up integration, we will elaborate on the back-and-forth nature of this
spiral-like process in which each system refers to the other to develop
qualitatively new knowledge.
Our gut level knowledge starts off very raw when it is first
processed in the lower, right portion of our brains. This information
cannot be easily defined or categorized (Bucci, 1997). In order for this
kind of information to be verbalized and communicated to others, and to
process it using the rules of verbal logic, it must first be translated.
There are several steps in this translation process that can be
illustrated by a case example. Fred came to see me in the hopes of
saving his marriage. Fred and Bonnie had been arguing for several years
and things had hit a crisis point. Fred was very angry at Bonnie. For
quite a few years, he felt she had been pursuing her own agenda, not
being committed to him or their children. Bonnie eventually separated
from Fred, saying she wanted to work on the marriage, but Fred did not
see any signs that she was following through on this. He became more
angry with her and began to express this to her very overtly. Bonnie
began to express deep-seated anger and disappointment passively, by
withdrawing, and refusing to communicate with Fred, with the exception
of an occasional out-of-the-blue outburst. A typical interaction during
this time would look something like this: Fred would try to talk with
Bonnie about their marriage, probably with an angry tone, and she would
withdraw, disagree with him, question him, and eventually refuse to talk
about the issue anymore.
A closer look at Fred's attachment filter reveals, in part,
how and why he processed these interactions as he did. Fred's
attachment filter was a version of the preoccupied filter. His father
died when he was very young, and his mother was angry and vacillated
between neglect and abuse. At times Fred was left on his own to figure
life out even when he was quite young, and at other times, his mother
would verbally attack him with tremendous hostility. As a result, Fred
developed an attachment filter of himself as being bad and unworthy of
care, and an implicit expectation of others as being highly critical of
him. On many occasions he said to me: "One thing I've learned
in life is that the only person who is going to take care of Fred is
Fred." Fred expected this from Bonnie, not consciously, but this
filter automatically biased him to experience this in his interactions
with her.
When an experience gets processed through our attachment filters,
it produces an implicit emotional meaning. When Bonnie would withdraw or
disagree with Fred, an emotional response would be activated along with
associated components such as sensory and visceral experiences,
physiological arousal, tendencies to act in certain ways, and gut level
memories with a similar feeling. These sensations are very difficult to
express in words.
The first step in the process of connecting these experiences to
words is that our right brains chunk information into categories that
have similar emotional meanings (Bucci, 1997). Fred's filters
chunked his physiological arousal and input from facial expressions into
the emotional meaning of rejection, and of himself as being bad and not
worthy of love. This emotional meaning was then represented in his right
brain as an image that has the structure of a typical episode of needs,
desires and actions related to them that lead to a complex sequence of
interactions that are expected to occur--that is, as a story. Thus,
Fred's gut level sense of badness and rejection gets processed into
an image that has the structure of a story in which he tries to connect
with someone close, and the other rejects him by either withdrawing or
showing hostility. This is Fred's between-the-lines story.
If Fred wants to communicate this emotional meaning to me in
therapy (or to anyone else) an important way to do this is to describe
an episode in which the emotional meaning was activated. Stories about
our relationships can be viewed as metaphors of the emotional meanings
associated with our attachment filters (Bucci, 1997). When we verbally
tell our stories about our experiences in relationships, it is the
closest we can come--through a translation process--to communicating the
emotional meanings of our attachment filters in words.
The Knowledge Spiral: Phases in Storying Our Spirituality
Ideally, processing does not stop with linking implicit relational
knowledge with explicit, verbal knowledge. Rather, processing continues
in a spiral-like back-and-forth fashion, leading to a continuously
deepening progression in both ways of knowing. This knowledge spiral
operates in parallel in clients and therapists. This is the process we
go through in linking our own implicit and explicit relational knowing
in order to facilitate our clients storying their unthought knowns about
God and everything else.
This knowledge spiral has fascinating parallels in creative
scientific work and in the arts (Bucci, 1997). Four phases have been
identified in the process of discovery: preparation, incubation,
illumination, and reflection/interpretation. These phases overlap and
the boundaries between them are fuzzy, much like they are in the
underlying process involved in storying our clients' spirituality.
In general, preparation in the process of scientific-discovery is
the ongoing, lifelong acquisition of knowledge through which a person
develops expertise in his or her field. The specific preparation to
solve a particular problem requires the scientist to
"back-translate" the problem from the explicit knowledge
system to an implicit way of knowing. The scientist hears the problem in
its verbal form, which is processed by the top-left circuits of the
brain. She then begins to meditate on the problem in a scientific mode
in the "back of her mind" so to speak, which is the
bottom-right brain circuits. She may work actively on the problem for
awhile, and then feel like she is getting nowhere, "stumbling around in the dark." This is what it feels like to work in the
implicit system of knowing. You search without any clear direction and
without categories that have been defined.
For the psychotherapist, preparation involves the lifelong process
of acquiring knowledge, both implicit and explicit, about human nature,
psychodynamics, and change processes. A specific client then comes in
and articulates a specific problem or set of problems. The therapist
then "back-translates" a problem into implicit knowledge. This
involves the explicit context of the problem, but more importantly, it
involves tuning in to one's implicit sense of one's experience
of the client. The therapist translates this into her gut level system
by reflecting on, and narrating the issue.
For the client and therapist alike, preparation involves the
gradual process of opening oneself up to the other. The client becomes
attached to a therapist who ideally provides a safe haven for exploring
her internal world with respect to God and others. The therapeutic
relationship becomes the context in which deeper aspects of her internal
world will be illuminated. A critical aspect that paves the way for this
is the therapist opening herself up to being impacted by her client.
The preparation phase flows fluidly into the incubation phase. The
scientist's implicit processing occurs predominantly outside of
awareness and without intentional control in the incubation phase. The
person often times turns their attention away from the problem, but once
the implicit processing system of the right brain has been prepared and
activated, it continues to work on the problem. It follows its own leads
and connections, which the scientist is not aware of, and cannot
consciously follow. Scientific breakthroughs often happen after turning
away from a problem. In addition, these types of insights involve
relationships between questions and concepts that at first seemed
entirely unrelated. In other words, these are not logical, linear
connections that can be made in the explicit knowledge system. The
implicit processing system makes its own connections and builds new
dimensions and categories while the problem incubates.
There are clear parallels in the incubation phase among scientists
for how we intervene as therapists. This is where we process our
clients' relational dynamics outside of awareness, according to the
parameters of our implicit processing system, the rules of which cannot
be identified (Bucci, 1997). Moreover, therapeutic breakthroughs often
come to us when we turn away from the clinical issue at hand. When we
are not consciously thinking about it, the words or a metaphor to
articulate a client's experience will suddenly come to us. For the
client, as Sorenson (2004) noted, incubation occurs not only between
sessions, but sometimes while we are making that brilliant intervention
we think is going to cause a major transformation: "Recently I
offered what I thought was a useful insight for a patient. When I had
finished speaking, she paused, looked off to the side with a thoughtful
look in her eye, and confessed, 'All kinds of interesting things
occurred to me while you were talking.' ... I sometimes bemusedly
tell myself that my patients seem to do some of their best work while I
am talking because, in these moments, they are often only half listening
to me" (p. 12).
Likewise, incubation is a crucial phase in the spiritual
transformation process with respect to clients' implicit knowledge
of themselves, God and others. This is the beginning of bottom-up
integration, in which implicit experiences are in a nonverbal form
outside of awareness, and eventually become articulated in a conscious,
verbal form in a later phase. In the incubation phase, a clients'
implicit processing system processes their relational experiences and
filters--their sense of connection to God, their gut level expectations
of God and others, and their most deeply held beliefs and values that
motivate what they strive to do on a daily basis. The rules that govern
this processing are not known, and all this happens behind the scenes,
outside of our awareness. It is the place where clients form new
connections about the meaning of their experiences, about who they are
with and to God and others. It is the place where new story lines are
developed. Incubation at some point morphs into the next phase:
illumination.
In illumination, the connections that are being forged in the
incubation phase make themselves known, as if coming from the outside.
Poincare, a mathematician, stated of one of his breakthroughs: "At
the moment when I put my foot on the step, the idea came to me, without
anything in my former thoughts seeming to have paved the way for it
..." (as cited in Bucci, 1997). Illumination is experienced by the
scientist as coming from an external source, but it comes from the
implicit processing system. However, a lot of ground work in the
preparation and incubation phases has prepared the way for illumination,
or turning points, that involve new ways of seeing a problem. When these
new connections hit the scientist's awareness, this is the point at
which the implicit processing is connected to the explicit, verbal
knowledge system (bottom up integration).
For the therapist, illumination is the moment when a previously
implicit sense of a client's struggle or experience crystallizes in
words or images. This may bring an entirely new way of viewing a
client's struggle, and will typically be experienced as if coming
from outside of oneself. Understanding how these processes work can help
therapists to trust these implicit intuitions more readily.
In the context of transforming clients' attachment filters and
capacity to love, illumination is the turning point in which new gut
level meanings about themselves, God and others (attachment filters),
are crystallized. New story lines begin to take shape in our
clients' awareness. This is what changes the very structure of
their soul, and transforms how they relate to God and others. These new
meanings may have been around awhile in a more fuzzy way, but now they
come into a more clear focus in their conscious awareness. A new
awareness might start off as an image, or a picture, but the images have
stories embedded within them. This then leads into the next phase of
reflection and interpretation.
In the reflection and interpretation phase, the scientist
capitalizes on her new awareness by interacting with it using her
conscious, analytic (explicit) knowledge. This happens primarily within
awareness. When she does this, it brings more precision to the new gut
level breakthrough. She can now hold this new awareness in her
mind's eye (analytic knowledge) as it were, and manipulate it,
communicate it to others, look at it from different angles, examine its
relationships with other concepts, and sharpen its boundaries.
In our clients' spiritual transformation process, likewise, we
capitalize on the implicit processing that has incubated, and led to an
illumination, or turning point, regarding their gut level meanings. We
do this by helping our clients translate their new gut level experiences
into words, concepts, and ultimately a new story line in their
relationship with God. We, and our clients, give shape and form to the
illuminations, which allows them to tell new stories to God and others,
and gives them more access to the gut level meanings within themselves.
The very process of translation transforms their gut level meanings by
connecting them to a larger network of implicit relational meanings that
constitute an ongoing story.
A case example will help illustrate the knowledge spiral in minding
our clients' spirituality. I had been seeing a client I will call
Kevin for several years when he began to withdraw from his relationship
with God, and gradually ceased involvement in his spiritual community.
At first he was unaware of the meaning of this behavior, and he avoided
discussing it with me. When we did process the issue, Kevin felt
extremely sad and became aware of a sense of abandonment by God. This
experience of abandonment was operating in his gut level knowledge and
is what led to his withdrawal from God and church. It was an unthought
known--a primary emotional experience for which he had no words and
little awareness. The determination of the meaning of this gut level
experience was heavily influenced by his preoccupied attachment filter,
which was based on the unique combination of his own needs, and years of
experiences of his primary caregivers as inconsistent and abandoning.
This gut level experience was driving his attachment filter, and in
turn, his pattern of relationship with God.
The general preparation phase involved the attachment we had
developed over several years of exploring his experiences--him telling
me his story and the two of us beginning to share his story. The story
of our work together became intricately intertwined with all the
sub-plots of his life. These specific experiences incubated as we
discussed them over several months. Part of the incubation process was
new experiences with me of being genuinely interested in his emotional
experiences. No breakthroughs happened right away, but new connections
were being made behind the scenes as we discussed this, and as we turned
away to other topics on occasion. Over time, these incubating
connections led to a vague sense of abandonment by God, consciously
linked at one level to a series of recent emotional wounds in close
relationships. He was not yet able to tell this story with words.
Around the same time, Kevin became increasingly guarded with me. At
first, I felt something had changed, but I was not sure what it was. I
let this incubate in the background for a period of time. After a number
of weeks of this guardedness with me, and hearing more about his sense
of rejection in several relationships, illumination struck. I told Kevin
that I sensed that he felt all his important relationships were
"close" on one level, and yet "not close" on another
level at the very same time. I commented that I thought this was very
confusing for him. This articulated for him a deep experience of himself
and his relationships that he had never been able to express in words.
The crystallization of this profound meaning into words brought home the
power of this deeply painful feeling, evident in the immediate sadness
Kevin experienced at this comment. Illumination had occurred for both of
us. This was a shared intersubjective experience of grasping something
that permeated his experience of himself in the context of emotionally
significant relationships--something that helped make sense of his life.
As important as this insight was, I believe that Kevin's sense of
our sharing this new turn on the therapeutic road was equally important.
This experience caused a significant shift in breaking the
"close-not close" mold in our relationship. Kevin was
beginning to experience a relationship with me that did not have a
fundamental disconnect between superficial externals and his sense of
feeling known on the inside. This, I believe, paved the way for a
different kind of relationship with God that would come quite a bit
later.
Shortly after this, Kevin reported several images that seemed to
capture further illumination that was occurring behind the scenes. He
told me he saw himself wandering aimlessly in the desert. Around the
same time, he had another image of himself drowning with no one around
to save him. These images were both disturbing and revealing to Kevin.
His gut level processing had led to new connections about how he felt
about himself at a deep level. He felt abandoned by God and others in
his life, alone, and not worthy of others caring and sticking around.
Prior to this, he had not consciously realized this feeling about
himself and God. It was just a vague, floating sense of
discomfort--background noise in his life that caused him to keep a
certain distance from God and some of his friends. Because it was vague
and the story was outside his conscious awareness, it was difficult to
change the story line. It just floated around in background in an
unstable state of potential activation. His gut level sense of
abandonment would become activated at times without his knowing the
story from which the increased discomfort was coming.
As we processed the issues further, Kevin reflected and interpreted
these experiences with my help. During this time period, I suggested to
Kevin that he had become more guarded with me, understandably, because
he was afraid I would leave. Furthermore, I suggested that he expected
everyone to eventually leave. He responded by saying "people only
care about me for a season." I said "Yes, and why would it be
any different with me? I can understand why getting too close is
scary." He was gradually able to put words to his gut level
experiences, further articulating the meaning of his sense of
abandonment by God and others. The experience of abandonment and
subsequent withdrawal from God were in response to a series of perceived
rejections of his need for reassurance and comfort in close
relationships after he demanded that they be met. However, this filter
also reflected his gut level sense of how relationships work--that
eventually people leave, emotionally if not physically. He became more
aware of this story that ran through every thread of his life. I
remember numerous occasions in which Kevin reported "ah ha"
experiences of seeing the themes we had been talking about in multiple
aspects of his life. He started to be able to tell this story in words.
The very nature of this knowledge spiral of linking his gut level
experiences to words and a story, transformed the experience by
simultaneously providing more access to the experience within himself,
and by bringing it into relationship with me, and eventually God and
others. Over the next year, the patterns of his relationships with me,
his family, his co-workers, and his romantic relationships changed
substantially. This period represented a major turning point of growth
in his journey.
Reflective Spiritual Functioning
As this case example illustrates, this knowledge spiral, or
referential process, in which implicit and explicit knowledge about our
sense of self each refer to the other, is critical for both client and
therapist in revising the spiritual stories by which our clients live.
For the client, this is the process that undergirds the transformation
of their implicit sense of themselves in relation to God, as well as
others. A safe haven in the therapeutic relationship provides the
relational environment for clients to capture their gut level sense of
"how to be with" God and others in a more explicit dimension.
The very act of making implicit relational knowledge explicit--of
telling their story in words--transforms it. Furthermore, this linkage between the implicit and explicit facilitates a more full and coherent
communication, and more secure between-the-lines story in the
therapeutic relationship. This produces what Siegel (1999) refers to as
"contingent communication" in which clients "feel
felt" or seen by the therapist. This is a form of communication in
which there is a resonance that "means more than we can say"
to use Bruner's (1990) terminology.
For the therapist, fostering such contingent communication with our
clients is also the result of this knowledge spiral involved in the
referential process. It is the process by which the therapist tunes into
her implicit sense of the client's experience, including spiritual
experience, and translates this into words, images and metaphors for the
client. It is also the process by which the therapist translates a sense
of what the client needs at any given moment into emotional and verbal
communication. Contingent communication promotes what Fonagy et al.
(1995) have called "reflective self-functioning" in clients.
This derives from William James' (1890) usage of the term
"reflective" to describe the developmental achievement in
which the mental state of an individual becomes a subject of thought. In
other words, the individual is able to observe and reflect on her own
and others' mental states about attachment-related issues.
Reflective self-functioning seems to explain part of how attachment
security is passed down intergenerationally. Fonagy and his colleagues
(1995) found evidence that it buffers the negative effects of
deprivation and high stress among mothers on the attachment security of
their children. It thus seems to reduce the likelihood of insecure
attachment being passed down intergenerationally. Moreover, there
appears to be a reciprocal relationship here--secure attachment seems to
be an important precursor to the development of reflective
self-functioning in children. A "secure base" in the
attachment relationship allows the child to explore the minds of her
caregivers, which facilitates the development of an appreciation of
mental states. There are clear parallels in the context of the
therapeutic relationship. As therapists provide a secure attachment
relationship, this fosters the development of reflective
self-functioning in their clients. This in turn helps them appreciate
and process their own and others' experiences.
Reflective self-functioning bears resemblance to James
Fowler's fourth stage of faith development
(Individuative-Reflective), in which one becomes aware that one has a
worldview, and is able to step outside of it and interact with it
(Fowler, 1981). Similarly, reflective self-functioning allows an
individual to recognize that he and others have mental states that are
not identical to "the way things are." It is a form of
epistemological humility in the realm of interpersonal relationships.
Reflective self-functioning allows me to take my mental states about
attachment as objects of scrutiny to be processed, analyzed,
constructed, and reconstructed. It puts a wedge, as it were, between my
subjective experience of myself and my mental states.
This reflective capacity requires a secure attachment relationship
to be fully developed, and has enormous implications for relational and
spiritual development. In the context of spirituality, this fosters what
we might think of as "reflective spiritual functioning."
Lacking this reflective capacity will make it difficult for clients to
take their subjective experiences of God as an object of scrutiny in
order to process them. In other words, it will make it difficult to tell
and enact new stories about their spirituality. Helping our clients
become secure enough to appreciate all their "spiritual"
experiences (which could be viewed as all encompassing, but certainly
including their direct experiences of God through Scripture, prayer,
etc) as something they have; something they can hold in order to
process, analyze, construct, and reconstruct, may be one of the most
important things we can do to mind our clients' spirituality--both
in the sense of attending to moments of transition between different
levels of experience, and of cultivating it (Sorenson, 2004). Randy
(Sorenson, 2004) encouraged us to "... take an interest in our
patients' spirituality that is respectful but not diffident,
curious but not reductionistic, welcoming but not indoctrinating"
(p. 1). As we heed his words, we will model for our clients a way they
can begin to approach their own spirituality, thereby creating new
spiritual stories to live by.
CONCLUSION
As relational branches of psychoanalysis and attachment theory
increasingly converge, a common metapsychology is beginning to emerge.
This metapsychology may be captured by a theory of implicit relational
meaning that distinguishes between implicit and explicit forms of
knowing. The implicit relational meaning of our sense of
self-in-relation is carried in individuals' attachment-related
stories; that is, in the emotional communication of the
"between-the-lines" stories. Clients both tell their stories
in words, and enact the spiritual stories by which they live. Helping
them transform these implicit spiritual stories involves a spiral-like
back and forth process of linking implicit and explicit knowledge for
both client and therapist alike.
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AUTHOR
HALL, TODD. Address: 13800 Biola Ave, La Mirada, California, 90639.
Title: Associate Professor of Psychology; Editor, Journal of Psychology
and Theology; Director, Institute for Research on Psychology and
Spirituality. Degrees: Ph.D., M.A., Rosemead School of Psychology, Biola
University; M.A., Doctoral specialization, University of California, Los
Angeles; B.A., Biola University. Specializations: Spiritual Development,
Attachment theory, Relational Psychoanalysis.
TODD W. HALL
Rosemead School of Psychology
Biola University
Correspondence concerning this issue may be sent to Todd W. Hall,
PhD, Rosemead School of Psychology, Biola University, 13800 Biola Ave,
La Mirada, California, 90639.