Spiritual direction: meaning, purpose, and implications for mental health professionals.
Moon, Gary W.
This article introduces the first of two special issues on
spiritual direction and mental health. Attention is given to providing a
broad understanding of the meaning, purpose, and scope of spiritual
direction, and discussing factors concerning resistance to spiritual
transformation. It then explores: the diversity of roles assumed by
spiritual guides and directors; contemporary contrasts between spiritual
direction and psychotherapy; and critical issues concerning the
integration of spiritual concepts and practices into the process of
counseling and psychotherapy. It is asserted that the present climate of
increased dialogue between soul care practitioners provides
unprecedented opportunity for the enhancement of understanding
concerning the process of spiritual transformation and its implications
for the mission of both church and clinic.
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Carolyn Gratton (2000) uses the following story in introducing her
book, The Art of Spiritual Guidance. It's about a wise fish.
It seems that there once were some fish who spent their days
swimming around in search of water. Anxiously looking for their
destination, they shared their worries and confusion with each other as
they swam. One day they met a wise fish and asked him the question that
had preoccupied them for so long: "Where is the sea?" The wise
fish answered: "If you stop swimming so busily and struggling so
anxiously, you would discover that you are already in the sea. You need
look no further than where you already are." (p. 5)
For Gratton, the wise fish represents a spiritual director--or that
deepest part of a human being--that is in touch with the omnipresence of
God. The search is for life in his kingdom; hurry is the devil.
Cultivating an awareness of God's transforming presence as
foundational for spiritual direction is a common theme in the literature
of devotional theology. In the words of Richard Rohr (1999), "My
starting point [for prayer as part of spiritual guidance] is that
we're already there. We cannot attain the presence of God.
We're already totally in the presence of God. What's absent is
awareness" (p. 28).
These images provided by Gratton and Rohr bring to mind the mission
of the ultimate spiritual director, Jesus, and his advice to all who
would listen: [Crudely paraphrased] Slow down, be at peace, listen to my
words, and you will become aware that the no swimming sign has been
removed from the "springs of living water" (see Matthew
6:25-34; John 4:14, 10:10, & 14:27).
The profundity of the simple notion of learning how to experience
the presence of God was recently highlighted for me while participating
in a roundtable discussion on the topic of Christian spiritual
formation. Each person present had two things in common: a long history
of involvement in the evangelical world, and a recent, personal
captivation by the process of spiritual formation.
The juxtaposition of these two common factors should not be missed.
These were long--term, card-carrying members of evangelicalism who had
spent their lifetimes in Christian study and service. But only recently,
it seemed, had each enrolled in Christianity 101--ongoing enjoyment of
the love and presence of God.
Toward the end of our time together, one of the group members mused
the following, which seems an appropriate summary to that discussion and
an introduction to this one. "Could it be that it [the process of
spiritual formation] is simply becoming aware that God is everywhere and
then learning how to be with him--in the presence of divine love?"
Several heads nodded "yes." None "No."
I'm not picking on Evangelicals; Catholic or Orthodox
Christians--I believe--could have just as easily encircled the table.
The point is this; it seems that many in the Christian world have
recently reawakened to the truth that wearing the label,
"Christian," is not synonymous with experiencing the intimate,
moment-by-moment, relationship with God that souls were designed to
enjoy, and have begun to place hope in the practice of spiritual
direction as a methodology for finding the way to more abundant living.
Across denominational barriers, there seems to be a tidal wave of
interest in learning how to experience intimate friendship with God and
a chorus line of those singing the praises of "wise fish"
(spiritual friends, guides, and directors) who have pointed out what is
so easily missed.
To understand the process of Christian spiritual formation does not
seem difficult--at least not at a broad-brush level. Concisely put, it
involves an experiential awareness of God's presence that leads to
conversation, communion, and ultimately authentic transformation of the
entire person by an internal yielding to His will. What is difficult to
grasp, however, is why it is so easy to miss experiencing the ocean of
Divine love for all the water.
Merton (1960) provides indirect hope by reminding that it has not
always been this way. Spiritual direction (aimed at authentic
transformation through interaction with God) was originally basic and
normal to church life. "The individual member of the community was
'formed' or 'guided' by his participation in the
life of the community, and such instruction as was needed was given
first of all by the bishop and presbyters, and then through informal
admonitions by one's parent's spouse, friends, and fellow
Christians" (Merton, 1960, p. 12).
If authentic transformation--becoming like Jesus--was once part of
normal Christian living, what happened? If "holiness" for John
Wesley meant being consumed by--and transformed into--the love of God,
how did that term ever come to connote staying away from beer and chew
and dates who do? Why do the words of Dallas Willard (1998) ring true
for so many? "The current gospel then becomes a 'gospel of sin
management.' Transformation of life and character is no part of the
redemptive message. Moment-to-moment human reality in its depths is not
the arena of faith and eternal living" (Willard, 1998, p. 41). And
why does the modem integration movement--dedicated to the pursuit of
wholeness and holiness--now seem as captivated by the life-change
possibilities thought to be present in the ancient practice of spiritual
direction as with the modem wisdom of applied psychology?
We will turn our attention to these questions as we examine: the
meaning and purpose of spiritual direction; the process of spiritual
direction; the role of the spiritual director; how spiritual guidance is
similar and different from psychotherapy; training and other critical
issues associated with attempts to integrate spiritual direction and
psychotherapy.
MEANING AND PURPOSE OF SPIRITUAL DIRECTION
At the heart of spiritual formation, I believe, is becoming aware
that God is everywhere, and learning to practice his presence and yield
to his transforming grace. Yet, the actualization of this discovery
often is illusive? Perhaps this is, at least in some measure--because
the resistance of self-sufficiency stains the fabric of the fallen soul.
Three specific avenues of resistance to authentic spiritual
transformation are proposed below as off-ramps from the process of
authentic transformation. We will examine each as we simultaneously work
toward understanding the meaning and purpose of spiritual direction.
It is Easy to Forget Who We Are
According to Gratton (2000), ever since the Fall, we human beings
have shown a striking tendency to forget who we really are. We were
designed to live in a place, Eden, which literally means
"pleasure" or "delight." We were created to thrive
in loving relationships with God and each other. Life was meant to be
full and abundant, interactions authentic, and the fruit of God's
spirit the fabric of our character. The only requirement for keeping the
party going is to trust that God had our best interests at heart. To
allow him to be God and us "not God."
But after the Fall, human beings have tended to show profound
memory loss--about how life was supposed to be lived--and, instead have
developed a "false self," a counterfeit of the deeply buried
image of God (of Christ-form). It is the "false self" that
typically sits behind the control panel of a person's
life--preferring the management of religion to the mystery of
spirituality. As Thomas Merton (1961) suggests, the core of this false
way of living is always a sinful refusal to surrender to God's
will. The "true self, and it's desire to live in transforming
friendship with God, remains buried in the depths of our souls"
(Gratton, p. 67).
Yielding to authentic transformation is difficult because it is
easy--to make the same choice as Adam and Eve--to choose to be God and
consequently to live out of a false identity. Having let go of God,
false attachments--what we have, do, and control--become seductive and
the illusion of our divinity becomes strong. In the words of Leo Tolstoy, "all men of the modern world exist in a continual and
flagrant antagonism between their consciences and their way of
life" (1936, p. 136).
Christian spiritual formation involves awaking from the dream that
we are God and remembering our true identity--our
"beloved-of-God-in-Christ" identity and then saying yes to the
pain associated with the mortification of our false self. Dethroning the
false self is a pillar of spiritual direction--and a primary cause for
business and anxious "swimming" that distracts from the
process of enjoying the "water."
Union with God is a Scary Proposal
Arguably, the most quoted modern definition of spiritual direction
is provided by Barry and Connolly (1982).
We define Christian spiritual direction as help given by one
Christian to another which enables that person to pay attention to
God's personal communication to him or her, to respond to this
personally communicating God, to grow in intimacy with this God, and to
live out the consequences of the relationship. The focus of this type of
spiritual direction is on experience, not ideas, and specifically on
religious experience, i.e., any experience of the mysterious Other whom
we call God. (p. 8)
This definition is important because of both its simplicity and
breadth. Spiritual direction here is grounded in the experiences
associated with the development of an intimate relationship with God.
Conversing with an invisible friend, if you will, until we become just
like him.
As with any "romantic" involvement, developing a
relationship with God requires lots of time: For conversation,
communion, and--in the unique situations of marriage and intimacy with
God--union. Barry and Connolly (1982) place relationship at the heart of
their definition of spiritual direction. And by "relationship with
God" they mean something that is, established by the creation of
the human person and exists even when the person is unaware of its
existence" (p. 32). They expand on this theme by casting spiritual
direction as "an interpersonal process in which two people work
together toward the goal of a deeper, more explicitly intimate and
mutual relationship with God" (p. 155).
To be alive is to be in relationship with God and in the process of
spiritual formation. Each is unavoidable given breath and consciousness.
But all formation is not good formation and all relationships do not
lead to transforming friendship.
The possibility of one (the directee) walking the path of
expetiential relationship with God is always before the mind of a
discerning director. As Merton (1960) reminds, at its root meaning,
spiritual direction is a "continuous process of formation and
guidance, in which a Christian is led and encouraged in his special
vocation, so that by faithful correspondence to the graces of the Holy
Spirit he may attain to the particular end of his vocation and to union
with God" (p. 13).
For some Protestants, this notion of developing intimacy with God
that crescendos in union may be as unsettling as a Mother's Day
sermon taken from the Song of Solomon. But it is at the heart of
spiritual direction. Again in the words of Merton: "This union with
God signifies not only the vision of God in heaven but, as Cassian
specifies, that perfect purity of heart which, even on earth,
constitutes sanctity and attains to an obscure experience of heavenly
things" (1960, p. 13). It also goes to the heart of the words of
Jesus in his commencement address to his disciples, when he prayed for
them saying: "Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May
they also be in us, so that the world may believe that you have sent
me" (John 17:20b-21, NIV).
Dallas Willard (1999) has these poetic words to say about the
development of this type of intimate relationship with God.
So our union with God--his presence with us, in which our aloneness
is banished and the meaning and full purpose of human existence is
realized--consists chiefly in a conversational relationship with God
while each are consistently and deeply engaged as his friend and
co-laborer in the affairs of the kingdom of the heavens. The process of
having a personal relationship with God becomes a concrete and common
sense reality rather than a nervous whistling in the dark. (p. 56)
The pursuit of union with God is a major onramp to the process of
spiritual direction. But it can also be a crowded exit. Union with the
almighty, all-seeing God is a death-nail threat to the sense of wanting
to control life and have autonomous existence. It defines both the
ultimate goal of spiritual formation and much of the reasons for its
resistance.
A House Divided
We have stated that spiritual direction involves remembering who we
are and then choosing to enter into a relationship with God that leads
to union of the entire being with his being. But another factor is
important in understanding spiritual formation and the avoidance of this
process. Many schools of both psychology and theology have focused their
attention on one or more of the component parts of the person and have
subsequently lost a vision for a holistic understanding. This is more
than unfortunate as authentic transformation involves the whole person.
As Barry and Connolly (1982) have observed, "inviting God to
communicate with us in prayer and trying to respond to him in prayer
tend to involve all of our selves. Feeling, mood, thought, desire, hope,
will, bodily gestures and attitudes, activity, and direction of
life" (p. 41). Spiritual direction must involve the whole person.
In his latest book, Renovation of the Heart: Putting on the
Character of Christ, Dallas Willard (2002) devotes considerable energy
to describing various components of human beings and how change
(Christian spiritual formation) takes place.
In figure 1 we see that Dallas posits six basic and inseparable aspects in human life: thought (images, concepts, judgments), feeling
(sensation, emotion), choice (will, decision, character), body (action),
social context (relation to God and others), and soul (the factor that
integrates all of the dimensions to form one life). He goes on to
describe Christian spiritual formation as allowing the word and Spirit
of Christ to enter into the depths of one's being and begins to
transform each component of the human being to Christlikeness--under the
direction of a regenerate will and with constant overtures of grace from
God (Willard, 2002). Willard acknowledges that such transformation is
not the result of mere human effort and cannot be accomplished by direct
human effort. It is a matter of cooperating with grace and desiring to
have Jesus live his life through me.
Willard's (2002) input seems important for at least three
reasons: his description of the person, his description of the process
of spiritual formation, and his holistic view of the self--which may
help in identifying another factor (the tendency to compartmentalize the
person) which may cause spiritual formation to be illusive.
In examining Willard's (2002) model of the person,
reader's of this journal may be tempted to reflect on the history
of psychology as being--until recently--more focused on specific
components of the person than the entirety. The ancient parable of six
blind men encountering an elephant quickly comes to mind. In the field
of psychology, the past several decades have witnessed a jockeying for
preeminence by various psychologies, each devoted to one of
Willard's different dimensions of the person (e.g., behavior,
cognition, relationship, etc.) each attempting to explain changes in
emotion.
Until recently--but continuing for some venues of thought--attempts
have been made to understand the complex human being by her singular
dimensions. And while some schools have posited deeper levels of
explanations for actions and reactions, the absence of the concept of a
unifying soul has left the field of psychology very compartmentalized.
Spiritual direction--with its soul talk and holistic view of the
person--is seen by many as a refreshing alternative to the
compartmentalization posited by modern psychology. As Thomas Merton
expresses it, "You don't go to a spiritual director to take
care of your spirit the way you to a dentist to have him take care of
your teeth. The spiritual director is concerned with the whole
person" (1960, p. 14).
But the history of psychology mirrors the difficulty a person may
find in being able to raise the microscope high enough to get the big
picture--which, according to Willard, is necessary if we are to gain a
vantage point that will allow us to view the person in its interactive
entirety. Authentic transformation, it follows, must involve the whole
person or it will be something other than authentic and less than
transforming.
THE PROCESS OF SPIRITUAL DIRECTION
Kallistos Ware (1993) tells the story of a fourth-century desert
father, St. Sarapion the Sindonite, who traveled on a pilgrimage to
Rome. Once there he was told of a respected recluse who spent all of her
time in a small room. Sarapion was skeptical of her way of life, because
of its contrast to his own approach that included much travel. He called
on her as asked: "'Why are you sitting here?" To this she
replied: "I'm not sitting, I am on a journey" (Ware,
1993, p. 7).
To be a Christian is to be on a journey--from the pigpen of
self-rule to the outstretched arms of a loving father. Not surprisingly,
one of the most ancient names for Christianity is simply "the
Way" (see Ware, 1993, P. 7; Acts 19:23). David Benner (2002) echoes
the benefit of using a journey motif to describe spiritual formation. In
his most recent book, Sacred Companions: The Gift of Spiritual
Friendship and Direction, Benner (2002) devotes his first chapter to
describing "The Transformational Journey" of Christ following.
He discusses spiritual guidance in terms of accompaniment on a voyage of
becoming.
It is possible that some Protestants have become so fascinated with
spiritual direction because of the partial loss of the richness and
texture in viewing Christian transformation as a journey. Even though
Reformers such as Calvin discussed three broad stages of the
journey--conversion, sanctification, and glorification--in practice it
seems that many modern Protestants are more likely to expect a microwave
(ultra-quick trip) instead of a crock pot (slow and simmering) approach
to transformation.
As Rogers (2002) observes, one of the most striking differences
between ancient and modem Christianity concerns the view of salvation.
"At the risk of oversimplification," he states,
"Protestants generally define salvation in legal, juridical, or
forensic terms. Christ's death pays the just penalty for man's
sin. We receive salvation (forgiveness of sins) by virtue of our faith
in His meritorious sacrifice on our behalf."
While not denying the sacrificial aspect of salvation, ancient
Christianity, Rogers suggests that it is better to view salvation as a
process of transformation and the fulfillment of the image of God in
humankind.
Perhaps it should not be surprising to hear Christians described as
"forgiven sinners," instead of as "beloved children of
God on a transformational journey that will lead to restoration of the
imago dei, and spiritual union." Nor is it startling that someone
whose identity is that of absolved reprobate might dance for joy at the
notion of being offered a personal invitation to live in union with God.
Three Stages
The journey motif for spiritual formation was adopted by both Roman
Catholic and Eastern Orthodox Christians and is conceived of as
including three stages: purgation, illumination, and union. These
movements will be briefly summarized below.
According to Benner (2002), purgation is the process by which
one's character is purified through confession of sin and a growing
detachment from worldly values. Using the imagery of Dallas
Willard's model of the person (see figure 1), foundational to
purgation is a metanoia, or a radical reorientation of all the
dimensions of the person (thoughts, emotions, will, behavior, social
interactions, and life of the soul) toward God. It is here the seeker
battles, along with the grace of God, against the passions and habit
patterns of sin within the human body and soul that corrupt human
nature.
In the imagery of the parable of the prodigal son, purgation
describes the stage of thinking things through again, leaving the pigs
and pig inclinations, to begin the journey back home.
Illumination refers to a deepening experience of the love, joy, and
peace of God along with a growing desire to surrender to the will to
God. It is characterized as a time of becoming dispassionate for all
things not God, and passionately attached to God and his kingdom. During
this stage conversations with God increase and begin to deepen into
communion and movement toward unceasing prayer/longings from the heart.
With reference to figure 1, illumination can be visualized as an
increasing interior surrender to the presence and passion of the
indwelling Spirit of Christ within each dimension of the person until
the person's character becomes a better mirror of Christ. For the
prodigal, illumination describes the time of staring into the eyes of
the father, realizing the extent of his boundless love, and then
becoming lost in his embrace.
The final stage of spiritual formation is union with God. This
state will not reach ultimate fruition until heaven. It is the stage of
complete interior surrender to the presence and will of God. As this
stage is approached there is nothing to distinguish the character of the
believer from that of Christ. The mystery of "Christ-in-me"
(see Colossians 1:26, 27) is realized as an interior surrender of all
components of the person--thought, emotion, will, behavior,
relationships, and soul functioning--is made to the transforming
presence of Christ. For the prodigal son, union would mean a full
re-entry into the family and taking on the mind of the father with such
a deep appreciation for his love that he has become pig-proofed for
life.
Willard describes the process of spiritual transformation as the
renovation of the human heart. He believes that "spiritual
formation for the Christian basically refers to the Spirit-driven
process of forming the inner world of the human self in such a way that
it becomes like the inner being of Christ himself" (2002, p. 22).
In so saying, Willard puts in digestible terms the classic notion of
union with God. In his words,
Our union with God--his presence with us, in which our aloneness is
banished and the meaning and full purpose of human existence is
realized--consists chiefly in a conversational relationship with God
while we are each consistently and deeply engaged as his friend and
co-laborer in the affairs of the kingdom of heavens. It is then that
having a personal relationship with God becomes a concrete and
commonsense reality rather than a nervous whistling in the dark.
(Willard, 1999, p. 56)
As the process of Christian spiritual formation reaches fruition
several things become evident: (a) The directee begins to awaken to her
true identity and with God's grace, dethrones the false self; (b)
conversation and communion with God increase and deepen into a sense of
spiritual union; (c) the various dimensions of the person become united
by the presence and love of the indwelling Christ. The truly important
thing, the common thread of spiritual formation, according to Thomas
Merton (1960), is the journey of surrender to the will of God and his
love.
THE ROLE OF THE SPIRITUAL DIRECTOR
It should not be surprising that much disparity exists when it
comes to describing the role of a spiritual director. This seems in many
ways analogous to examining the literature for descriptions of a
psychotherapist. It appears that it is desirable for both capable
counselors and spiritual directors to possess a cluster of personal
qualities that transcend both techniques and theoretical
orientation--while at the same time maintaining the skill to employ
sound technique when warranted.
It may be helpful in attempting to sort out the descriptions of an
ideal spiritual director, to consider two axes: level of authority and
orientation. (1) Let's begin with level of authority.
Spiritual directors who assume a low level of authority may he
described as a "trusted friend," or "God's
usher" who walk with directees as they attempt to find God's
path (Merton, 1960). The gift these "spiritual friends" give
is the gift of their self--hospitality, presence, and dialogue (Benner,
2002). Those who emphasize a low-authority position may shy away from the term "director" because of the high-authority implication
and either explain the unfortunate connotations of "director"
or instead, use descriptions such as "spiritual friend" or
"guide."
Others, such as Rogers (2002), while emphasizing the need for
compassion and relationship skills, take a position that the director
who is also in the role of priest, is ultimately in a position of high
authority. High authority descriptions are sensitive to the roles the
director may sometimes be called upon to perform, such as that of
confessor or soul physician.
The role played by a particular spiritual director will also be
influenced by orientation. As with the practice of psychotherapy, it may
be helpful to consider broad orientation categories such as: support
(accompaniment and friendship), teaching (instructive and focused on
classic devotion practices), or reconstructive (explicit focus on the
process of transformation), when considering the role of a spiritual
director. But even with these three orientations, when combined with a
continuum of different levels of assumed authority, present a broad
spectrum of possible roles a director may assume. Kallistos Ware (1990),
for example, discusses five such roles that are common in the practice
of spiritual direction. These are: doctor, counselor, intercessor,
mediator, and sponsor. For a more detailed treatment of these categories
see Rogers (2002).
While the specific role a spiritual director adopts in working with
a directee will certainly vary with the factors we have
discussed--assumed level of authority and specific orientation--other
parameters such as personality variables, relationship stages, and level
of training, are important in considering the nature and rich variety of
roles a spiritual director may assume in working with a directee.
Regardless of the aforementioned nuances, as a rule of thumb,
spiritual directors are: (a) committed to the journey of
transformation--including their own pilgrimage (Benner, 2002); (b) good
and kind listeners (Barry & Connolly, 1982); (c) dedicated to
helping another to recognize and follow the inspiration of grace in his
life (Merton, 1960); (d) moved by the mystery of God's transforming
love (Gratton, 2000); and (e) discovered by the community of
believers--rather than self-proclaimed--because of the un-worldly manner
in which they lead their lives (Barry & Connolly, 1982).
PSYCHOTHERAPY VERSUS SPIRITUAL DIRECTION
Are psychotherapy and spiritual direction different animals? In
contemporary practice the obvious answer is yes. I close my eyes and
observe what appear to be two distinctively different photo-albums of
associated images.
My pictures of spiritual direction include a drive to a nearby
monastery. I turn on to the grounds I drive down a long tree-lined
driveway. Often a monk wearing black and white walks by the road,
appearing lost in prayer. Prompted by speed bumps I slow the car and my
racing thoughts. My routine includes unpacking a few things in a small
cell that would make a room at the Motel 6 look like a suite. I walk to
the church and notice how much noise my leather shoes make on the stone
floor. I'm inspired by the lighting, stain glass mural, and smell
of candles. My thoughts become even slower, so slow that I may become
keenly aware of the ocean of God's presence that engulfs me. I
sense he wants to talk and that he's been anticipating our tine together. I become awake to how rare it is for me to think like this.
Later, I sit in a small room with an eighty-year-old monk who is
wearing a long robe and work boots. He says nothing and waits for me to
talk. I can say anything, but I sense he's only listening when my
sentences refer to God. He doesn't seem to care much about
"how I feel about this or that." His interest is more focused
on how I experience God when this or that happens. Our time ends when I
finish talking--sometimes 10 minutes, some times more than an hour.
Sometimes he slips me a pamphlet one of the monks has written on
contemplative or centering prayer. He seems confident God will finish
what he has begun in my life.
The experience of professional psychotherapy is very different and
brings to mind a contrasting pallet of images. Office buildings,
receptionists, waiting rooms, warmth with distance, forms, testing,
large desk, comfortable chairs, a prominent clock, more forms and
testing, specific questions, health questions, medical questions,
psychosocial history, techniques and conversation that flow seamlessly
together, problem oriented, solution focused, polished shoes, a
prominent clock, health insurance, super bills, six sessions, avert your
eyes when you see each other in checkout lines.
Spiritual direction and psychotherapy are not the same thing in
contemporary practice. But perhaps we should not lose sight of the fact
that psychotherapy means soul healing and the direction in spiritual
direction is toward union with God--and ostensibly, soul healing.
And there are things other than history and definition that muddy
the waters of distinction. What if a Christian client is seeing a
Christian psychotherapist and both view the goals of healing differently
than their non-Christian counterparts? What if, as Evan (1992) proposes,
it is legitimate to view the ultimate goal of therapy as building
Christian character. Or, as McMinn and McRay (1997) have stated,
"For the Christian psychotherapist, mental health cannot be defined
in a neutral or value-free way because the Christian faith implies a
definite view of what mental health is" (p. 103). You don't
have to wade in very far here before the water becomes both cloudy and
deep and the images of psychotherapy and spiritual direction begin to
bleed into each other.
Let's turn our attention to a couple of diagrams that may help
with this discussion. Each is used to both highlight differences and
points of intersection between psychotherapy and spiritual direction.
The Normal Curve
Figure 2 displays two normal curves--actually one is a bit abnormal
in that it is upside down. The normal curve labeled "world" is
presented to call to mind the typical task of a psychotherapist. By in
large, individuals seek a psychotherapist when some aspect of their
lives has become abnormal--away from the mean. Depression, anxiety,
anger, relationship problems, substance abuse, etc. is typically present
at abnormal levels of depth or duration. The task of the psychotherapist
is to employ generally accepted practices from applied psychology to
help the person journey toward the center of the normal curve.
Psychotherapy is about normal making.
Spiritual direction, however, is about abnormal making. For the
most part, spiritual directors work with individuals who are already
living close to the middle of the normal curve, but desire to become
abnormal-abnormally loving, peaceful, joyful, abnormally aware of God,
and his loving presence. In spiritual direction, the goal is to
accompany directees on a journey toward normal kingdom living-far from
the center of the world's normal curve.
This illustration is used to highlight an important distinction
between psychotherapy and spiritual direction, but it also underscores
obvious problems in attempting to make such simplistic separations.
Those experiencing abnormal levels of depression, anxiety, anger, etc.
are not automatically excluded from entering into the process of
spiritual direction; and it is becoming increasingly more common place
for psychotherapy to emphasize wellness or the "positive side"
of the normal curve.
The Matrix
Figure 3 is presented to aid in our discussion of psychotherapy and
spiritual direction. Others (Benner, 2002; Sperry, 2001; West, 2000)
have given comprehensive analysis to the distinctions between
psychotherapy and spiritual direction along a variety of dimensions-such
as clientele, goals, relationship, intervention strategies, use of
spiritual practices, etc. Figure 3 lowers the microscope to examine just
two points of comparison, goals, and techniques. As with Figure 2, it is
presented to highlight distinctions while simultaneously pointing to the
pitfalls of pushing such differences too far.
Cell 1 of figure 2 could be labeled "traditional
psychotherapy." Here techniques drawn from applied psychology are
employed to alleviate psychological distress--normal making. Until
recently the modern integration movement camped here. While the helping
process may have involved Christians trained as psychotherapists and
working with clients also holding a Christian worldview, the goal (most
typically) was normal making and the techniques (though sometimes based
with a sacred glaze) were taken from the field of applied psychology.
Cell 4 could be labeled spiritual direction. Here--within a
Christian context--theological goals (i.e., the formation of the life
and character of Christ within an individual through developing a
growing awareness of and surrender to His indwelling presence) are
pursued through the employment of theological "techniques"
(e.g., the teachings of Christ, application of spiritual listening,
wisdom, and a variety of Christian disciplines).
The distinctions between cells 1 and 4 seem pretty clean. But three
problems exist-cell 2, cell 3, and the fact that the human soul defies
being so easily compartmentalized.
In cell 3 the goal is labeled as psychological--to become less
depressed, anxious, or angry, for example. But, what if both the
therapist and client are Christians and it has been determined, in the
paraphrased words of McMinn and McCray (1997), "the problem goes
deeper than diagnosis?" What if it has been determined that the
best way for a particular client to become less depressed is for him to
come to experiential awareness of the loving presence of God? In this
scenario spiritual techniques (such as Christian guidance and
disciplines) are employed in the service of a psychological goal.
But what if for a particular individual, it is difficult to
effectively employ spiritual techniques because of past psychological
trauma? Perhaps the client was the victim of physical, emotional, or
sexual abuse by a parent and inadvertently the head of that parent has
been transferred to the shoulders of God. The prescription of practicing
God's presence is tantamount to prescribing hell. In this event it
may be important to employ psychological techniques (cognitive/imagery
restructuring) in the service of a spiritual goal (becoming more
comfortable in the presence of God). Cell 2 depicts this type of
intervention.
Simply stated, it appears that the modern integration movement is
becoming intrigued with cell 4 (classic spiritual direction) while
beginning to consider the appropriateness of dabbling outside the
boundaries of cell 1 (traditional psychotherapy). This appears to be
happening at the same time that unitive views of the person (as a
complex interplay of thoughts, emotions, behavior, will, relationships,
etc.) are being championed at the expense of previously championed
compartmentalized conceptions.
Conclusions: Psychotherapy Versus Spiritual Direction
According to Barry and Connolly (1982), "spiritual direction
differs from moral guidance, psychological counseling, and the practice
of confessional, preaching, or healing ministries (though having
affinities with them) in that it directly assists individuals in
developing and cultivating their personal relationship with God (p. ix).
But what they do not address is the notion that developing an
experiential relationship with God may be the best way to achieve
certain goals of professional counseling-given an appropriate alignment
of client/counselor factors.
Sperry (2001) provides a helpful distinction between spiritual
direction and non-spiritually-attuned psychotherapy while pointing to
the need for an intermediate category he calls "spiritually-attuned
psychotherapy and counseling." He contrasts these disciplines
across four variables: clientele, goals, relationship with the therapist
or director, and intervention methods.
Whereas, according to Sperry, traditional psychotherapists are
likely to employ "various psychotherapeutic interventions"
(intervention) in their work with "disordered clients or patients
with symptoms" (clientele) toward the end of "reducing
symptoms and/or impairment, personality change and/or fulfillment"
(goals); spiritual directors are more likely to use "listening,
instruction in prayer, and other spiritual practices"
(intervention) as they work with "relatively healthy spiritual
seekers" (clientele) in achieving "spiritual growth"
(goals). In Sperry's model, spiritually-attuned psychotherapists
are afforded much freedom and flexibility in the employment of
therapeutic goals and techniques.
Arguably, Benner (2002) provides the tightest summary in
distinguishing psychotherapy and spiritual direction. The most important
distinction is this: "counseling is problem centered, spiritual
direction is Spirit centered. The goal [in spiritual direction] is
growth in one's relationship to God--not resolution of
problems" (p. 88). But Benner also adds a category he calls
"spiritually sensitive psychotherapy" as a way of describing
the possibilities of integrating spiritual sensitivity and resources
into the process of appropriate professional practice as a
psychotherapist--dabbling outside the box while staying within the
bounds of professional practice.
The modern integration movement is pursuing avenues of explicit
integration to the cry of both voices of excitement and caution. Tan (in
press) does a commendable job of echoing both voices. Amid his review of
the calls for attention to professional ethics, he states,
Christian counseling or psychotherapy often aims at the ultimate
goal of facilitating the spiritual growth of clients, and not just the
alleviation of symptoms and resolution of problems. Integrating
spiritual direction, including the use of spiritual practices and other
religious resources, into psychotherapy is therefore often seen as an
integral part of such religiously oriented Christian counseling. (Tan,
in press)
CRITICAL ISSUES
Dialogue Versus Hostile Takeovers
The present level of dialogue in the Christian community among
those passionate about both psychotherapy and spiritual direction is
exciting. Each discipline brings ideas, images, and methodology that
could inform and strengthen the other. Hopefully the dialogue will
continue and grow in both width and depth and crescendo into mutual
enrichment. There is much each can add to the understanding of the
dynamics of the soul, the process of transformation, resistance to
transformation, and the mental health consequences of increased
spiritual vitality. But caution should be exercised to avoid importing
rich resources across disciplinary boundaries that are only nominally
understood, and perhaps incorrectly used. Lunch was a good idea until
McDonald's got involved. Hopefully, the modern and professionalized
practice of psychotherapy will not come to have the same overly
processed effect on spiritual direction.
Need for More Training Opportunities
The above caution is not intended to imply that Christian
psychotherapists should stay out of the arena of spiritual direction. I
believe Christian psychotherapists should practice medicine, if they are
first willing to go through medical school. For the dialogue between
psychotherapy and spiritual direction to deepen and center on issues of
bilingual praxis will require dramatically increased training
opportunities. It is noteworthy, however, that while Christian
psychotherapists frequently engage in spiritual practices with their
clients (Moon, Willis, Bailey, & Kwasny, 1993), training in the use
of spiritual practices are conspicuously absent from graduate training
programs (Moon, Bailey, Kwasny, & Willis, 1991). Graduate programs
will need to offer more formalized training opportunities in the
integration of spiritual formation into professional practice. As Benner
(2002) observes, "Both spiritually oriented psychotherapists and
spiritual directors should, therefore, be literate in both the
psychological and spiritual domains of inner life." This will add
years--not just courses--to current training models.
Ethical Guidelines
As Tan (in press) observes, since Christian counseling or
psychotherapy often aim at the ultimate goal of facilitating spiritual
growth--not just the alleviation of symptoms or problem
resolution--including the use of spiritual direction and other religious
resources into psychotherapy is often seen as an integral part of such
religiously oriented Christian counseling. However, he goes on to survey
the literature and summarize lists of ethical guidelines for the
application of spiritual practices in psychotherapy. Broad themes--that
echo those of Richards and Bergin (1997)--include avoiding: dual
relationships, displacing religious authority, imposing religious values
on clients, violating work-setting boundaries, and practicing outside
the boundaries of competence. Eck (in press) has lowered the microscope
to explore ethical considerations for the specific use of spiritual
disciplines in clinical practice. Among other recommendations, he
suggests that therapists should: employ the disciplines in a way that i
s consistent with and respectful for their religious intention, be
sensitive to issues of spiritual discernment, and work toward better
integration of spiritual disciplines into existing treatment models.
Growing commitment to guidelines for ethical practice is crucial if
Christian psychotherapists are to practice with integrity and
professionalism.
Empirical Demonstration of Efficacy
As McMinn and McRay (1997) observe, "There are at least two
ways that spiritual formation can contribute to the practice of
integration: by providing a means of growth and maturity for the
Christian therapist outside the consulting office, and through the
prudent application of spiritual disciplines in providing clinical
service to Christian clients" (p. 104; see also Tan, 1996). The
authors appropriately call for the science of psychology to do one of
the things it does best--begin to empirically validate the efficacy of
both the "internal" and "external" use of spiritual
formation practices in clinical service.
CONCLUSIONS
The purpose of this article was to introduce the first of two
special issues of this journal on spiritual direction and mental health.
Attention was given to exploring the meaning and scope of spiritual
direction, the process of Christian spiritual transformation--as well as
reasons for resistance, the diversity of roles assumed by spiritual
guides, contrasts between spiritual direction and psychotherapy, and
critical issues concerning this venue of integration. The intention is
to serve as a catalyst for future dialogue across disciplines and
denominations and to increase desire to explore the articles on
spiritual direction that follow in these two special issues of this
journal.
(1.) I am indebted to many conversations with Marty Goebring for
these categories. For more information see, Goehring, M. (1985).
Analysis of a model for assessing client therapeutic role preferences.
Unpublished doctoral dissertation. Fuller Theological Seminary.
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AUTHOR
MOON, GARY, W. Address: Psychological Studies Institute, 2055 Mount
Paran Road, NW, Atlanta, Georgia 30327. Title: Vice-President for
Spiritual Development and Professor of Psychology and Spirituality at
Psychological Studies Institute. Degrees: BA, MA, University of Georgia;
MDiv, Fuller Theological Seminary; PhD, Clinical Psychology, Fuller
Theological Seminary. Specializations: Clinical psychology, spiritual
formation.
Correspondence should be directed to Gary W. Moon, Ph.D.,
Psychological Studies Institute, 2055 Mount Paran Road, NW, Atlanta,
Georgia 30327. Email: gmoon@psy.edu