The Language of Abuse: Marital Violence in Later Medieval England.
Salisbury, Eve
The Language of Abuse: Marital Violence in Later Medieval England,
by Sara M. Butler. Leiden, Brill, 2007. xiv, 286 pp. $130.00 US (cloth).
Sara Butler's book contributes significantly to what we know
about marital violence in late medieval England. She broadens the scope
of the more typical ecclesiastical court assessments to include records
of manor and borough courts, the king's court, coroners'
rolls, gaol deliveries, confessors' manuals, and select works of
literary, visual, and dramatic art. She also narrows her focus to two
major regions--Yorkshire and Essex. As the title suggests, Butler
provides evidence of how the language of abuse, apparent in various ways
in these sources, tells us something about spousal relations and
prevailing attitudes toward marital discord. As she makes clear from the
beginning "medieval society left it to husbands to negotiate the
limits of force," rendering the term "chastisement"
subject to interpretation (p. 65). Often, the boundary between
correction and abuse was indicated by the use of a weapon and/or a
beating sufficiently violent to cause grave injury or death.
Neither the ecclesiastical establishment nor the laity deemed wife
beating to be an acceptable practice, however. Rather, the evidence
suggests a "widespread repugnance for marital violence and a
chivalrous desire to protect women from abuse; the coroners' rolls
demonstrate, however, that jurors thought only certain women deserved
protection" (p. 225). Women deemed worthy of protection exhibited
behaviours consistent with the stereotype of the "good"
wife--obedient, silent, uncritically supportive--while women at risk for
abuse and treated harshly by the courts were judged to be
"shrews" or "scolds." Not surprisingly, the phrase
"disobedient wife" is echoed frequently in the testimony of
guilty husbands to justify their abuse.
When disparities between an imagined nuptial ideal and the
realities of married life are acknowledged to be part of the social
fabric, satire and parody can never be very far behind. Depictions of
wives beating their husbands such as those carved into the misericords
of a number of English churches indicate recognition of the problem and
the comic relief often deployed to defuse its disruptive potential.
Representations such as these also function, Butler argues, to remind
husbands of the possibility of public humiliation: "[b]ecause it is
his [the husband's] responsibility to instruct his wife on
acceptable and moral conduct, her inability to act accordingly marks his
failure" (p. 60). A man who knew when and how much force to apply
in the discipline of his wife was expected to be "much happier in
his marriage" (ibid.).
The difference between actual life and artistic representation may
also be explained by comparing characters such as the Wife of Bath or
Uxor Noe with vocally aggressive "real world" women who could
find themselves on a cucking stool or fitted with a "scold's
bridle, an iron mask intended to still the tongue," for using
language in a similar way (p. 231). Such aggressive women, whether
imagined or actual, literally embodied the potential for domestic
rebellion both within the household and beyond. Butler's
contextualization of literary constructions of disobedient wives within
a "growing anxiety over social misbehaviours in fourteenth and
fifteenth century England, specifically concerning scolding women"
extends associations between marriage and the larger community and
underscores a perceived need for social control across the board (p.
228).
While representations of mundus inversus and the garrulous female
characters mentioned above suggest widespread acknowledgment of a vexing
social problem, the "modest number of documented cases of physical
abuse" from the two regions under investigation seem to indicate
otherwise. Of "233 cases in which a spouse was accused of conjugal
homicide 152 (or 65 percent) were alleged uxoricides" carried out
exclusively by the husband (p. 90). By way of contrast, the murder of a
husband was presumed to require an accomplice because "medieval
jurors found it difficult to imagine a wife capable of committing such a
monstrous crime without the guidance of others" (ibid.). And while
husband-killing could be considered petty treason (a more serious
felony), acquittal rates were high: "of the forty-nine cases of
husband-killing tried before royal justices in the courts of medieval
Yorkshire and Essex, thirty-two women were acquitted, fourteen burned,
two hanged, and another convicted (without any indication of the penalty
assigned)" (p. 91). Spousal homicide was an extreme response to
marital conflict, of course, and intervention from the community (kin,
friends, neighbours), according to Butler, did much to thwart the
escalation of violence before it reached this degree of intensity. As
Butler puts it, "with the abundance of options available to couples
and communities for the official and unofficial resolution of violent
marriages, couples may have found the causes of marital violence
eliminated before they had an opportunity to escalate to the point of
homicide" (p. 97).
Difficult as it appears to have been for a wife to defend herself
in the medieval courts, there is evidence to suggest that some women
were able to manipulate the system. Butler presents six case studies
(from the late fourteenth to early sixteenth centuries) that demonstrate
how battered wives argued against the grain (marital reconciliation),
offering instead "a view to retreating from marriage" (p.
168). Moreover, Butler's observations of a suspicious correlation
between the narratives told in court and popular hagiography suggests
that "plaintiffs might have embellished their tales of abuse"
(p. 177). Cecilia Wyvell, whose husband Henry beat her so severely that
he knocked her eye out of its socket, echoes the legend of St. Lucy, who
was said to have had her eyes ripped out by her torturers (or plucked
them out herself, in another version). Butler sees the blending of
testimony with hagiography and other narratives as significant acts of
female agency by women willing to "jeopardize their souls through
creative fabrication of some details" (p. 183).
There is much to be said to recommend this study. That Butler
explores the relation between the language of abuse and its
representation in the law and other genres in a carefully documented,
analytical way is laudable. That she writes energetically and fluently
while providing necessary legal backgrounds and case studies makes
reading this informative book a pleasure as well as a valuable
enterprise.
Eve Salisbury
Western Michigan University