Battling the Life and Death Forces of Sadomasochism; Clinical Perspectives.
Banbury, Samantha Anne ; Charlton, Megan
Battling the Life and Death Forces of Sadomasochism; Clinical
Perspectives
Harriet I. Basseches, Paula L. Ellman, and Nancy R. Goodman
CIPS series on the boundaries of psychoanalysis, KARNAC Books Ltd,
London, 2013, 294 pages. Paper Back. [pound sterling]26.99 (paperback)
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This book presents a beautifully descriptive psychoanalytic account
of the clinical boundaries and the life and death forces involved in
sadomasochism. The text eloquently examines four patient cases providing
detailed insight into the unconscious collision between transference and
countertransference forces. Transference refers to unconscious feelings
being directed from the patient to the therapist. Conversely,
counter-transference refers to the re-directed unconscious feelings from
the therapist to the patient (Etchegoyen, 2005; Freud, 1960; Kapelovitz,
1987). The authors are psychoanalysts from varying schools of thought
and collaboratively provide an illustrative and intuitive means of
guiding such driving forces involved in the therapeutic arena. The
authors refer to psychic sadomasochism, a term used to describe
sadomasochistic relationship images in the psyche which are enacted onto
others, including the analyst, within the therapeutic arena. The authors
stress that: "Most of these patients do not overtly enact sexual
sadomasochistic scenes" (Basseches, Ellman & Goodman, 2013, p.
5). Therefore, this does not refer to the consensual giving and/or
receiving of sexual pleasure in the context of enacting out pain and/or
erotic humiliation. The understanding of how the psychic sadomasochistic
communication unfolds during the analytic process has been acquired via
the authors' extensive clinical experience as presented in the
clinical case studies.
This book is part of the CIPS Book Series on the Boundaries of
Psychoanalysis. The book aims to expand the reader's understanding
of psychic sadomasochism by using varying theoretical perspectives
following each of the case examples; indeed, each of the presenting four
cases is followed by three case discussions. This is both an intriguing
and captivating means of drawing the reader into the fascinating world
of human pathology. Such patient descriptions prompt an array of
emotions and possibly even that of relatedness amongst readers. For
example: "The analysis seems impossible. In our study group we came
to identify as sadomasochism the hold these patients were having on us
and our analysing capacities. Each of us felt tempted by despair. Were
we incompetent, or were our patients unanalysable?" (Basseches et
al., 2013, p. 3).
The book is clearly outlined and well structured. It commences with
an introduction to psychic sadomasochism in the clinical realm and the
intersecting forces and development of psychic sadomasochism. This is
followed by descriptions of the case studies and subsequent discussion
of each one. All presenting cases are very well detailed and provide a
means of applying the conceptual aspects of psychic sadomasochism into
an understandable clinical context. Further the presenting cases include
a component of the transcript embellishing the case descriptions. Whilst
a heavy read, these descriptions are essential; indeed, their absence
would have resulted in the provision of a superficial overview. Despite
varied contributions being made, it is evident that the descriptions
provided have an element of unity, and hence overlapping congruent
themes depicting the therapeutic psychic sadomasochistic forces
involved. The descriptions are captivating and encourage the reader to
further explore the sometimes subconscious torment of the patient,
analyst and even the reader. Arguably, the intertwined psychic
sadomasochistic elements involved in transference and
counter-transference reaches beyond the written text and highlights the
vulnerabilities of the therapist. Each chapter has a wide range of
references and are cited very clearly.
In chapter 3, which is entitled, "Sadomasochism in work and
play with Diane" (p.29), Dr. Paula Ellman provides the fascinating
case of Diane, where masochistic elements had been presented in the
context of passive helplessness. This case included issues of sexuality,
disability, relationship concerns and a powerfully motivated
work-oriented modus operandi. The analyst recounts feelings of failing
her patient, "having nothing to offer her" (Ellman, 2013, p.
29) combined with anger at the patient for her apparent lack of
appreciation. The discussion of the case has been explored by Alan Bass,
Jack Novick and Kerry Kelly Novick, and Marianne Robinson. The authors
provided an insightful and fascinating means of evaluating this case.
Whilst these discussions varied, conceptual reference to the beating
fantasy, a term used to exemplify the closeness between pleasure and
suffering, was made. Therefore, a clear depiction of how transference
and counter-transference became enacted within the therapeutic arena was
insightfully presented.
In chapter 7, which is entitled, "Sailing with Mr. B through
waters of hurting love" (p. 95), Dr. Nancy Goodman provides a
descriptive and honest account of her thoughts regarding Mr B. The case
centred on issues of annihilation, or total destruction and castration,
the fear of which manifested in the context of psychic sadomasochistic
forces. The author states: "The repetition compulsion was alive in
regard to constant replaying of someone attacking the other resulting in
a sense of psychic death or a state of overwhelming stimulation"
(Goodman, 2013, p. 95). The discussion of the case was via the riveting
observations of James Grotstein, Margaret Ann Hanley and Terrence
McBride. The authors explored the notions of hurting love, annihilation
anxiety and the use of sadomasochistic relationships to perpetuate
anxiety avoidance. An illuminating and enlightening overview of how
transference and countertransference oscillated between sadism and
masochism and, therefore, helplessness and revenge had been presented.
In chapter 11 entitled, "Eating for emptiness, eating to kill:
Sadomasochism in a woman with bulimia" (p. 157), Dr. Andrea
Greenman presents an interesting account of the case of Mariah who had
entered into treatment mid-life owing to her bulimia. Bulimia is an
eating disorder characterised by binge eating followed by efforts to
prevent weight gain (Hay & Claudino, 2010). The case centred on
issues of childhood abuse where a clear depiction of sadistic
counter-transference and transference between the analyst and patient
became evident. Feelings of aggression, avoidance and narcissism were
concisely captured within the text. The discussion of the case was via
the descriptive accounts of Steven Ellman, Shelley Rockwell and Leon
Wurmser. The sadomasochistic manifestation within transference and
counter-transference presented as a fascinating subconscious battle of
wills between analyst and patient. The lateness of the patient observed
with additional avoidance behaviours, in the context of shame, became
the perceived fear of penetration. This was an intriguing case and
certainly one that touches the reader's relatedness to similar
cases.
In chapter 15, which is entitled, "The primitive superego of
Mr. A: Sadistic revenge fantasies, arousal and the masochistic
remorse" (p.229), Dr. Richard Reichbart provides an honest account
of his patient, Mr. A, describing him as tedious, repetitive and anxiety
provoking, "frequently threatening suicide at the end of the
sessions" (Reichbart, 2013, p. 229). Here, the sadomasochistic
fantasies became more evident as the therapeutic alliance developed.
This was a particularly complex and fascinating case which detailed how
Mr. A withheld information via an unconsciously sadistically aggressive
mind set. Such processes involved were "almost all sexual in
nature" (Reichbart, 2013, p. 231). Sheldon Bach, Harriet Basseches
and Leo Rangell then provided thought-provoking discussions of this
case. Whether the focus centred on narcissism or a faulty Oedipal
developmental issue, where the repressed emotional desires had
transgressed into the fear of homosexuality, the authors captured the
patient's sadomasochistic unconscious fantasies and the different
representations of therapeutic countertransference.
The authors acknowledge the life and death conflict in object
relations theory by detailing the meaning behind the life and death
struggle central to psychoanalytic transference and
counter-transference. Interestingly, the authors explain how "as
psychoanalysis deepens, the battle of the life and death forces
intensifies and repetition compulsions take hold" (Basseches et
al., 2013, p. 6). According to the authors, this repetition may lead to
patient withdrawal and, thus, is critical in understanding ways to
improve the analytical process. Indeed, having a heightened
understanding of these transference and counter-transference forces can
ultimately strengthen the therapeutic alliance. Therefore,
"realising the vital role of the pleasurable addictive quality of
sadomasochism helps to facilitate a transformational symbolising
process" (Basseches et al., 2013, p. 13).
It is potentially an outdated concept to assume that the
application of contemporary psychoanalytic principles is solely to
benefit the psychoanalyst. The authors stress that "readers will be
better able to acknowledge sadomasochism in their patients, in
themselves and in the material and enactments taking place in their
treatments" (Basseches et al., 2013, p. 7). However, this book goes
beyond that and by "capitalizing on our diversity of thought by
creating opportunities for probing clinical dialogue across societies
and schools of thought" (Perlman, 2013, p. xix), it targets a wider
audience of health care professionals and academics in varying
disciplines. In conclusion, this is a thought-provoking and captivating
book. It is an essential read for academics and clinicians working in
the areas of psychoanalysis, counselling, psychiatry and psychology.
Finally, one hopes this book will encourage a better understanding of
psychic sadomasochism and "...facilitate a transformational
symbolising process" (Basseches et al., 2013, p. 13) thus
strengthening the therapeutic alliance between analyst and patient.
Reviewed by Samantha Anne Banbury. Cpsychol, PhD, Cert Couns and
Megan Charlton MSc and Cert Couns
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