Quadrangle.
Hall, David S.
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This DVD takes you back to the early 70's through the eyes of
Deanna and Paul, a formerly married couple and part of a four person
group marriage, 40 years ago. In today's world, we would call it
polyamory, and this story is a great example of how NOT to do it. Two
couples meet, smoke pot, have some fun together, start by kissing each
other's spouse (known and illegal in Tennessee as "gateway
sex"), and then start having sex with each other's spouse. Due
to a fire, one couple moves in with the other couple. They both have
children. Life is fun.
Both couples admittedly had pretty dull marriages, but the fun came
back when they started playing across the marital boundaries. They had
some prior sexual experiments with others, but they didn't consider
themselves swingers. They describe what is often called New Relationship
Energy, that chemical cocktail in the brain that shuts down rational
thinking in favor of the pleasure one is having. After moving in
together, the husbands swapped bedrooms after the kids were asleep. The
narrators admit they didn't have sex with each other at this point.
There is no indication in the film that any real thought was given
to what was happening, there is no evidence in the film of any real
communication by the people involved regarding what they really wanted
at that time, no comments on any agreements they might have made, they
just decided to all live together. They thought they were moving into a
brave new world of alternate lifestyles. It wasn't long before the
women began to have problems, there is some name calling by the Deanna,
who does the majority of the talking. Deanna calls Eleanor a
"bitch" but the viewer is left wondering who really was acting
like one.
Ultimately Deanna announces she is moving out with Eleanor's
husband and the experiment is over. Their lives remain intertwined
thanks to the children.
The story is told by interviews with Deanna and Paul, and
Paul's still photos from the past. It is well done, short and
interesting to watch, especially for those who try to find the way to
live a non-monogamous life. Today the Internet has a lot of good advice
for those who find ethical non-monogamy an interesting and healthy way
of life.