Treat your ghost to tender loving care

EVERY week I am contacted by people who believe they may have spirit activity either in their home or else the workplace.

In about 80 per cent of these cases, there is a natural explanation. Some cases however, involve the presence of a spirit who, for various reasons, has not moved on into the spirit world.

These spirits were once human beings like ourselves. They are in need of healing, and respond well to a sympathetic, caring approach.

Over the past 20 years during investigations, I have never encountered any form of evil entity. I believe that evil, like beauty, is in the eye of the beholder.

People who share their homes with these unwelcome spirits have problems getting anyone to believe or help them. They are usually dismissed as being in need of psychiatric help, or looking for media attention.

In many cases they end up doubting their own sanity. People often sense an atmosphere or presence that disturbs them.

It is not always a spirit presence the occupants are picking up on. Every house has an atmosphere that some people are sensitive to. People who have psychic abilities often sense the "personality" of places they visit.

A house can feel cold and unfriendly or warm and inviting. The earth a house stands on and the stone it was built from, absorb the feelings or energies of the inhabitants. In some cases this feels like a presence to people with psychic sensitivity. I call this an energy problem in a house.

It is possible to re-balance a properties energies by introducing the elements of air, light and fire, as represented by allowing the fresh air in and lighting a candle. Negative energy, and unwanted spirits are nothing to be afraid of.

I have never heard of anyone being harmed in these situations.Please help rid my back pain

Dear Sandra,

I would like to know when I am going to find happiness as I have suffered with my back for a long time and I am going to a chiropractor.

But it seems to get sore more often now.

Do you think I am wasting my time and money going to see this person? What is the real cause for me having this problem?

I would also like to know what the future holds for me as regards my bad back and what I can do to heal myself?

Margaret,

Londonderry

Dear Margaret,

I feel you suffer from stress and tension of the muscles in your neck and shoulders, which causes your back pain.

Massaging this area will help.

Mix three drops of lavender and three drops of eucalyptus aromatherapy oils with 10ml (two teaspoons) of sunflower oil.

If you prefer, you can find a commercial massage product containing these oils.

I feel that regular professional massage would be of more use to you at the moment than chiropractic.

Use the oils mentioned above in your bath for a good relaxing soak. Add five drops of each oil to the bath water.

You can massage your own neck and shoulders every morning and evening, pinching along the muscles of you shoulder and each side of your neck.

Do this before you have a shower, and while in the bath.

When having a shower, direct a strong stream of hot water to your neck and shoulders, and wherever else is painful on your back.

I believe you have very strong healing abilities, and that massage, relaxation and self-healing will improve your condition.

I will send you absent healing every morning for good luck and good health.My family has been cursedDear Sandra,

I have been on very bad terms with my next door neighbour for the last 20 years.

She hated myself and my family and used to do a lot to annoy us. She was found dead in the house six months ago and since then I have had nothing but bad luck. Do you think she is haunting us, or has cursed us?

MOG, Co. Wicklow.

Dear MOG,

I don't believe in curses, but I do believe that some people have more bad luck than others.

If you believe you are cursed, you see everything in a negative light which confirms your original belief.

I can assure you that your neighbour's spirit is not in your house. She is at peace in the spirit world and feels very sorry for all the bad feelings.

To clear the negative atmosphere of your house, I suggest you do a big clear-out of all the rooms.

Leave all the windows in the house open as you do it. Get some lavender aromatherapy oil and burn it in every room - you can use an oil burner (or put a drop on the bulb of a bedside lamp while it is on).

Light a white candle and carry it around the house into each room.

If it goes out, just re-light it. When you have been into every room, place it in the kitchen to burn out.

I feel there is a whole bright new phase coming for you and your family, I will send you absent healing.

Please note I do not personally reply to letters.My guilt at death of sister

Dear Sandra,

Please can you help me. My sister, who I was very close to, died last summer.

She died suddenly just before we were due to go to America. I feel guilty that I'm alive and she is dead.

Even now I keep thinking that I should ring her. Although I know in my heart that she is dead, sometimes my head just won't believe it.

I have a husband, children and grand- children but I still feel a deep hole inside me.

On the day before she died we talked on the phone twice and went down memory lane - something we had not done before.

Sandra, I want to know where she is now. I still expect her to knock at the door, come in and sit on my sofa drinking a hot whisky.

I hate life without her - please help me. I'm 59 and she was 62. Will I ever be happy again?

Phyllis K.

Dear Phyllis,

My heart goes out to you in your time of grief. Having lost my own beloved brother last year I know what you are going through.

On the day before she was taken, your sister and yourself said your goodbyes without either of you realising it.

You are both very psychic and I feel she is with you every day, showering you with love from the spirit world.

She exists in a state of spiritual peace and harmony. Although she is aware of your grief, she is unable to feel the type of pain we do. She will visit you in your dreams to let you know she is well and happy.

Every morning between 9.30 and 10.00 I perform spirit absent healing by placing my hands on your letter, and sending love and light to yourself and your sister.

I use a technique called visualisation which means I picture myself physically with you both, my arms around you, to comfort and heal.

By visualisation, I picture you and your sister in the spirit world, together in each other's arms. In this way I hope to help your dear sister to receive healing from us, and vice versa.

Phyllis, I will do my very best to help you bear your tragic loss. In time, when the intensity of your agony eases, you will know that your sister lives on in your heart forever.

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