摘要:In this article are presented quality investigation results, in this research is evidenced family crisis understanding as regards limit situation of alleged death of one of their members from the family, it can become for them transformation agent in order to understand this crisis was necessary to begin from meaning description phenomenological methodology, from experiences told by family, to arrive their essence describing and identifying category understanding family structure across the life cycle In this way it was arrived understanding that confrontation with limit situation of alleged death can generate transformation process forward growth or like in this case, forward family no evolution due to they don’t recognize of that energy to alter to family members and they are attracted unconsciously individual movements. It concluded that: alleged death it is not unexpected crisis, f rom outer factors, instead of structural crisis expected, cause, it has their root from structural problems resister of the family the accumulation of unconcluded gestalts which drive the family neurotic state, blind point they are actually, instead of insight there is a resist to see their alteration and projection their shade, unconscious, no in charged, denied and repressed.